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Language is the most hurtful weapon
A few days ago, Teacher Zhang shared a piece of news in the WeChat group: "Jinan female college students committed suicide by taking poison: those children who were bent on dying lost to their parents."

What six sentences? -1. "If you cry again, I won't want you." 2. "Are you so worthy of me?" 3. "Others are much better than you" 4. "Who else can you be?" 5. "You are a loser!" 6. "You know nothing!"

Teacher Zhang made a long speech with great interest:

"Tell a sad fact: I should be good at discovering the advantages of students, because I said before that when we are behind in academic performance, we should start from many aspects, especially from discovering his advantages and advantages to encourage and motivate. It is really not a learning material, but also can develop his other advantages and potentials.

However, I find more and more that almost all students with poor grades, especially those with poor grades, often feel that "nothing can be done"-physical, aesthetic, labor and even moral! Maybe I didn't find it with my heart, and I'm also reflecting on what caused it. I think parents should reflect on their children!

At least one of the parents should learn to grow up, and at least one of them (preferably the mother) should accompany the children with heart! If two people are lazy and impatient in educating their children, it will be difficult for them to become adults!

Our father, in all the articles, said that his parents were not good, no, he was almost! Because of this, every time a child has something important, I am sure I have no conditions to create conditions and find a way to accompany me.

For example, it is dark in the morning and evening in junior high school and senior high school, and my eyes really can't see clearly. I can only follow the car in front with the help of lights within five meters, and I am very nervous when I am abandoned by the car in front. But the children are in a bad mood. I must pick them up during the exam, because they are in a good mood with me, and I don't want them to be' worse' by his father.

Until now, it's all me In a good mood, you are willing to overcome any difficulties. I won't let his father accompany me, because I am an adult, and I am tortured to death by his father's verbal violence, not to mention that they are still children!

Slowly, I insisted on learning, growing and influencing, and finally let his father at least achieve' don't criticize if you don't care about children, but think about how to say good things if you care about children'. The child's grades are not too good, but at least he went to high school smoothly. The most important thing is the child's personality, more and more sunshine! "