The fate of life is like a statue, and suffering is like a sharp carving knife. People are the sculptors who use this knife to carve their destiny. The birth of every beautiful statue requires the baptism of suffering, as well as the sculptor's self-wisdom, as well as his perseverance and depth. The coldness and ruthlessness of suffering make the destiny of the strong gain the value and sublimation of life. People with self-wisdom are the ones who defeat themselves. As long as their self-wisdom does not die, their hearts will not die. From ancient times to the present, those who can bravely pick up the sword of self-wisdom and face difficulties are wise men.
Let us listen to the college students at the Ludong University campus radio station. They are Yang Juan, Ren Xijun, Ma Jianzhen, and Yang Jinduo, college students from Ludong University. Discussion on how to pick up the sword of self-wisdom to cope with and overcome difficulties and setbacks.
1. When people encounter difficulties, they always say, God, come and help me. We went around looking for God, and finally found that God is ourselves. When you encounter ups and downs in life, you find that you have to solve them yourself in the end.
When you encounter difficulties, although there are people to help you, you cannot always ask for help. In the end, you still have to rely on yourself. For everything, look for yourself first. Because all troubles are caused by oneself.
2. Which of the famous people in ancient times did not experience difficulties? The "Historical Records" written by Sima Qian was burned, but he left the original manuscript and wrote it in prison, and finally completed his mission. He has a belief and has his own ideals.
Beethoven was also a man who bravely fought against fate. "Symphony of Destiny" is a true portrayal of this great spirit. Sometimes difficulties and setbacks are obstacles of your own design.
3. I looked for a job last summer and went to more than a dozen restaurants, but no one wanted me because the boss thought we didn’t know how to do anything. Even though we are college students, I believe I can definitely find a job. Work, wash the dishes or something. Finally found a job at the train station serving dishes in a restaurant. Walking to school, I kept thinking that people are in a difficult situation, so I didn’t fall down and took active actions. During those days, I learned a lot. I am a college student who worked for a month and then went back to college to study. Those young guys have low education, are very limited in their own development, and have no idea about themselves, but I seem to be superior to them. Now I cherish my school life.
In the days when I was working, I would also encounter supercilious looks. For example, one time, I was looking for soap to wash my clothes. The lady boss said, you are a part-time worker, do you still use my washing powder? I think so. , I have already paid you wages, but I really don’t know that a big sister helped me. I was able to persevere because those boys and masters helped me.
4. If you are wise, things will come true. Others are unreliable, the only one you can rely on is yourself. When encountering difficulties, just treat it as a test question given to yourself. Someone can take it. The exam requires high scores. If you encounter difficulties and overcome them, you will be very happy.
As a college student, the most important thing is to be able to put down your pride and endure hardship. Some college students have high ambitions but low ambitions. They think they are nothing, but in fact it doesn’t matter.
5. In our university, there is a classmate whose family situation is very bad. Tuition was paid with loans, so he had to work in our cafeteria. When someone was eating, he served the food, and when they finished eating and left, he stayed to eat, then cleared the table, and ate for free. He continued to study without spending a penny on his parents. The classmates were all admired and moved.
I have also experienced the hardships of working part-time, selling mobile phones to people. I was very tired after a long day, and my feet were sore. Some elder sisters always liked to scold people, as if they wanted to steal their jobs. Sometimes I get very angry, so I accept the criticism after thinking that it is right. As you gain more social experience, you still need to know how to endure. No one is coaxing you out there.
6. Only by enduring hardship can one become a master. The children of the poor become rich early. Having the experience of my own tears and sweat is also a blessing.
7. God is the Creator, and we can create miracles on our own. Every other line is like a mountain. If you haven't been exposed to it, you won't know it. If you study it, you will become familiar with it. It is useless to just know that giving in to difficulties is useless. When you do it with your heart, your initiative will come into play.
In the Western medicine pharmacy of a large hospital, there was a disabled doctor. I had an idea in my mind at the time, how could a disabled person work here? Then this person must have defeated himself in the past. own excellence. Zhang Haidi is a role model for us to learn from. I think people should have a spirit.
8. Zhang Haidi and Sang Lan are both extraordinary disabled people, people who have defeated themselves. When we go home to take the train, we often see beggars, some of whom are even pretending. We pity them once. If we always do that, we will really be despised by others. Why can't people be self-reliant on their own? It's shameful to get something for nothing.
Moderator: Those who fall down when encountering difficulties and setbacks, run away from difficult problems, and always leave their destiny to others will never be able to be truly themselves! Wisdom Academic guidance experts say: The difficulties and troubles in life come from a lack of self-wisdom. Any problem we encounter in life, the person who can really solve it is ultimately no one else but ourselves. There is no savior in the world, you can only save yourself!
A scientist mixed a bird egg with a chicken egg and let the hen hatch. Soon, the little bird followed behind the mother chicken along with a group of chicks, pecking and playing happily. Until one day, a big bird flew over the chicken farm. The little bird saw the big bird soaring in the blue sky, and suddenly felt a strange power surging in its wings. "It would be great if I could fly into the sky, but how can I be like the big bird? I have never spread my wings." The little bird finally flapped its wings bravely and flew into the blue sky, flying higher and higher.
Part 2: 2015 College Entrance Examination Composition Writing Materials: Not Fear of Suffering
Happiness is sunshine, suffering is shadow. Where there is sunshine, there are shadows. No matter how happy and happy people are, they will inevitably be entangled in suffering. Just as misfortunes and blessings depend on each other, joy and suffering will transform into each other. Although joy is welcome, suffering is an uninvited guest and often comes to meet you uninvited.
When suffering comes, make peace with it and treat it kindly. Please do it!gt;
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Suffering is an unfortunate noun, but it contains the pulse of luck. For strong and rational people, suffering in life increases their endurance, which reduces the impact of misfortune, makes disasters weightless and misfortunes dilute. Life is calm, rich, magnificent and grand due to suffering.
Fragile and hypocritical people should be less narrow-minded and stay away from illusions because of suffering. Pessimism and despair are immune to suffering, and we never lose hope no matter what the desperate situation.
Suffering baptizes joy, which makes life smoother, richer and brighter.
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Although disaster, pain and suffering are all similar synonyms, there are subtle differences in feelings. I believe that disaster is just a passive and passive acceptance of disaster, which can easily make people discouraged or even knock them down; pain is just a physical and emotional blow to misfortune, which is short-lived and easy to forget; suffering is a calm and calm response to misfortune. , thoughts and will are active in the whole process, turning disaster and pain into a kind of temper, temper, and strength. Get spiritual wealth and ideological gifts from the destruction.
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Suffering has a common mental process: try to avoid suffering, try to reduce suffering, shorten suffering, and do not dwell on suffering. Because suffering is a kind of misfortune after all, damaging both body and mind.
Suffering is a special mental state. For example, for Van Gogh, suffering is a kind of creative inspiration; for Yan Hui, suffering is a kind of academic pleasure; for ascetics, suffering is a kind of spiritual belief. No suffering is their greatest suffering.
Suffering is neither necessary nor too much. I believe that as a driving force and vitality in life, joy and suffering are like gasoline and engine oil for a car to move forward.
There is not much engine oil, but it runs in, protects, and lubricates the parts. Joy should be a lot of gasoline.
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Natural disasters and self-fault can cause suffering. But the greatest suffering is social traps and artificial frame-ups. It is difficult for a kind person to understand why he is falsely accused. A capable person wastes his energy in defending and making false accusations. It is rare for a loyal person to fight against a jealous person.
Suffering does not equal maturity, but it catalyzes maturity. Suffering does not equal achievement, but it stimulates achievement. It seems unfair that life has different joys. But in the scale of life, the weight of suffering weighs more than joy.
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If we say that suffering is a kind of debt, we are born with it; happiness is a kind of savings, which must be accumulated through continuous efforts. So, from the perspective of the art of life, happiness should be saved in small amounts and taken out in whole pieces, while suffering should be saved in small pieces and taken out in small pieces. There is no suffering for a long time, but once it comes, it is difficult to resist. If you often experience minor sufferings, your resistance will be improved and you will be able to deal with major sufferings more easily. In this way, you can have the last laugh.
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Suffering is a kind of self-feeling and feeling, and others cannot suffer or do it for you. Today's adults always want to provide a comfortable environment for their children, so that they can open their mouths for food and stretch out their hands for clothes, so they don't understand the hardships of life. Excessive care and doting is actually a kind of cruelty. At least the incompleteness of life.
Remembering the bitter and thinking of the sweet, traditional education, of course, also has the effect of infection and influence. But only by personally suffering and enduring hardships (no need to be in dire straits or eating chaffy vegetables) can it be transformed into spiritual bone calcium.
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The acquisition of happiness naturally depends on the world view, outlook on life, and values. It must also eliminate the path of greed, unnecessary thoughts, etc. But if you treat suffering correctly and treat it kindly, you can also get rid of all the suffering and gain happiness.