I think parents should reserve their education for their children. However, for children who have been strictly disciplined and raised since childhood, I feel a little pitiful about who will be more filial to their parents when they grow up, because the choice of children to be filial to their parents has something to do with their education and their parents' words and deeds, and has little to do with discipline.

First of all, children's choice of stocking is not only a respect for nature, but also a respect and friendship for themselves.

Just like you think painting is good, but your children like dancing but don't like painting. If you force her (him) to give up dancing and learn painting, maybe he (she) will find it fun and like painting after learning, but they subconsciously feel that they have no choice and gradually lose their opinions in communication with you.

You can take more time to improve yourself, improve yourself and set an example for your children. However, if you take children as the center and gradually lose yourself, in this case, you may go to extremes in treating children, leading to the deterioration of mother-child relationship or mother-daughter relationship.

Secondly, giving children a kind of stocking can make them more confident, make decisions or do things more decisively, and such children are more successful.

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Finally, stocking is not regardless, but timely guidance; Stocking is not irresponsible, but to make children more independent; Stocking is not a lazy choice for parents, but a manifestation of being smart and being a fool.

All children who are willing to be released can understand their parents' pains and move towards the right goal.