Many people have this characteristic: girls are fresh, curious and confident at first, but their enthusiasm slowly dissipates in the process. This is the three-minute heat, so it is not good for girls to have three minutes of heat in their feelings. Let's take a look at how to resolve it.
How do girls get rid of their three-minute passion for feelings? 1 It's probably our nature.
Forget about love first. We can recall that, from childhood to adulthood, whether we live, study or work, we also have three minutes of enthusiasm and impatience.
For example, it is easy to lose concentration when studying, so that you can't learn or your grades are always unsatisfactory; In work or life, if you are unwilling to persist in situations that require extra energy and brain power, it is easy to feel left behind. And so on, you can recall.
If this is the case, and you don't want to be like this all the time, then it is necessary to reflect and improve. Because if this goes on, it is not only difficult to choose a person to be together in love, but also difficult to achieve something in work and life.
However, "a leopard cannot change his spots" is really hard to correct.
If you really can't hold on to your temper, you can continue to do whatever you want, and change objects if you want. When you are tired of change, or meet someone who really likes your bones, you are willing to settle down.
If you have no patience, you will continue to fish for three days and dry the net for two days. One day after n years, something or someone or an opportunity gives you a blow, and you will feel like waking up from a big dream.
In short, it is really difficult for nature to make real changes just by talking and thinking. For everyone, life itself is the best teacher.
How do girls solve the emotional three-minute fever? First of all, they must make up their minds: I must be XX, and I will succeed. Take this sentence as their famous saying. The first thing every day is to meditate in your heart and remind yourself at all times.
Find the reason why you can't persist and stay away from it fundamentally. For example: play computer games first, and then I must recite the oral English of this chapter. The result is: I said I would play games for a while, but I forgot my original intention after playing. Wait until the game is over, think again, forget it, or recite it next time.
Make a reasonable plan and implement it for a long time. You can't give up For example, today is the XX day that I don't watch Tik Tok. Actually, there is nothing to see. I will continue to learn words and try to recite more XX today.
There will inevitably be boring times in the process of persistence. At this time, it is easy to give up. You can give yourself rewards, such as how many days you have persisted and buy yourself a XXX that you have always wanted.
The influence of words, because some people work hard for it, but get cynicism from others, will shake his confidence and should be ignored. What he says is his business, as long as he does well.
To form good habits, we have all heard a saying: Less is nature, and habit becomes nature. Good habits are very important to our behavior. Over time, you will take the initiative to finish it.
The last point is to be single-minded and not distracted. For example, if you want to speak fluent English, you also want to improve your retouching skills. This is not desirable. Because if you do two things at the same time, you can't learn one of them well. As a result, I learned both, and the effect was not good. You can learn another one after learning it well, which will be better.
How to dissolve girls' three-minute passion for feelings? I am eager to tell you everything when I like it, and I can't wait to be with you every minute.
But as time goes by, I find that I don't have the same heart for you. I didn't want to meet or chat at first. I may really have cat cakes, but I really liked you in the past. I don't know what happened.
I don't want to wake up in the morning and pick up my cell phone to say good morning to you-as long as I don't say anything, you will ask me. I'm tired of this feeling.
I don't want to tell you everything I eat and drink every day-if I don't, you'll think I'm cold to you.
I don't want to press the test button to chat with you when I watch the play at night-why can't I finish it quietly?
I don't want to repeat the same sentence with you. I don't want to. I don't want to. What should I do if I don't miss you anymore?
I don't think I am right. I treat you badly, but I can't face you. I don't know what to say to you
I want to say goodbye, but I can't say it's too cruel to you, so I've been putting it off, which will hurt both of us.
I'm sorry