Everyone can speak, but not everyone can say beautiful words or know how to speak well. In this world, there are different people and things, and they also have different ways of speaking. Therefore, we should be careful when speaking and doing things. If you speak without measure and speak without considering the consequences, it will be completely unpredictable in which direction things will develop. If a person wants to be successful, he must learn to speak with a good sense of proportion, so that he can act with ease and successfully achieve the goals he hopes to achieve. Here I would like to remind everyone that you must pay attention to the following taboos when talking to others:

1. Avoid talking about the health status of others

If a person is infected with a disease, except for his relatives, most people Some people don't want others to talk about their health. Especially those with serious illnesses do not want to be the center of conversation. Therefore, when you talk to others, especially when asking for help, you should try to use as few words as possible to ask about the other person's health.

2. Avoid controversial topics

Without clarifying the other party’s position, you should avoid discussing controversial and sensitive topics, otherwise it will cause arguments or stalemates between the two parties. status.

3. Avoid talking about the price of things

If a person's topics always revolve around "how much is this worth, how much is that worth", it will make the other person think you are If you are a vulgar person, your image in the other person's mind will be greatly reduced. Then the future relationships will naturally not be so smooth.

In interpersonal communication, a person's ability to speak beautiful words is a kind of wisdom and ability, which requires continuous practice. "Mozi" said: Be careful in your words and know your actions. That is to say, people should be cautious in their words and deeds in life. The expression of language represents what is in the heart. Its content can be true or false. After blurting out, it can cause benign health effects, or it can damage the relationship between people. This is just like what the Bible says: A person makes more mistakes with his tongue than with his feet.

Of course, there is another problem with saying nice things. Around us, there are always people who want to "stand out" and talk too much. In order to "speak amazingly", they end up "talking too much and losing their words". Therefore, a person's success or failure in society does not depend on how many beautiful words he says, but on what effect his words have on himself or even others. Therefore, I would like to remind everyone to pay attention to the following points:

1. Pay attention to the relationship with the speaker

The most important thing is to understand in your heart what level you can talk to him. Many people just cannot grasp this point, which leads to very bad results.

2. Develop the habit of accurate expression in daily life

Don’t make mistakes at critical times. Expression habits are cultivated. If you don't pay attention to propriety at ordinary times, it will be difficult to change at critical times.

3. When talking to others, you should always pay attention to the other person’s emotions and facial expressions

In addition to paying attention to your own emotions, you must also pay attention to the other person’s emotions in many cases, and you must act according to the other person’s emotions. changes and adjust your speaking strategies.

The ancients said that "keep your mouth shut, say less, and don't spread" is a "benevolent person". Since ancient times, people have regarded "being cautious in speaking" as a prudent thing. Neither "multiple words" nor "shocky words" are respected by sages. On the contrary, it is those people who usually don't speak much but are clear-cut and thoughtful when they do speak, which make people admire them from the bottom of their hearts, because such people are the ones who can really "talk".