After having a baby, what are the words that new mothers don’t like to hear the most, even from those close to them? (1) Why is the baby not growing very much? Is it lack of nutrients?

Every baby has its own growth curve. Some babies grow fast, some babies grow slowly, and some babies are born thinner. Some babies are born obese. But some people like to say: Why do other people’s babies look good? Why do other people’s babies look fatter? Is it because your child lacks nutrition?

But these are all difficult problems for beginner mothers. We understand, we can see it, there is no need to point fingers, after all, every child’s physical condition is different. If you keep saying this, mothers will feel that their feeding is unscientific or have a questioning mentality. It's fine if others say this, but if someone close to you also says this, it will make the mother very annoying. After all, relatives know how to raise them. (2) Children are so old that they should be weaned;

Nowadays everyone advocates breastfeeding. If mothers want to exclusively breastfeed, it is good to keep them until they are 1 year old or above. However, there are always people around me who think that it is enough for a child to be exclusively breastfed for more than six months. However, mothers may think that since the baby likes the mother's milk, it is a good thing that they can insist on breastfeeding, and it is not necessary. So long after weaning. If people around you keep saying this, mothers will think that they don't want their children to be too close to them, and they will lose the joy of motherhood. (3) Is it so tiring to raise a baby?

Bringing up a baby is a very difficult task, but because some babies are "angel babies", some babies are very clingy; and some mothers Some mothers need to train for a long time to be able to quickly enter the state of taking care of their baby. But after all, raising a baby is very tiring. If the people around you don't understand your mother at this time, they will say sarcastic remarks: Is raising a baby so tiring? It will make the mother feel very ununderstood.