1. It is best not to do business with acquaintances. Some people may wonder, it is said that it is easier to do things if you have more acquaintances, so why are you afraid of acquaintances? This is the crystallization of practical experience. 2. Things must be able to be used to be valuable; people must be able to be used to be useful. You must do your best when doing things, and you must do your duty as a human being! 3. If you don’t seek fame in vain, the sarcasm will disappear; if you do more practical things, honors will come unexpectedly. A person must be free, independent and self-reliant, and a person should not be arrogant and arrogant! 4. In poverty, one must have loyalty and ambition; in crisis, one must have confidence and courage; in wealth, one must have the loyalty to sacrifice one's wealth; in one's life, one must have awe-inspiring Righteous. 5. Your appearance is not annoying. If you don’t look good, make yourself talented; if you don’t have any talent, then always smile. 6. Develop a personal style and find out what you like, whether it’s clothing or hobbies, even small habits that are different from others. People without personality cannot reach the top of society. 7. Don’t blush when things don’t go your way. Let's talk about it now, it's better to deal with it after sleeping. In other words, there is no fixed number of points. I just advise you not to speak too harshly, lest you slap yourself in the face. 8. Treat others with affection, treat others with courtesy, establish yourself with virtue, and treat others with justice. Be sincere, be strict with yourself, be persistent in dealing with things, and help others with love. As a person, you must understand: it is easy for the heart to be convinced by virtue, but difficult to be convinced by strength! 9. Do things openly and aboveboard, don’t just please others, don’t be emotional, say something to your face, don’t whisper behind your back. 10. Keep in mind three points in life: first, look at others with a telescope, and look at yourself with a magnifying glass; second, lower your head when receiving praise, and raise your head when accepting criticism; third, don’t regard kindness as stupidity, and don’t regard humility as cowardice! 11. When you are a person, you should talk about right and wrong, but don't worry too much about the pros and cons; when you do things, you should talk about the pros and cons, but don't be too afraid of right and wrong. When it comes to people, you should think good things and look at the advantages; when it comes to things, you should think far away and look at the big picture. 12. Be a good person: First, be strict with yourself and be lenient to others. Second, modesty is the best, give in more and fight less. Third, be kind to others and avoid being arrogant. Fourth, we must use justice to spread wealth and help those in need. Fifth, treat others with integrity and stay away from right and wrong. 13. As a person, you must be consistent both internally and externally, and when you do things, you must be consistent with your knowledge and actions; when you speak, you must be consistent with your words and deeds, and your behavior must be consistent inside and outside; 14. In competition, there are wins and losses; in status, there are ups and downs; in encounters, there are good and bad; in life, there are gains and losses. You should do your best as a person, and you should take things as they come! 15. If people are rude, there will be no life, if things are rude, there will be no success, and if the country is rude, there will be no peace. As a person, you must understand etiquette, know how to respect others, know how to despise others when you are humble, and respect others when you respect others! 16. Sweet words of comfort are warm in the winter, but harsh words are hurtful in the cold of June. Talking too much when you are happy will break your promise, and talking too much when you are angry will be disrespectful. Those who know are not knowledgeable, those who are knowledgeable do not speak, and wise words and refined words are not valuable! 17. Move people with affection, treat them with courtesy, establish themselves with virtue, and give justice to others. Be sincere, be strict with yourself, be persistent in dealing with things, and help others with love. A person must understand: the heart is easily convinced by virtue, but difficult by strength! 18. The waves of the sea are blown by the wind, and the waves of life are blown by people. As a person, you should be proactive, challenge life, perfect your personality, and make your true feelings eternal! 19. People treat themselves as right and wrong, and I treat others as right and wrong; , I regard good and evil as good and evil; people regard the rise and fall of status as closeness and distance, and I regard the true and false feelings as distance. 20. The human heart is unfathomable, but my heart is crystal clear. The human heart is ever-changing, but my heart remains constant. When someone gives me a cross eyebrow, I give him a smiling face; when someone gives me a bad word, I give him a hymn of praise; exchange heart for heart, exchange affection for affection; repay evil with kindness, repay evil with good!

21. When problems occur, don’t blame the objective, but look for subjective reasons. People who complain that others don’t understand themselves first don’t understand others. People who complain that organizational leaders do not believe in themselves first of all do not believe in organizational leaders. 22. When dealing with people, you must be able to bend and stretch, be square or round, be generous and harmonious on the outside, and sharp-edged on the inside. The two complement each other and are indispensable. 23. Your speech should be reserved and avoid being too explicit; your attitude should be tactful and avoid being too direct; your approach should be smooth and avoid being too sincere; your behavior should be profound and avoid being too harsh. 24. Bad moods are caused by insomnia. In fact, reality is not as bad as you think. Life has its peaks and troughs. There is no smooth life at all. How about Deng Xiaoping? There were three ups and downs. In the end, he did not have the final say in everything. .

25. The bones should be strong, the Qi should be soft, the ambition should be big, the courage should be small, the heart should be weak, the words should be truthful, the wisdom should be increased, and the blessings should be cherished. As a human being, you must communicate with etiquette and justice, and discipline yourself with integrity and shame! 26. What to do? Think beforehand?: As a human being, you need to be forward-thinking, burn more incense in peacetime, have someone to help you in an emergency, and be lucky if you are in a relationship with someone who is temporarily out of power. Think about the problem from another angle, calculate more and win more, and learn from the smallest details. Don’t do business with acquaintances and develop the habit of saving money. Your health is more important than money. 27. We can accept that you can be drunk sometimes, but you must understand that only by getting drunk with a true friend can you put an end to sad things. Otherwise, you will only be the subject of conversation and the laughing stock of others. 28. Interpersonal interactions should focus on the future and not dwell on the past. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself. When you are angry at your enemies, you only burn yourself. When doing things, don't be too narrow-minded. The sea is open to all rivers, relying on a tolerant heart. 29. You must have restraint on yourself, be friendly to others, be tolerant of life, be diligent in seeking knowledge, be patient with difficulties, and have a driving force for success! 30. Peace and happiness give people comfort. , but it can give people an early death; hard work can give people a long life.