Earlier, I was not a fan of Rayza.

My impression of her is just a beautiful little sister.

It was not until later that I heard that she had depression that she suffered from cyber violence and was called "melodramatic", which made me pay special attention to it.

It doesn't matter if you don't pay attention I found out from the first second that this girl is too timid!

Most stars, especially female stars, have a little star baggage, but for Rayza, idol baggage does not exist at all.

You dare to scold me, I dare to scold back!

Someone posted vicious remarks on the Internet: "Is Rayza dead this second? No. You are really useless for depression. It is estimated that she didn't kill her in n seconds. "

Rayza personally forwarded it and replied from a distance: "Life must be very hard. Has the loan been paid off? Is love life still so unsatisfactory? It is definitely more sad to look in the mirror after reading my photos. "

Another man saw it and laughed at Rayza: "Search it yourself if you have nothing to do. It's really funny. "

Rayza is not to be outdone: "I can still find myself. Search for yourself, you are a grasshopper! "

In this way, Rayza forwarded a lot of Weibo who scolded her, and scolded her back at the scene, scaring those cyber bullies to delete Weibo one after another.

Rayza is one of the few female stars I have ever seen who can swear.

In this regard, she explained herself: "I remember when I was a child, my brother told me, Zha, you should learn to swear without dirty words." This is the most advanced, if you can still have a sense of humor. You see, great men are like this. "

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Many people don't agree that celebrities encounter cyber violence: "What's wrong with me scolding you for making so much money?"

For example, a blogger in Weibo made a similar remark:

"The way an actor silences everyone is her work and her strength. Although you think you are a dispensable actor, as a public figure, you enjoy a series of convenient conditions such as glamorous, high exposure and high income. I still hope that you can bring positive energy to everyone. "

This passage is rational and fair at first glance, but it is actually very strange.

Mainly express these three meanings:

First, we scold you because you are not good enough and have no strength. Not only do you deserve it, but you should also apologize to me. Second, you are a public figure, and we reward your charm. You have an obligation to endure our abuse. Third, you are a public figure and can only spread positive energy, so even if we scold you, you can't come back.

Although I don't pay much attention to Rayza, I know that Ye Lanyi played by her in The Queen of the Palace and The Longest Day in Chang 'an is definitely not an actress without works.

Actors are glamorous because of their own talent and hard work, not because they are more willing to accept abuse than the general public.

Therefore, it is not their obligation to be scolded.

As for positive energy, Rayza's online crackdown on cyber violence is a kind of positive energy!

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Once, Korean actress Shirley chose to end her life because she couldn't stand cyber violence.

At that time, the whole network was lamenting this beautiful girl and calling for a boycott of cyber violence.

For a moment, it seems that everyone is aware of the harm of cyber violence. I naively thought that the world would become better.

Unexpectedly, after mourning for "people who don't deserve to die", the next sentence is "why don't people who deserve to die?"

It was only a few days from Shirley's death to cyber violence in Rayza.

When Shirley died, we brushed Voltaire's famous saying: "No snowflake felt responsible during an avalanche."

This sentence really insulted snowflake.

As Rayza said, "Don't pretend to be a snowflake, then you can't stand an avalanche. At most, it is a big catkin in spring, which is blown into a ball by the roadside wind and finally ignited by passing tigers and screaming children. Nothing. "

Some people are very dissatisfied with Rayza's behavior, and think that Rayza lacks manners as a public figure.

Their reason is: "The layman scolds the star, but it's just a scolding. If the star scolds back, it will drive a large number of fans to occupy this amateur Weibo and bring cyber violence to each other. Stars and amateurs are not in the same heavyweight, so stars should not care about amateurs. "

The person who said this must have forgotten that there are far more amateurs than stars on the Internet.

Every amateur feels that he has only scolded one sentence, but the scolded star has to face a sea of foul language and an unbearable burden.

I really would rather see Rayza scold back than Shirley commit suicide.

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The final logic of internet surfers is: "If you choose this job, you must bear everything it brings. If you can't stand it, you can quit at any time. This is your freedom. "

This reminds me of a story I saw:

At school, a girl was bullied for no reason.

The bullying she encountered was neither beaten nor scolded. But every time a girl walks into the classroom, there will be malicious laughter.

At first, only a few people attended, and finally almost everyone attended.

Even the girl's best friend deliberately alienated her because she didn't want to walk into the classroom with her.

The girl was laughed at by a group of people for no reason.

Finally, she seemed crazy, her eyes were full of anger, and she slept with a knife under her pillow every day.

The others finally stopped laughing. Not only did they stop laughing, but they even dared not speak loudly.

The worst person in the dormitory with girls is too scared to sleep, so he has to find a teacher to let the girls drop out of school.

But teachers can't help it, because going to school is the freedom of girls, and living in dormitories is also the freedom of girls.

Compared with a person's freedom to go to school and work normally, "resignation" has never been freedom.

Never say that a person has the freedom to resign, jump into a well or commit suicide.

If these can also be called "freedom", then she also has the freedom to fight back.

When the bullied person exercises her freedom, you don't even have a chance to beg for mercy.