Nothing happened to celebrities doesn't mean they are of high quality, just lucky!
These things are actually normal, so let's not blame him from a moral high point. We are not good birds.
To tolerate and tolerate other people's mistakes, the saddest thing for a person is that we talk about others, and others don't know who we are at all, which shows that we have no right to speak.
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A person cannot bring you positive energy, but he must bring you negative energy.
Why do I say not to play with people in need, because there is nothing to give others, most of which can add some congestion to others.
Envy, jealousy, hate.
Even though he is envious, he will hate you.
Some people are the sun and shine.
Some people are ice rooms, black holes.
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Love dramas are highly toxic, which makes people mistakenly think that love is common and can be pursued as long as they work hard. They think that people should have a vigorous love all their lives, so they spend a lot of time and energy trapped in the loss and anxiety of love. In fact, although there are no hard and fast standards for true love, there are few. It can even be said that most people will never meet love, but most of them. Did our father meet him? Has our mother seen her? It's all blind date, make do, run-in, and has nothing to do with love.
A marriage that can realize each other's dreams is great.
This is great love.
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Some people will short their friends intentionally or unintentionally, but I like to be more friends around and help my friends grow. If all your friends are doing well, then you won't be bad. When you join forces with this group of friends, everyone will go faster and further.
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Don't approach the man whose heart is scarred by years of obsession, and don't imagine yourself as a saint to save him. Your warmth and love can only be exchanged for his thanks and apologies.
In the same way, don't use others to heal your wound before it heals.
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I saw a word called "static hard work" today.
It means that you want to buy things when they are there, which can stimulate consumers' desire to the greatest extent.
I happened to buy a lunch box online recently, and when it was mailed to me, the words "Never lose morale" were written on the outer packaging, which immediately reminded me of this brand.
In fact, many brands will work hard on product design, such as eye shadow and lipstick of flowers, which will have static sales power if they look good.
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Why can people live clearly and transparently?
Because I have long let go of my illusions about the world and human nature, and I have not expected too much about people and things.
On the contrary, it is easier to get happiness, because all the gains are unexpected.
People have long accepted that people are born lonely, and all kinds of loneliness can never be fully empathetic with you.
Want to understand these, the state is more stable.
It will also be less and less to guess and ponder other people's ideas, only to see personal feelings. Stay comfortable, leave uncomfortable, and feel refreshed.
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If the child's talent is beyond the parents' cognitive range (which often happens), what should parents do to avoid it?
The principle of judgment is to satisfy two elements:
(1) Is the child hurt physically and financially?
(2) Does the child hurt the body and property of others?
If not, it is a voluntary transaction, and parents can't understand it for a while, or they can do nothing, no matter what, it won't hurt.
Parents keep learning and making progress, which is an important part of education and does not delay children.
Parents have a broad vision and a high realm, and the children have a large space for activities, and the children can fly.
Parents stand still, and most children can't control it well, just two or three chickens.
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Three types of power:
The first is called coercive force.
I put the knife rest around your neck, and you do as I say. Or I am the boss and do whatever I want you to do.
The second is trading power.
I'll make a deal with you, and then you must listen to me, because you get the benefit.
The third kind is called * * * cognition.
That is, the two of us will do one thing. You listen to me not because I forced you, not necessarily because you got much benefit from it, but because you thought it was worth doing together.
If an organization has only mandatory power and transactional power, but no intellectual power, it will be difficult for it to operate normally.
Just like a car without lubricating oil, its structure is like that, but it is very troublesome to run and the organization is easy to collapse.
In marriage, too, the two couples have more and more in common, such as common property, common children and common friends, so the division cost and exit cost will be higher and higher, and the marriage will be more stable.
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In the future, if people want to eat, they must have two things:
First-class skills+first-class output.
The output mode can be text, painting and video, as long as it can be output. The trajectory is very important, so we should reduce the dimension as much as possible.
What is dimensionality reduction? This means that you have to reduce one dimension.
For example, you used to be a college student and ran to the track of migrant workers.
How can we be better than others?
That is, we take the initiative to choose a slow track. When others are pursuing fast, we choose slow.
People don't look at what you say.
It depends on what you do, especially what you do.
So we should do things slowly, accumulate slowly in ten years, and do more and more competitive things. No unique skills, all income is temporary!
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If you want to succeed, you must have the ability of psychological cutting.
The so-called psychological cutting means making a decisive decision, taking it up and letting it go.
What has happened, good or bad, should be cut out of your mind in time, don't cling to the past, and never think meaningless.
The most important thing is to grasp the present, not to meet the future. Doing what you can do now is the best start. ?
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Whenever you don't want to do it in a down-to-earth way, but you want to skip it;
Or you are impatient and want to avoid some invisible but necessary steps;
And when you let the pressure knock you down, lie flat and chat and brush your mobile phone;
Calm down and think about it. All these things that make you weaker and weaker are exactly what your enemies want to see. How can you let them get what they want?
So what to do is clearly in front of you.
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Fang Wenqing said a word before:
The fewer people, the more complete your life will be.
If your family is well-off and well-off, your parents will arrange your work, future and study.
Your life was written by your parents.
Only when you have nothing but to fight for everything by yourself can your potential be aroused.
When desire is greater than ability, pain arises.
If you want to eliminate the pain, you can only create more value by yourself.
Others are unreliable and can only rely on themselves, so the road of life has been rewritten.
The meaning of suffering is not to make you suffer, but to make you overcome and change.
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The biggest misunderstanding of success is to quickly find a secret, a trick and a killer.
The fact is, to really achieve something, you need a system, a network of contacts and long-term accumulation.
Accumulate to a certain extent, you will find that there are many paths to reach your goal, and the number of paths increases exponentially with the depth and width of your own network.
It is becoming a piece of cake that the east is not bright and the west is bright. It's no big deal to find what you want.
Some people suddenly went up because of coincidence, but if they didn't accumulate too weak a foundation, they would collapse quickly in minutes.