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In terms of educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children. "If we don't know them first, the development of children will be more serious."

Once, Mr. Wang held a banquet at home, and his son sat at the same table facing the sea. When eating fish balls, the guests say they are fresh and delicious. Wei Yinghai said, "Mom, fish balls are sour!" " "The mother who thought the child was talking nonsense scolded a few words, and the child's boss was unhappy. After hearing this, Lu Xun tasted the fish that Yinghai had bitten. Sure enough, it's not very fresh. He said with emotion: "It is wrong for children to say that they are not fresh. It seems that we have to respect what the children say! "

There is a story: a businessman in new york saw a pencil salesman in rags. He gave someone a dollar out of sympathy. Soon, he came back, took out some pencils from the seller and apologized for forgetting to take them. Finally, he said, "You and I are both businessmen. You have something to sell." A few months later, when we met again, the pen seller became a salesman and thanked the businessmen in new york. "You gave me back my self-esteem and told me I was a businessman."

Respect for life, respect for others and respect for one's own life are companionship in the process of life and a condition of mental health. -Fromm.

Respect the opinions of others. Never say, "You are wrong." Carnegie

People may be familiar with the story of Sean picking up shoes. Sean in the story is about Sean, an important adviser of Emperor Gaozu Liu Bang.

It is said that Sean walked on this bridge in his spare time. An old man wearing a coarse cloth and a short coat went to Sean's residence, threw his shoes under the bridge and said to Sean, "Boy, go down and pick them up." Sean was suddenly surprised and really wanted to hit him. As soon as he saw such a big age, he picked up his shoes. The old man asked Sean to put it on him. Now that Sean has picked up his shoes, he knelt down and put them on him. Dressed, the old man smiled and left. After walking 1 mile, he returned to Sean and said, "You are a child who can be well trained. Come and wait for me at dawn in five days. " Five days later, when Zhang Liang came, the old man had already arrived first, criticizing him and saying, "How can you be late for a date with an old man? Come and wait for me in five days. " The second time, Sean was late again. The third time, he went at midnight. The old man is very happy. He gave Sean a book and told him, "After reading this book, you can become the emperor's teacher. You will be rich in the next 10 years. 13 years later, you will meet me in northern Hebei, and there is a yellow stone at the foot of the ancient city mountain. " After dawn, Sean saw a military book called The Art of War. After Sean got this book, he read it carefully and finally learned the skill of strategizing and winning thousands of miles. According to legend, after 13 years, Sean followed Gaozu to the north of Hebei, and sure enough, he saw a piece of Yellowstone at the foot of the ancient city mountain. Sean took it back as a treasure. After Sean died, he was buried with this piece of Yellowstone National Park.

I don't know if these are enough, I hope I can help you.