When you meet a villain, the more entangled you are, the more you will hurt yourself. The villain is like a thorn. If you grab it and put it in your hand, you will feel pain. The more you hold on, the more painful it will be. Only letting go is the right choice. Smart people, when encountering villains, stay away from them, instead of contacting them often, let alone walking side by side.
My colleague is Zhenzhen, very honest on the surface, and has a good attitude towards work. No matter what you ask him to do, he will agree and complete it on his own initiative. Last winter, the unit made personnel adjustments. Many people moved their positions and got better positions than before. Only colleague Dou Chun not only failed to get a good position, but also had his salary reduced. The reason is that Dou Chun often asked Zhenzhen to help him with things, but in the end, Zhenzhen finished the work, pretended to be honest, and went to his boss to complain behind his back, saying that Dou Chun was poor at work and liked to push back and bully Zhenzhen. people. Therefore, the boss's impression of Dou Chun was not good at all.
Dou Chun was definitely in a bad mood after his salary was cut. Several colleagues went to comfort Dou Chun. But Dou Chun said, "It's nothing. I will pay more attention in the future and actively adjust myself." After that, Dou Chun did not have an enmity with Zhenzhen, but just stopped dating him. Dou Chun also became more active. He volunteered to work overtime several times in the unit. The most incredible thing is that one time Zhenzhen's father fell down. Zhenzhen didn't have a car, so it was Dou Chun who took Zhenzhen's father to the hospital. Dou Chun's practice of "repaying evil with kindness" made Zhenzhen feel very guilty. When the unit made another personnel adjustment this year, Dou Chun was promoted to deputy director of the personnel department.
When you meet a villain, don't care about it, just try to avoid it, and have a good attitude, and you will be in a good mood. Things planned by villains have become a thing of the past and will no longer affect me for a long time. If Dou Chun and Zhenzhen were at odds with each other in the workplace, Dou Chun would probably be even more embarrassed in the workplace, and he might even be fired