A woman's happiness in living should come from her self-improvement and self-reliance, rather than relying on anyone, especially no man.
There is an old saying: "Men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." But times have changed after all, and earth-shaking changes have taken place. They are really completely different.
Regardless of whether a man enters the right profession or not, whether a woman marries the right man or the wrong man has a great impact on her life, but it is by no means an unchangeable fate of a woman's life.
Women, the greatest joy and happiness in life, should rely on themselves to obtain it. They cannot rely on anyone, especially relying on men is even more unreliable.
Sadhguru has a famous saying: You are free only when your happiness and happiness are not attached to anyone or anything. Otherwise, whether you are in jail or walking on the street, you are still a prisoner of yourself.
It should be said that a woman is lucky to marry the right man, but because she has an excellent husband or a good family background and has no worries about food and clothing, she lives a parasite-like life and does not work hard to create. This kind of After all, life is not solid and there are crises. The happiness built by relying on men is not stable, or there is a crisis that may break out at some point. Besides, a woman who has lost herself and cannot be independent at all will not only lose her self-esteem and self-love, but will also be looked down upon by men, and she will still live a humble life in the end.
If a woman who marries the wrong man has ideals, beliefs and pursuits, and through unremitting efforts, she will definitely rely on herself to change her destiny and create the life she wants.
Therefore, women must remember not to depend on anyone, but to rely on themselves, and they must believe that they can do it, and they must be able to do it.