"Civilized etiquette helps me"
The ancients said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up." In other words, if you don't learn "etiquette", you won't be able to establish yourself in society.
So, what is etiquette? Simply put, etiquette is a code of conduct for self-discipline and respect for others. It is a process and means to show respect and understanding for others.
Civilized etiquette is not only a reflection of personal quality and upbringing, but also a reflection of personal morality and social morality. It is the face of the city and the country.
So, learning etiquette can not only strengthen personal qualities internally and shape the unit externally (from families, enterprises, institutions, communities, to cities and countries), but also lubricate and improve interpersonal relationships.
As a "state of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, being civilized and using etiquette is also an important way to carry forward national culture and display national spirit.
As far as Beijing is concerned, the most realistic thing is to prepare for the 2008 Olympic Games. How to embody the politeness and restraint of Beijingers and Chinese people, and how to embody the civilization and friendship of a land of etiquette has undoubtedly become an important task in the construction of spiritual civilization in Beijing in recent years.
We live in society, and our identities and roles are constantly changing. We hate others one moment, and often become the object of others' dislike the next. These are nothing more than "unruly" behaviors.
When we are tourists, we always follow our own whims, spitting, chewing gum, trampling on the lawn, and scribbling on cultural relics; when we are citizens, it is also I deeply hate the phenomenon of spitting and graffiti everywhere.
When we are pedestrians, we often walk wherever we can, regardless of whether there are red lights or sidewalks. We hate those who don’t drive according to the rules; when we drive, He always grabs lanes, gets stuck in traffic jams, and occupies non-motorized lanes. He hates pedestrians who trespass on the road.
When we are consumers, we often vent our personal grievances on the service staff and always say that their attitudes are bad; when we are service staff, we always bring our personal emotions with us. When it comes to work, I always complain that customers are too picky.
When we get along with colleagues, we always complain about their "inconsistency in small details", whether it is talking or borrowing things at work or in life; and we ourselves are often too lazy to take care of those "small details" .
When we take a bus, we are always proud of being able to grab a seat. We never bother to say sorry when we squeeze or step on others; When we arrive, we always resent the other person for not saying sorry or even punching each other; when we are old people, standing on the rickety car, we always long for someone to make way for ourselves who cannot stand. A seat.
When we are children, we are always unwilling to communicate with our parents patiently, we always spend our parents’ hard-earned money generously, and we always loudly send our parents’ questions to the sky. Birthdays, geniuses know; when we, as parents, never calmly communicate spiritually with our children, we are always busy with our own work, and say that we have given them too much care, but they themselves are not living up to expectations.
With the development and progress of society, people’s spiritual needs and self-perceived values ??are getting higher and higher, and they increasingly want to be understood and respected. There is no doubt that under the current situation, etiquette is no longer a need for individual industries and individual social levels, but a need for all people.
The train runs fast because of the headband. At home, if parents can take the lead; in school, if teachers can take the lead; in work, if the leaders can take the lead; in window units, if the window staff can take the lead... By extension, it must be promoted throughout China , popularize civilized etiquette, if the more than 10 million people in the capital can take the lead; if each of us can start from me, start from now on...
There is no doubt that our civilized etiquette promotion will be and popularization work will be easier. Then our spiritual civilization construction will achieve rapid development just like our material civilization construction.
The spiritual outlook of our 1.3 billion people will inevitably take on a new look, and people will live in a friendly, tolerant, caring, and warm social atmosphere!
Civilized etiquette emphasizes "respect first."
If you want others to respect you, you must first respect others.
Those bad habits are just for temporary pleasure, and they lose your own personality and dignity.
If you don’t even respect yourself, will others respect you?
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"Civilization Starts with Me"
A country is a country composed of small families. So what is home? It is composed of members one by one. Therefore, people are the most important in a country. Only when everyone possesses civilized qualities can the overall quality of the country be improved.
Not long ago, I saw a report about Singapore. Singapore is a country where English is commonly spoken. Most of the slogans in public places in this country are written in English. However, some of the civilized and polite slogans, such as "No spitting", "No smoking", "No entering the lawn", etc. are written in Chinese. Why? People replied: "Because most of the people who engage in these uncivilized behaviors are tourists from mainland China." For this reason, a middle school principal who visited Singapore said earnestly: "Uncivilized behaviors are also a national humiliation."
I don’t know if you remember that CCTV reported three years ago that chewing gum residues could be seen everywhere in Tiananmen Square after the National Day. There were 600,000 pieces of chewing gum residues on the 400,000 square meters of Tiananmen Square. In some places, they were less than one square meter on the ground. There were actually 9 pieces of chewing gum stains on the square. The dense stains formed a strong contrast with the sanctity and solemnity of Tiananmen Square.
The above two examples show that civilization is actually made up of details. Reflecting on what we do, we can see that civilization is still some distance away from us. Around us, among some students, there are still some uncivilized behaviors. For example, you can always see scraps of paper on our campus and on the stairs that are extremely discordant with our beautiful campus. Especially on Saturdays and Sundays, food bags and instant noodle boxes can be seen everywhere in classrooms and on campus. Some students even think: Anyway, there are students and cleaners on duty to clean, so why not throw it away; for another example, some students chase and fight in the classroom corridor, and it is normal to push and push each other while walking; some students also use swear words and swear words among each other, and climb on each other at will. Climbing branches, some students even deliberately damaged the school's public property. Many of our classmates put the study of cultural knowledge first, and often ignore the cultivation of social morality and the development of civilized habits, which essentially demonstrate a person's ideological quality. In fact, good behavioral habits are the prerequisite for ensuring our smooth learning and the basis for establishing a healthy personality. Students who do not have good behavioral habits in school may be undisciplined, unhygienic, and disrupt the learning environment of the class. On the contrary, if we develop civilized behavioral habits, the learning environment must be good and orderly. Now, we are in the most critical period of growth in life. What we do during this period will affect our own quality, and civilized behavior helps us improve our own quality. Therefore, we should first be an upright person, a modest gentleman who understands civilization and be polite, and then we can become talents. We cannot be a machine that simply masters knowledge and skills, but a person who develops harmoniously in body and mind.
We, who represent the future of our nation, have many things to learn and inherit. However, the most basic question is: How do we take over the baton of human civilization? Classmates, every time we sow an action, we will harvest a habit; if we sow a habit, we will harvest a character. Let us keep civilized etiquette in mind, talk to civilization all the time, and use it to restrain our words and deeds. Never regard civilized behavior as a trivial matter. Let us start from now, start from ourselves, start from little things, develop good civilized habits, and be civilized students.
Please each of us control our mouths, do not use foul language, do not spit; control our hands, do not litter, do not fight; control our feet, do not trample on the lawn. I believe that through the joint efforts of all our teachers and students, we will create a civilized and beautiful campus.
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"Civilized etiquette accompanies me"
In Among today's young students, many do not pay attention to proper etiquette and have weak etiquette concepts, leading to a decline in ideological and moral character. In school, some people do not respect others, cannot be courteous, and are not polite; in society, they do not know how to address others, and even do whatever they want, and are full of foul language; at home, they do not know how to respect their elders, but they only respect themselves and do whatever they want. , these phenomena have to cause us to think deeply. When teenagers learn "etiquette", they should start by learning to respect others. Etiquette itself is the external expression of respect for people. "Etiquette" comes from words, and words come from the heart. Only when you respect people from the heart can you have decent etiquette. Words and deeds, respecting others are the necessary and primary attitude in human contact. Learning "etiquette" should focus on practice. A person's etiquette can only be reflected in his words and deeds. You can't say whether someone has "etiquette" without saying it or not. Everyone must understand etiquette requirements and dare to Show yourself in a civilized and courteous manner in your daily words and deeds and in your daily dealings with others. Some students usually know how to be civilized and polite, but in public situations or when they meet unfamiliar people, their "etiquette" norms cannot be used. This is a sign of their lack of self-confidence.
If you want to be a true gentleman, you must have gentlemanly demeanor, social ethics, and connotation; if you want to be a true lady, you must have high personal qualities in temperament, conversation, clothing, etc. training. In modern civilized society, etiquette has become the basis for establishing good interpersonal relationships. In this society, only by learning how to respect others and how to get along with others in a civilized manner can we truly stand on our own in society, have self-respect and self-love, and create a harmonious humanistic environment and civilized society.
Let us call for etiquette, call for civilization, and call for a near future where our campus will no longer have people with permed curly hair, dyed hair, and various accessories; There are no traces of riding bicycles on our campus anymore; we call on our middle school students to speak civilized language and do civilized things wherever they go in the near future.
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