First of all, the interpersonal barriers brought by online dating. The survey shows that the unreality of online dating reaches 87%, and the deception reaches 43%. The interpersonal obstacles caused by this mainly include onlineness, interpersonal trust crisis and various communication conflicts. Students are addicted to the internet, divorced from reality, and depressed by making friends online. Online communication with anonymity or pseudonyms in virtual communities such as chat rooms can neither standardize the authenticity of people's speeches, nor openly admit or acquiesce in the false speeches of communicators. A man with five big and three thick can play an angel of love with a sweet and touching feminine nickname. This online interpersonal trust crisis further affects the establishment and development of good interpersonal relationships with others.
Secondly, the personality disorder brought by online dating. Internet interpersonal communication is anonymous. Because student netizens think they don't have to take any responsibility for their words and deeds, their words are often very direct and frank. When a person's behavior habits are formed, they may be transformed into personal personality traits. The aggressive words and deeds developed by students in the practice of online life may strengthen the aggressive factors in their personality traits and form an aggressive personality. Now I have been advocating the purification of network language, including this.
Because the network is in the rising period of rapid development, there are many immature and imperfect places, coupled with the relative lag of network management and network culture development, as well as the differences of individual psychological quality factors of netizens, the network will inevitably bring a series of negative effects on the psychological health of netizens.
Based on the above points, we think that the disadvantages of making friends online outweigh the advantages.
In favor: the other debater has never understood the particularity of middle school students. Middle school students are educated by the school, under the guidance of teachers and under the control of parents. Can't this avoid some disadvantages?
Counterparty: Just now, the other debater said that primary school students are educated at school, so do they really have correct judgment on online information? At noon today, CCTV Legal Report just broadcast a news report about a pornographic website named "Young Women and Beautiful Women" just uncovered in Shangqiu, Henan Province. Among them, about 5700 people visit the website every day, and more than 50% of them are middle school students. Is this the "verdict" that the other debater said?
In favor: The opposing debater made a generalization error. More than 50% of the 5700 people who visit websites are middle school students, so only 2500 people visit pornographic websites. How many middle school students are there in China? So we can deny all the benefits of middle school students surfing the Internet?
Opposing party: The opposing party should know that we only know some materials, and there are still many pornographic websites that have not been found out!
Founder: I also want to tell my opponent a material. In Hangzhou, 93% middle school students can control themselves and not go to unhealthy websites.
Counterparty: The other debater just emphasized that middle school students are controlled by their parents at home, but because of the overly sensitive economic control at home, internet addicts happily go to underground websites. Who else will be bound to the underground website?
Founder: Do Internet addicts eat Lazar and drink on underground websites? Will they eventually go home to school?
Against: Wrong! Last semester, Qiushi magazine in our school believed that everyone had forgotten, and everyone should remember to make unannounced visits to those underground Internet cafes. Oh! Right here (picking up search magazines), those bosses just feed them, drink them, and even stay in Internet cafes for several days without going home!
Pro: Please note that these Internet cafes are not the correct way to surf the Internet that we advocate. This is a matter of national laws and regulations. thank you
Counterparty: I want to point out to my opponents that the network is open and borderless, which makes it difficult for the law to play its role, and it is difficult to define the laws on the internet, so it is doubtful to solve these drawbacks of the network by law.
Pro: I also want to tell my opponent that the boundlessness of the network lies in location and is also bound by law. thank you
Counterparty: But as far as I know, no country's laws can correctly restrict websites. Every year, the cyber crime rate is increasing at a rate of 40%, and the annual detection rate is less than 19%.
Professor: So, may I ask another debater, do you mean the crime of cyber crime against middle school students?
Opposing party: The opposing party should know that most of the high-level hackers so far are middle school students who are eager to learn and have excellent computer skills, but their hearts have deteriorated.
Agree: The other party should admit that you can receive education online. And we don't deny that there may be other pollution on the internet, but what we are saying is that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages!
Counterparty: The debater just said that it is a trend for middle school students to surf the Internet. But is every trend reasonable? For example, nowadays, in some countries, the sense of guilt is on the rise. Can it be said that the advantages of rising crime rate outweigh the disadvantages?
Dear: My opponent, don't you have to wait until the Internet matures and the day before you are buried?
Counterparty: We didn't say that the Internet was not good!
Pro: We just emphasized that the advantages of surfing the Internet outweigh the disadvantages?
Counterparty: There are advantages and disadvantages, but the premise of our argument is that middle school students surf the Internet. The three major problems of middle school students' nature and network have already said that the contradiction between them is irreconcilable, so ...
Agree: Another debater noticed that at this stage, middle school students mainly use the Internet as a learning tool and communication tool, but the disadvantages are only side effects.
Pro: I have repeatedly emphasized the education of middle school students by schools and parents, but the other side just turned a deaf ear! (It's time for the square)
PRESIDENT: Thank you debaters. Just now, the free debate was pointed at. Next, let's listen to how the four debaters on both sides summed up their statements.
Concluding remarks against the Fourth Debate: Thank you, Chairman! Hello, judges, teachers and classmates!
Today, the other debater cited a lot of examples, exaggerating how good middle school students are surfing the Internet! It can lightly erase a series of disadvantages brought by middle school students surfing the Internet, even as gently as a spider's web! This attitude of not respecting the facts and seeing only the trees but not the forest, or that one leaf is blind, is really flattering! At the same time, I can't explain the characteristics of middle school students in today's debate. You should know that people are self-aware! More importantly, there is no standard for this comparison of advantages and disadvantages today, so where does your argument come from?
Today, starting from the self-pursuit and healthy growth of middle school students, we discuss this topic full of subjective intentions with each other. For better or worse, isn't our ultimate goal to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages? Recognizing the seriousness of the problem and then trying to solve it is the fundamental starting point of our position today. Let me sum up our point again:
First, only by recognizing the three major problems of the current network can we pursue making the network a pure land. The helplessness of legal sanctions, the paleness of moral norms and the backwardness of technical restrictions all make people of insight feel worried and uneasy. Look at those underground internet cafes and the web interfaces that middle school students browse. Really? Quot Pornography and garbage Qi Fei, lies and violence are the same color ". Facts tell us that if middle school students don't control the Internet, how can we convince the society that we are the bright future of the motherland?
Second, only by recognizing that middle school students are a special group can we face up to the reality and problems. We never expect every middle school student who goes online to become a prophet, saint or saint, but it is a long and tortuous process from heteronomy to self-discipline. Only the almighty "God" can send countless "angels" down to say to every middle school student surfing the Internet, "Hey, man, this thing is see no evil." But the facts also tell us that middle school students are often out of curiosity or impulse, deliberately looking for some pornographic content, trying to get information, and then causing social problems such as sexual crimes. At this moment, what do you think God will think? He would just say, "I'm sorry! It's not that my heart is too soft, but I'm helpless. "
Third, only by recognizing the disadvantages of middle school students surfing the Internet can we mobilize all social forces and various means to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. We are flowers in May, but when flowers are eroded by pests, we can only get rid of the shackles of the network and embrace the times with youth. We are the rising sun, but the sun is sometimes covered by dark clouds. Only when you get off the net can you ignite the future with your life! "Castle Peak cannot be covered, after all, it flows eastward". We have a dream: in the early morning of the new century, when I finally take a look at the spiritual home of mankind, we middle school students are meeting new challenges with a new look and state! thank you
Summary statement of the fourth debate: Thank you, Chairman! Hello, debaters, teachers and classmates! First of all, I want to do some analysis on the opponent's defense. Admittedly, the other side's defense is clever and wise, but the fact is not polished, and the loopholes in the other side's defense are still clearly visible: just now, a friend defending the other side pointed out that some students surf the Internet to browse some unhealthy websites or commit criminal acts. But is this really the case? I might as well make some bold assumptions. If there is no internet, won't those middle school students who lack self-control ability read some unhealthy books or commit other crimes? So I think this is a question of mentality rather than the nature of the network. Secondly, I would like to make the following analysis of this debate:
A, about middle school students, refers to 13- 19 years old students at school. This group of people has the following characteristics: ① Their age determines that they will become the builders of tomorrow, and they shoulder the heavy responsibility of holding up the future. Their task is to keep up with the times. Master science and technology in time; The age of middle school students also makes them curious about new things and lack self-control; Therefore, their lives are inseparable from the leadership of teachers and parents, and their world is always protected by society, schools and families.
Second, about surfing the Internet. What is a network? Network refers to an entertainment tool that integrates learning, communication and relaxation at an appropriate time. Moreover, it is not an ordinary tool, it has irreplaceable advantages: 1, it can break the boundaries between time and space, let people communicate with each other anytime and anywhere, and make information processing more systematic and comprehensive; 2. Make information flow more timely and convenient, so education chooses the Internet and the world chooses the Internet. This is an era of rapid development of science and technology, talent competition has become the mainstream of world competition, and education is also facing reform in the long-awaited process. The emergence of network has undoubtedly become a good helper for educational reform. Facing the colorful space of the Internet, we can easily listen to the lectures of famous teachers and enjoy the wonderful space in an immersive way. Our study is no longer limited to books, and we gradually have scientific literacy.
Of course, we don't deny the disadvantages of the network. Because every new thing has advantages and disadvantages, but as our debater has proved, if people are more widely exposed to the advantages of things, how can we say that the disadvantages outweigh the advantages? Just like eating fish. Sometimes we get caught in the throat by fishbone, but because of these bones, can we only say eat? Quot more harm than good "? No Because the fishbone only gets stuck in the throat occasionally, if you are careful, safety can be avoided; But as long as we eat fish, we will certainly get nutrition. The same is true for middle school students surfing the Internet; Therefore, we have every reason and confidence to say that the advantages of primary school students surfing the Internet outweigh the disadvantages! thank you