The barber was very nervous and at a loss.
Premier Zhou kindly said, "Don't worry, it's not your fault. I didn't say hello to you before coughing. How did you know I was moving? " This little thing shows us a virtue-tolerance of Premier Zhou.
In life, getting along with people is inevitable. Because of different educational levels, different work and life, different personality hobbies, it is inevitable that there will be stumbling and conflicts for a long time, such as brothers turning against each other, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and colleagues quarreling.
In fact, these contradictions are at best contradictions among the people. As long as one party is more open-minded, tolerant and forgetful, the problem will be solved and the war will be turned into a friendship.
"A hundred rivers, tolerance is great." Words of wisdom never fade.
However, in real life, there are always some people who are narrow-minded. They always hold the attitude of "it's better to die than to die", and care about other people's mistakes, even things that are not wrong, which often make a little contradiction worse and eventually lead to great disasters, ranging from injury to death.
It is human nature to make mistakes.
Treating others' unintentional or intentional injuries with a tolerant attitude is like melting rain and snow in the spring breeze, and the other party will definitely reciprocate.
Tolerance is always the mediator of interpersonal relationships.
Therefore, when dealing with life, we should learn to be tolerant.
To learn tolerance, we must first have a broad mind.
Comrade * * * said: "We all come from all corners of the country and come together for a common revolutionary goal." It is our historical responsibility to remember that "* * * is the same revolutionary goal".
For unprincipled trifles in work and life, we should be broad-minded, have no bad feelings, be narrow-minded, don't care about trifles.
The heart is as wide as the sea and as big as the mountain.
Learn to be tolerant, and there is also a question of how to treat yourself correctly.
Most proud people overestimate themselves, tend to haggle over others, and always hold on to others' "pigtails".
Only modesty and prudence can win friendship, understanding and singing.
I remember that there is such a couplet next to Maitreya Buddha in Lingyun Temple, Dongshan, Sichuan: "Laugh at the past and laugh at the present, laugh at the East and the West, laugh at the South and laugh at your ignorance; Look at things, look at heaven and earth, look at the sun and the moon, and look at others. " This couplet tells us to be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others.
For yourself, you should always see your ignorance everywhere. For others, you should not only see its shortcomings, but also try to explore its advantages.
Laughing is not laughing at people, but laughing at your ignorance.
View is not someone else's short view, but also a person's long view.
Because everything has advantages and disadvantages, everyone is a combination of advantages and disadvantages.
Therefore, in our daily life and work, we should try our best to praise people's advantages and tolerate people's shortcomings, so as to live in harmony with others and establish good interpersonal relationships.
Of course, tolerance is by no means unprincipled and borderless, nor is it helpless to reality, but an attitude of "stressing principle in major events and style in minor events"; In the short course of life, learning to be tolerant means that our life is happier.
This is an inspiration left by a small incident of Premier Zhou.
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death.
One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly.
When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered.
Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament.
It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me.
So, he had to keep silent.
In fact, this is his valuable place. "Later, someone praised jiang wan" prime minister belly punting ".
Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po.
Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face.
Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po.
Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian.
When I tolerated and gave in to General Lian, I put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! "This was heard by Lian Po, and there was the story of Lian Po's" offer a humble apology ".
Bao Shuya Guanzhong:
During the Spring and Autumn Period, after Qi Xianggong was killed, Xiaobai and Gongzi Jiu competed for the throne.
Bao Bo helped Xiaobai, and Guan Zhong helped to correct it.
When the two sides were at war, Guan Zhong hit the hook on Xiaobai's belt with an arrow, and Xiaobai was killed.
Later, Xiao Bai became the monarch of Qi, that is, Qi Huangong.
After Qi Huangong took office, he appointed Bao Shu as Prime Minister.
Bao Shu was broad-minded and wise, and insisted on recommending Guan Zhong to Huan Gong.
He said: "Only Guan Zhong can hold an important position in the Prime Minister's country, and I am inferior to Guan Zhong in five aspects: I am inferior to him: I can govern the country and guarantee the fundamental rights and interests of the country, but I am inferior to him; Pay attention to loyalty and unite the people, I can't catch up with him; I am not as good as him in making etiquette for all parties to follow; Command the war and make the people braver. I am not as good as him. " Qi Huangong is also a generous man. He doesn't remember personal grievances. He adopted Bao Shu's suggestion, reused Guan Zhong and appointed him as Prime Minister.
After Guan Zhong became prime minister, he helped Huan Gong to carry out economic, internal and military reforms. In a few years, Qi became the most developed power in the Central Plains in the early Spring and Autumn Period from weak to strong, and the awakened one became the overlord of "Nine in One, One Dominating the World".