It's better to forget about each other than to be in love with each other. -from Zhuangzi. Great master.
Feeling: One of the methods of Taoist self-cultivation is to "sit and forget". The so-called "forgetting" means that people consciously or unconsciously forget foreign objects, forget their own existence, let nature take its course, let nature take its course, and reach the realm of "Tao" ... In this way, Zhuangzi's so-called "taking the meaning of heaven and earth, resisting the debate of six qi, swimming endlessly" can be realized.
But "forgetting" is easier said than done. In this world, all sentient beings, worldly desires and ambitions, how can we easily forget the word. I remember a line in Wong Kar-wai's movie "Time has passed": People have too much pain just because they have a good memory. There is a kind of wine in the film called "Drunkenness leads a dream to death". People who drink alcohol will forget everything in the past. Without memory, there will be no more pain ... Look at the pain of "caring for each other and taking care of each other" in the last struggle for survival. If they can forget the original water life in the rivers and lakes, they don't have to "blow moisture and spit" each other to keep their bodies moist, but they can also start a new life that suits them according to their own environment. Therefore, when it is time to forget, forget the past bravely, and often you can be a brand-new yourself; If you know how to forget, you won't be sad for today's loneliness because you are too obsessed with the glitz of the past, and you will be devastated; Knowing how to forget is because we know that there is a better future waiting for us to remember … so forgetting is a great wisdom!