To live a good life, we should remember three things: being able to resist things, causing less trouble and not being afraid of things.
Being able to resist things is verve, which is what Mencius said, "Although thousands of people will go."
Less worry is prudence, which is what Confucius said: "Don't attract people with words, don't waste words with people".
Fear of things is courage, which is what Zhuangzi said: "Knowing poverty leads to life. If you know when it is difficult, you will not be afraid. " .
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What can carry things? It's a bright moon in the mountains, and it's hard to give up.
Writer Yu Hua once said: "There are many outstanding people among the younger generation in China, but few people can handle things." .
As the saying goes, "If the sky is a great responsibility of the Sri Lankan people, we must first satisfy their wishes …" Difficulties are the first step of growth, and it is a difficult eclosion process from cocoon to butterfly, but no one can avoid this process.
It has been said that frustration is a good opportunity to temper virtue. The more difficult it is, the more persistent it is, and it will surely win. Zuo failed in the science exam many times. Faced with the cynicism of others, he didn't feel depressed at all, but re-planned his life.
Difficulties in life are nothing. If you encounter difficulties, think about it. There are people who are more difficult and bitter than you. To be a man, we should not only learn to look up, but also learn to look down.
Adversity is easy to break, prosperity is difficult to keep. Being able to hold on to things not only means forging ahead in difficulties, but also means keeping your initial heart in your achievements.
Fan Zhongyan once said: "Don't be proud of your achievements, don't be complacent, and don't be confused by your achievements and go astray."
There are always many forked paths on the road of life, and you may go the wrong way if you are not careful. When you make achievements, you might as well look up at people who are better than yourself and look at the gap to calm your restless heart.
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There is an old saying in China, "It is excusable to commit iniquity in heaven, but you cannot live if you commit iniquity." What you are afraid of is finding someone else.
The key to success in life is to abide by your duties. Only by doing things separately can we live a stable life.
Keep your duty, do what you can, don't do things you shouldn't do, and don't say things you shouldn't say. Everyone has everyone's responsibilities. Don't rush to reach out to others. When you are alive, you should be bound by rules. A gentleman should do something and not do anything that goes against morality and law.
The key to staying out of it is words and deeds. Only by managing your words and deeds can you stay away from right and wrong.
Look at your mouth, look at your hands, listen with your ears and see with your eyes. Speak with your heart, don't talk casually, and don't make promises to others at will. What you think is a "casual remark" may be taken seriously by others.
Stay out of it and distinguish the object of the occasion. Many people always get into trouble because of unintentional words and deeds. The reason is that they don't distinguish between objects and occasions. Many things can be told to friends, but not to superiors. Many jokes can be told in private, but not in public.
Before you say or do something, think about whether it is appropriate for you to do so, put yourself in others' shoes and see if others will be happy. Look before you leap, and you'll never get into trouble.
Zuo often speaks ill of people, which makes people embarrassed, which also makes him offend many people. Zeng Guofan once said in a letter with a friend that Zuo was "detained by things, abusive and talkative, and wanted to spend the New Year, but never said anything". Hu Linyi also pointed out this shortcoming to him. Zuo himself also said that "it is a warning to the point that the discussion of cases is too dense and too much."
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There is a saying in "Eternal Dragon Slayer" that "he is forced by him, and the breeze blows the hills; He let him pass, and the bright moon shines on the river. "
Many times what we lose is not the difficulty, but ourselves.
Difficulties are like springs. If you are weak, he is strong. Many times, the difficulty is far from what you think, and scaring yourself is the stupidest behavior.
Just like a song says, "I'm not afraid of thousands of people blocking me, but I'm afraid of surrendering myself." In the face of trivial things in life, we should calm down and cheer ourselves up.
"Man can conquer nature", and nothing can crush us. Even if life is like chicken feathers, we can pick it up, smooth it and tie it into a feather duster.
Don't be afraid of something, have the confidence and motivation to give up, believe that you are the best and you can do your best. God will surprise you only if you believe in yourself.
Zuo has never been afraid in his life. No matter what kind of unpleasant times, he always has an upward heart, and it is this courage that makes him gain a wonderful life.
Confucian wind gentleman said:
Life is a process of believing in beauty-beauty will come true. Fate is never in God's pocket, but in your own hands. Only by being able to carry things, make fewer troubles, be not afraid of things, control your mouth, your heart and your body can you become an indomitable spirit.