My grades were mediocre, I barely passed math, I knew nothing about physics, and I had never been someone else’s child. I studied musical instruments and painted for a few years, but had neither talent nor interest. Give up; I’m not beautiful, I don’t have long legs or waistcoat lines, and every time I lose a few pounds, I will regain it quickly; I squeezed into the subway during the morning and evening rush hours, breathing hard and unable to touch the ground; I fell in love several times, and sometimes Being left behind, sometimes leaving first.

I don’t have a cheating life, but I still feel like I’m pretty good. I have been studying for many years and have gone to some places. I have seen the magnificent starry sky and eaten delicious hot pot. My parents understand me and my friends take care of me. I have some small wishes and secretly work for them. They work hard.

I am Zhang San and Li Si, the most ordinary one among all living beings. I am often discouraged by life, but I never give up.

2. Try hard to get something. In fact, as long as you stay calm and seek truth from facts, you can achieve your goal easily and without knowing it.

But if you try too hard, make too much noise, are too childish, or too inexperienced, you will cry, scratch, and pull, like a child pulling on the tablecloth, but in the end you will get nothing but the tablecloth. All the good stuff is thrown to the ground and will never be obtained.

——Kafka's "The Castle"

3. It is easy to ignite sparks in the virtual social space, a good-looking photo, a sentimental speech... can be easily exchanged One's favor. Then the two people chatted and discovered some common points, and over time they began to care about each other. We thought this was love. Actually no, it was just two lonely and bored people cooperating to pass the time.

4. You must develop some hobbies, not empty and far-off goals but real or even vulgar eating, drinking and shitting. You must wake up knowing at least what else you can do today. Go to the hottest noodle shop downstairs for breakfast, water the potted plants on the windowsill, catch up on a new episode that was just updated, and chat with an old friend. You must accumulate this small expectation and happiness, so as not to be dragged down by unattainable dreams and uncontrollable love.

5. In middle-class families in China, there are generally only two ways to teach their children. The first is to let them be domineering and not care at all. It is okay to curse people and hit them. Inside or in front of the door, they are a tyrant and an overlord. But when they go outside, they are like a spider that has lost its web and is immediately powerless. . Second, the child is given cold treatment or scolding all day long, which is worse than hitting him, making him shrink back, like a slave or a puppet. However, the parents call it obedient and think it is a success in education. When they come outside, they will be like this. A little bird that is temporarily out of the cage will never fly or jump. ”

——Lu Xun

6. I hope that Chinese young people will get rid of the air conditioning and just move up, without having to listen to the words of those who give up on themselves. Those who can do things will do things, and those who can speak out will speak out. One point When heat shines, it can shine like a firefly. There is no need to wait for the torch: I am the only light. ——Lu Xun's "Hot Wind"

7. When you are not motivated, you are killing someone. If you are not careful, you will kill your own life. - Cai Kangyong

8. What you call anxiety and confusion is actually laziness and greed. To be precise, it is the contradiction between physical laziness and hardworking brain.

9. I particularly like people who have independent personalities, know how to take care of themselves, and can enjoy life to the fullest after handling things properly. They rarely show aggression because of their own suffering. They are not incited by cheap words and emotions and have no regrets because of their strong heart. These people also don't care whether others like them.