Self-reliance means doing your own thing, clarifying your own responsibilities, and having the courage to assume your own responsibilities. We should start from the small things we usually do, start from the things we can do, and strive to be a self-reliant person.
The well-known writer Zhang Haidi suffered from myelopathy at the age of 5. She was pitifully paralyzed from the chest down. Under such a big blow, she did not give up or be disappointed, but stood bravely. got up. From then on, she started her independent life with superhuman perseverance. Because her disability prevented her from going to school like ordinary people, she taught herself all the middle school courses at home. In addition, she also taught herself college English, Japanese, German and Esperanto, and studied some university and postgraduate courses. Since then, Zhang Haidi has embarked on the road of literary creation and has translated hundreds of thousands of English novels such as "Seaside Clinic". He has edited books such as "Questioning Life". Many of her works have been published in various countries.
There is also a good example of self-reliance and self-improvement around us. His name is Xiao Jiang. He comes from a superior family and lives a carefree life, but he consciously cultivated the ability to be self-reliant when he was in middle school. After entering college, he began to work as a part-time student and worked as a salesman, tutor, waiter, etc., and learned a lot in practice. When he was about to graduate, a well-known company came to the school to recruit talents. After interviews and inspections, he was quickly chosen.
These examples all tell us that only by being self-reliant and self-reliant can we create a better future; and only by being self-reliant and self-reliant can we defeat our own destiny. If we always live under the umbrella of family and school, then we will fail as human beings and our fate will be miserable.
There was such a couple who were very happy to have a son in their later years and regarded their son as the apple of their eye. It was afraid of flying when held in the hand, and afraid of melting when held in the mouth. When their son grew up, he was not allowed to do anything. As a result, their son could not even take care of the most basic life by himself. One day, the couple was going on a long trip, and they were afraid that their son would be hungry, so they thought of a way to bake a big cake, put it around their son's neck, and told him to take a bite when he wanted to eat, but he would wait until the couple returned home. At that time, the son still starved to death.
It turned out that he only knew how to eat the bread from the front of his neck, but did not know how to turn the bread around to eat. It tells us that dependence will make our lives full of tragedy; it will make people lack the ability and spirit to be independent; they will lose their personality; they may even embark on the path of illegal crimes; people who are greedy for enjoyment will not be able to stand on their own in social life.
If we want to be self-reliant, first of all, we should establish the concept of self-reliance and set a feasible self-reliance goal for ourselves; secondly, we should be based on the current problems in life and study, starting from the small things around us; at the same time , we must cultivate our own self-reliance and boldly devote ourselves to social practice. Because only through repeated exercise and continuous practice in social life can we gradually improve our ability to be independent.
Let us look at ourselves comprehensively, let our lives be filled with a sense of independence, let our lives be different from now on, and let us enjoy the endless fun that independence brings us. As the saying goes: "You sweat, eat your own food, do your own things by yourself, rely on people, heaven and ancestors, you are not a hero!" This sentence fully illustrates that we should do our own things by ourselves and be brave enough to take responsibility. own responsibility. Friends, drive away our dependence, let us move towards a self-reliant world with relaxed steps, use our own hands to create our own world, and make our future lives more brilliant and beautiful.