An ancient poem about learning to refuse 1. Learn the famous saying of rejection

1. Rejection is a right, just as survival is a right. (Bi Shumin)

2. Rejecting others must be tactful, because no one likes being rejected; Be generous when you are rejected by others, because the person who rejects you always has his reasons. (Wang Guozhen)

Heaven and earth provide endless fun for open-minded people to enjoy, but refuse narrow-minded people. (Hugo)

Modesty often makes it difficult for others to refuse your request. This is also the key to one's success. (Kōnosuke Matsushita)

Only life is sacred, but I refuse to sacrifice others' lives for myself. (Roland)

2. Learn to reject this famous saying

Reject the hustle and bustle of the city, and you get a faint peace in the countryside.

Reject coquettish poetry, and you will gain a sunny and pure self. Reject the past, and you will gain a confident and relaxed smile.

Learn to refuse, and you will have a vast sky full of charm. Learn to refuse, and you will fly in your unique spiritual home.

Tao Qian's original intention was to be an official after China's entry into WTO, but after experiencing the dark storm of officialdom, he resolutely gave up officialdom. Since then, I have lived a comfortable life of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely".

Take a trip to Shan Ye with the nature of "nature loves hills" and enjoy the beautiful scenery of "lush vegetation and spring water flowing". I even imagined a secluded life in Taoyuan: the traffic was heavy and the chickens and dogs heard about each other. Among them, Tao Qian, who came and went, despised and refused officialdom because he didn't bow to the villains in the village for the sake of fighting rice, thus gaining the pleasure of farming and the leisure of indulging in piano books and poems.

Because of his refusal, Tao Qian got his ideal home. Wang Wei is another model of pastoral poets.

After staying in the chaotic officialdom for a long time, he refused the chaos of officialdom and devoted himself to the mountainous countryside he had been longing for. Playing the piano and drinking in "Empty Mountain after Rain, Standing on Autumn Night".

Forget the troubles in the world and see through the disputes in the world of mortals. Listen to the sound of spring on a moonlit night, hear the bells in ancient temples, take a fishing boat on the river, and visit Huannv by the stream.

Listening to the sound of green mountains and green waters in Ding Dong, I drew "moonlight in pine forest and crystal stone in stream" into my heart. Because of the refusal, Wang's nymphs are in his chest and the moon is in his arms.

There are too many temptations in life and endless material desires, and the result of wanting everything is ultimately nothing. Only by learning to refuse, will there be a noble feeling of "resting yin without evil wood, drinking water must be radical"; Only by learning to refuse can we have a bright moon and clear spring of spirit.

3. What are the poems about "learning to give up"?

1: Dream is desire, thinking is action.

Dreams are the crystallization of dreams and dreams. -"Poetry Collection" II: Wise abandonment is better than blind persistence, because there is only a paper separating persistence from paranoia, and it is difficult to grasp the sense of proportion.

-"Poetry Collection" III: Where there are plenty of herbs in the end of the world, why unrequited love for a flower? -"Poetry Collection" 4: Use strong desire as the backing to realize your dream, make your desire crazy and make it the most important thing in your mind.

-"Poetry Collection" 5: Watching time flow away like this, counting more and more days, slowly beginning to forget, forget. -"Poetry Collection" 6: People live in other people's memories.

When everyone forgets you, you don't exist -"Poetry Collection" 7: I must act immediately and never give up! -"Poetry Collection" 8: These difficulties are often not the test of God. If I work hard, I will have 50% success. If I give up, I will fail 100 percent.

In the face of setbacks, I didn't give up, but put all my energy into my study and seek happiness from it. I walk on the road of knowledge and further explore my own treasure house of knowledge.

-Poetry 9: When you can fly, don't give up flying; Don't give up dreaming when you can dream; Never give up love when you can. -Poetry Collection 10: In the stormy life, we often learn from the captain, and throw away heavy cargo in stormy weather to reduce the weight of the ship.

-Poems 1 1: Face the past with the least regret, the present with the least waste, and the future with the most dreams. -Poems 12: It takes a few days to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

-"Poetry Collection" 13: Happiness will be doubled if you know how to share. -Poems 14: Dreams are by no means dreams, and the difference between them is usually a distance worth pondering.

-"Poetry Collection" 15: I once stared at your face, trying to keep your scared smile for a moment; Later, I looked at your back and wanted to keep the sweetness of youth for a moment; Now I look back and want to forget you forever! -Poetry Collection 16: Meet the people you met among thousands of people; In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, we happened to meet, neither earlier nor later. -"Poetry Collection" Liang Zhu, the flowers in spring are withered, and the red apricots are small.

Swallows fly, green water people go around. There are few branches blowing willows, and there are plenty of fragrant grass in the sea! Swing inside and outside the wall.

The layman in the wall, the beauty in the wall laughs. Laughter dies in silence, but passion is mercilessly annoyed.

Appreciation of famous sentences: there are few willows blowing on the branches, but there are many fragrant grasses on earth. These are the two most praised sentences.

There are fewer and fewer catkins in blowing in the wind; All over the world, where is there no green grass? "Liumian" is catkin.

Catkin flying, spring will be exhausted, although sad; And the grass is green, which is a realm. Su Shi's broad-mindedness can be seen.

Qu Yuan's "Tianya" sentence in Li Sao, "Why don't you care about the past?" It was Bu Zheling's words that inspired Qu Yuan, and his thoughts were consistent with what Su Shi said in Ding Feng: "This peaceful place is my hometown". Even so, these two words still contain a lot of bitterness and sorrow.

According to "Talk about Ci under the Forest", "Zi Zhan is in Huizhou, sitting around with Chaoyun. The young woman (Frost God) first arrived, her wood was rustling and she was sad for autumn. She told Yun to tell the truth and sang' Flowers fade, stay red'.

The cloud will sing, and tears will fill her skirt. Zi Zhan saw the reason and replied:' slaves can't sing, there are few willows blowing on the branches, and there is no fragrant grass on earth.

Contacting Su Shi's experience at that time was quite thought-provoking. Su Shi drifted all his life and was finally banished to Lingnan, far away from Wan Li.

At this time, he has reached an old age. Looking around, his hometown is almost far away. How similar this situation is to catkins flying in the wind! Appreciation of the whole poem: Su Shi once married a maid named Chaoyun in Hangzhou, and later took her as a concubine and served Su Shi for 23 years.

Chao Yun is beautiful, virtuous, good at singing and dancing, accompanying Su Shi from place to place, ups and downs in officialdom, going through numerous difficulties and suffering numerous blows, and is Su Shi's closest and most beloved companion in adversity. In Huizhou, one day, Su Shi and Chaoyun sat around. "The girl first arrived, the wood was rustling, and she was sad for autumn."

So Su Shi asked Chao Yun to sing "Dead Hua Lian". He sang a few words to the cloud and suddenly choked up and burst into tears. Su Shi asked him why, and replied, "I can't sing, but there are few branches blowing willow, and there are no fragrant grass on earth."

After that, I couldn't help but burst into tears. Since then, Chaoyun has been unhappy all day and died soon. Really: a song that hurts spring, heartbroken and affectionate.

After that, Su Shi was unhappy and never listened to this word again. Is this the song "Recent Love"? Spring scenery

The key point of this word is hurting spring. Spring flowers wither, residual red falls to the ground, and green apricots begin to bloom.

Chun Yan flies very low in the house surrounded by green water. Catkin floats into the distance, where is the grass where it lives? Everything is just withered spring scenery; What stirs up in my heart is the feeling that the passage of time hurts spring.

Thinking about wandering with Su Dongpo, how can Chaoyun not cry and be sad? Su Shi smiled and said, "I am sad about autumn, but you are hurt by spring." Sorrow for autumn and spring also reflects the deep fear of time anxiety. Connecting with the background of Su Shi's ci, we can realize that Su Shi's ambition was difficult to be rewarded at that time, and we regret the passage of time. After suffering, like Residual Red, Chaoyun's sad and even desperate mood can be imagined.

Injury is the most important thing. Su Shi skillfully grasped a detail in life and created a tragicomedy full of rational interest.

The "wall" is still separate. Beauty in the wall, layman in the wall, separated by a wall.

Beauty laughs, pedestrians are emotional. Laughter doesn't know there is someone outside the wall, but emotional people can't see anyone when they hear laughter.

Laughter and laughter drift away, but affectionate pedestrians give birth to infinite troubles out of thin air. This sad and lingering emotion, on the surface of the work, seems to describe the encounter in life; It deeply reflects Su Shi's political depression when he lived in Mizhou.

"When will Feng Tang be sent to the cloud?" It reveals Su Shi's complex of longing for the court's understanding. However, there is a wall between Su Shi and the imperial court. Isn't the metaphor of "beauty" the meaning of Qu Yuan's "vanilla beauty"? The despair of facing the clouds may be the tragedy born of this separation.

4. Poetry about rejecting mediocrity

The biggest disadvantage of mediocre people is that they often feel better than others. Franklin

2, die silently, but life is mediocre. Homer

3. A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic. -Bernard Shaw

4. If you have talent, diligence can play a role; If your intelligence is average, diligence can make up for it. Joe Reynolds

5. Not born for mediocrity. Seneca

6. Only a mediocre person's life is empty and tasteless. Chernyshevski

7. Emotional apathy makes people mediocre. -Diderot

8. Some people are mediocre, but they try their best. They are better than those who are outstanding but perfunctory. -Jane Austen

9. If a person intends to remain satisfied and mediocre forever without obstacles, then he will be stupid and confused, as complacent as an ox. -Brown

Life is hard. For those who are unwilling to be mediocre, it is a struggle day and night, often tragic, without glory and happiness, but in loneliness and silence. ..... They can only rely on themselves, but sometimes even the strongest people can't help wasting time in suffering. -romain rolland

1 1. Mediocre people are mediocre because of their ignorance and stubbornness. Emerson

12, the biggest reason for studying is to get rid of mediocrity and have a wonderful life one day earlier; A day later is an extra day of mediocrity. -Yu

13, mediocre people always complain about what they don't understand. La Rochefoucauld

14, mediocre people care about how to spend their time, and talented people try their best to use their time. -Schopenhauer

15, mediocrity and genius are incompatible. -E. Hubbard

16, we don't have to envy the talents of others, and we don't have to lament our mediocrity; Everyone has his own personality charm. The most important thing is to know your personality and develop it. -Kōnosuke Matsushita

17, this kind of elegance is mediocre and inferior. Hugo

18, a mediocre life makes people unhappy all their lives, and a turbulent life makes people feel the meaning of survival. Daisaku Ikeda

19, many hypocritical people use rudeness to cover up their mediocrity; You hit them, they are like balloons stuck by pins, flat and flat. -Balzac