1. Verses about Etiquette
1. "Xunzi. Fu Guo" Shang Dynasty: Etiquette is to the country, just like weighing the weights, just like the ink is to the straight and straight. .
Etiquette is used for the governance of a country, just like a scale is used to weigh weight, a carpenter's black line is used to judge straightness, and a compass and a right-square are used to measure squares and circles.
2. "Book of Rites·Jingjing" Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty: Rites are to the rule of the country: just like the balance is to the light and the weight, the rope and ink are to the straight and straight.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing the country is actually the etiquette and law for governing the country, just like a scale is used for weighing the weight.
3. "Xunzi·Wangba" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The reason why etiquette governs the country is that it is like a balance to weight, and a rope and ink to straightness.
Etiquette and law are used to weigh the governance of a country, just as scales are used to weigh the importance of the country.
4. "Xunzi·Dalue" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: Ritual is to the upright country, just like weighing is to the importance, just like the ink is to the right and wrong.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing the country is actually the etiquette and law for governing the country, just like a scale is used for weighing the weight.
5. "Qunshu Zhiyao Jingjie" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The husband's etiquette is to the country. It's still a matter of weight. Rope ink is about straightness and straightness.
People must abide by the basic principles of implementation. If a person loses his place of standing, he will surely fall and perish.
Etiquette is a universally recognized code of conduct that is agreed upon by people in terms of appearance, appearance, manners, rituals, speech and behavior in order to respect each other in social interactions. Etiquette is a general term for etiquette, courtesy, manners and rituals.
Reference material: Sogou Encyclopedia - Civilized Etiquette 2. Poems about etiquette
"Quli" says: "No disrespect, as if you are thinking, and calm words." Peaceful to the people!
Ao cannot be long, desires cannot be followed, aspirations cannot be fulfilled, and happiness cannot be extreme.
A wise man respects him, fears him and loves him. Love and know its evil, hate and know its good. Accumulation can be dispersed, peace can be moved. Don't be reluctant to get wealth when you are facing it, and don't be reluctant to avoid difficulties when faced with it. There is no need to seek victory, and no need to seek more points. When in doubt, don’t question it; be honest and don’t have any questions.
Ruofu, sit like a corpse and stand like a corpse. Follow the appropriate etiquette, and follow the customs. The purpose of husband etiquette is to determine relatives and distances, to resolve suspicions, to distinguish similarities and differences, and to clarify right and wrong. Be polite, don’t talk nonsense about people, and don’t refuse to pay. Etiquette, don't overdo festivals, don't invade and insult, don't be rude. Cultivating one's character and practicing one's words are called good deeds. Practicing and cultivating words is the essence of etiquette. The etiquette and hearing come from people, but the non-hearing comes from others. If you hear the etiquette, you will learn it; if you don’t hear it, you will learn it.
Morality, benevolence, and righteousness are not allowed to be inappropriate; teachings are upright and moral, and inappropriate teachings are not allowed to occur. Disputes and lawsuits will not be decided if it is inappropriate. The king and his ministers, fathers, sons and brothers, are always indecent. The official is a scholar and a teacher, and he is not polite and does not want to be intimate with him. When the Ban Dynasty governs the army and visits officials to enforce the law, it cannot be done without courtesy and majesty. Praying in a temple to offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods is disrespectful and dishonest. Therefore, a gentleman is respectful, restrains himself, and makes concessions in order to show propriety. Parrots can speak and are inseparable from birds; orangutans can speak and are inseparable from beasts. People today are rude. Although they can speak well, don't they have the mentality of animals? The husband is a beast and has no manners, so the father and son gather together. This is why the saints made it as a ritual to teach people. Make people behave politely and know that they are different from animals.
The most important thing is to value virtue, and the second most important thing is to repay it. Reciprocity. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go. If people are polite, they will be safe; if they are rude, they will be in danger. Therefore, it is said: One must learn etiquette. Those who are respectful to their husbands humble themselves but respect others. Even if you are a peddler, you must be respected, how about being rich and noble? If you are rich and know how to be polite, you will not be arrogant or lewd; if you are poor or lowly, if you know how to be polite, your ambition will not be deterred. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up. ”
——— "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always love them.
——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
It is not polite to go back and forth, but it is not polite to go back and forth.
————"Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1" 3. Poems about etiquette
"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up." ——"The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi" A gentleman's heart is benevolence, and his heart is etiquette: A benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always respect them. - Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia" Reciprocity means reciprocity. Failure to reciprocate is impolite. Also; it is not polite to come and go without going back. --- "Book of Rites. Qu Li" Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. --- Goethe: "Affinity" One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make Man is also dominated by form in his pure material life, which enables him to become an aesthetic person within the scope that the kingdom of beauty can reach. ---Schiller: "Aesthetic Education Letters" Politeness is carried out in one's own true thoughts The Art of Choice.——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele" Politeness delights those who are polite, and also delights those who are treated politely.——Montesquieu : "The Spirit of the Laws" Nothing is lost by being polite, but everything can be gained. --- Mar. W. Montagu: "Letters" Etiquette is the smallest but the most stable of all norms. --- La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs" Politeness is the flower of fraternity. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts. ——Joubert: "Collection of Quotes" What makes a person great does not lie in wealth and family. Third, it lies in valuable behavior and noble character. --- Ovie: "Famous Quotes" There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt; to avoid these In both cases, the only thing you can do is to abide by the following rule, that is, do not look down on yourself or others. - John Locke: "Educational Essays." 4. Ancient poems about "etiquette"
1. "Book of Rites·Jingjing" by Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty
Original text: Rituals are as important to the country as weighing the importance. Rope ink is about straightness and straightness.
Translation: Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing the country, in fact, etiquette and law are used to govern the country, just like a scale is used to weigh the weight.
2. "Rewarding Pei Shiyu with Gifts Every Time He Feels the Rain" Tang Dynasty: Li Bai
Original text:
I am grateful throughout my life, and loyalty is not an external reward.
Misfortune leads to resentment, and things end in Kuchuan.
Translation: You have many actions in your life that make people grateful, and you have been praised for your loyalty. Recently, misfortunes have happened one after another, the sky is angry and people are complaining, and the previous business has disappeared like water.
3. "Zuo Zhuan·The Twenty-fifth Year of Duke Zhao" by Zuo Qiu Ming of the State of Lu in the late Spring and Autumn Period
Original text:
Fuli is the scripture of heaven. The meaning of the land is also the conduct of the people.
The scriptures of heaven and earth are followed by the people.
Translation: Etiquette is a matter of course, which is the principle set by heaven and the right principle implemented by the earth. It is the basis for people's actions and cannot be changed or doubted.
4. "Nine Songs: Soul of Ceremony" Pre-Qin Dynasty: Qu Yuan
Original text:
When rituals are completed, drums are played, and when rites are performed, drums are played, and ballads are passed down to dance;
The young girl advocates beauty and beauty;
Spring orchids and autumn chrysanthemums will last forever.
Translation:
The sacrificial ceremony has been completed, the big drum is beaten tightly, and the flowers in the hands are passed and danced alternately; the beautiful woman sang calmly and freely. They offer orchids in spring and chrysanthemums in autumn, and this continues until the end of time.
5. "Zhou Li·Chun Guan·Si Shi" Zhou Gongdan of the Han Dynasty
Original text:
For major events in the country, the etiquette should be governed to assist Zong Bo .
Translation: Whenever there is a major national event, practice the relevant etiquette and assist the great uncle. 5. There are 5 translations of the Analects about etiquette
1. "It is a great pleasure to have friends come from afar" - the first chapter of "The Analects" "Xueer"
To understand this sentence, two questions must be clarified. One is the meaning of "friend" and the other is the reason why "friend" comes from afar.
In ancient times, the word "friend" was a very solemn title. "Friend" refers to a person who has the same purpose of learning, and "friend" refers to a person who has the same ambition in life. To sum up, "friend" refers to learning from each other and promoting each other in life and study. People who can fight for the same ideals.
So how do you get friends and make them "come from afar"? If you want friends with noble qualities to "come from afar", you must also have a good personality!
Entering the 21st century, China is increasingly showing its charm on the world stage, making friends widely, and constantly improving itself through mutual learning and discussion. This will surely attract friends from all over the world to gather with us. The 2008 Olympic Games held in Beijing is just such a grand event for friends to gather together, and it is also a strong proof that "friends come from afar".
2. "We are all brothers in the four seas" - a quote from "Yan Yuan", which is a sentence Zixia comforted his classmate Sima Niu
Sima Niu was a studious person. But there is a hidden pain in his heart that is difficult to erase, that is, his brother Huan Miao. Huan Yu was a Sima of the Song Dynasty. He often did evil things and had the intention of causing trouble. He even wanted to kill Confucius. Having such a brother made Sima Niu full of worries.
Although Confucius comforted him by saying, "A gentleman has no worries or fears," he still sadly thought, "Everyone else has brothers, but I don't have any." So Zixia comforted him and said, "Life and death are determined by fate, and wealth is in heaven. A gentleman respects If you are respectful and courteous to others, you are all brothers in the world. Why should a gentleman have no brothers? "As long as a person is careful, has no faults, and is courteous to others, then everyone in the world will treat him with brotherhood. to treat you.
In interpersonal communication, as long as you treat each other with sincerity, you will definitely gain the sincerity of others. This is what Confucius said: "A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain is always worried" ("Shu'er").
3. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" - from "Yan Yuan" and "Wei Linggong"
This sentence appears twice in the Analects of Confucius . In the chapter "Yan Yuan", Zhong Gong asked his teacher what "benevolence" is, and Confucius told him this; in the chapter "Wei Linggong", Zigong asked his teacher, "Is there one word that I can stick to throughout my life?" Confucius said: "Forgive me!" and "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" to further explain the meaning of "forgiveness". If you don't like to do something, don't force others.
Confucius attached great importance to this sentence because it embodies the idea of ??"benevolence", that is, treating others with benevolence and generosity. In "The Analects of Confucius", Confucius expressed similar opinions many times, such as "If you want to establish yourself, you must establish others; if you want to achieve yourself, you must reach others" ("Yong Ye"), "The beauty of a gentleman is to be an adult, and the evil of not being a man" ("Yan Yuan") ). Confucius also knew that it was not easy to do this, so in the chapter "Gongye Chang", he warned Zigong: "This is not what you can do!" Therefore, he wanted Zigong to follow " "Forgive" this principle, and he himself followed it seriously.
The saying "Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you" can be seen today as "putting yourself in someone else's shoes". Think about problems from others' perspective and fully respect others. If you can follow this principle, then many problems ranging from interpersonal relationships to international affairs will be easily solved.
4. "Virtue is not alone, it must have neighbors" - from the chapter "Li Ren"
Confucius regarded those who strive to realize the ideal of "benevolence" as virtuous people, but they often encounter resistance, as was the case with Confucius himself. The reason why he traveled around the world was because he had no use in his own country. During his travels, he encountered an armed siege by the Kuang people, narrowly escaped being killed by Huan Miao in the Song Dynasty, and faced the embarrassment of running out of food in the Chen Kingdom. In addition, there were also ridicules from dissidents such as Jieyu, Changju, and Jieyou. His situation is really like "a lost dog." The old master Confucius once lamented and even had the idea of ????escape, but he knew that "people are more benevolent than water and fire", so he "knew that it was impossible and did it", taking the world as his own responsibility, with great courage and confidence to stick to your ideals. In a difficult environment, he could "be happy in it"; facing the persecution of Huan Yu, he confidently said: "I am born with virtue, how can Huan Yu do it?" ("Shu Er")
"Virtue is never alone, there must be neighbors" shows persistence and confidence in the ideal of life. With the rapid development of society's material civilization, we need to create a spiritual home and keep the ideal pure land in our hearts. Believe firmly that "virtue is never alone", stick to your own good moral integrity, and insist on pursuing your ideals. This is the source of life's motivation!
5. "The use of etiquette, harmony is the most precious" - a quote from "Xue Er"
Confucius attached great importance to "ritual". The so-called "ritual" is a kind of moderation, a kind of restraint, and an important criterion for realizing "benevolence". "Harmony" refers to the state of harmonious coexistence of different things. It is not only a personality ideal, a social and political ideal, but also a methodology.
The combination of "ritual" and "use" can be understood from two aspects. On the one hand, "harmony" is the best way to use "ritual". Confucius advocated "courtesy for the rule of the country", and the ancients often used the blending of flavors to describe governing the country. To make a good pot of food, you must use a calm and unhurried attitude to blend all the flavors to make them harmonious and beautiful. This is "harmony". Applying etiquette in a "harmony" manner can ensure that it is based on the overall situation, without being paranoid or rigid, and can maximize its effectiveness. On the other hand, "harmony" is the purpose of "ritual". While attaching importance to "propriety", Confucius advocated that "a gentleman is harmonious but different", abide by etiquette, be able to live in harmony with others without seeking common ground, widely absorb the strengths of others, improve one's own cultivation, and become calm, modest, and conscientious A true gentleman with a sense of social responsibility.
Today, we advocate the establishment of a harmonious society. While inheriting and carrying forward traditional culture, we also absorb foreign cultures in an inclusive and complementary manner to continuously improve ourselves. This is exactly the expression of "the purpose of etiquette, harmony is the most precious". 6. Poems about etiquette
When you talk about etiquette, you are noble; when you are a citizen, you cultivate yourself; when you smile, you have a broad heart; when you are in a group, you are courteous; when you are in the world, harmony is the top priority; when you value morality, you are polite. ; Be more understanding and less confrontational. Think before you act rashly...
Etiquette is a song,
A radiant and uplifting song;
Etiquette is a poem,
A poem without an ending;
Etiquette is a spring,
A clear and translucent spring;
Observing etiquette is the highlight of your life; < /p>
Learning etiquette shows that you are maturing.
If etiquette has grown in your heart, then water it with sincerity, nurture it with enthusiasm, and cultivate it with understanding!
As it grows, so do you! !
Chinese etiquette is passed down from generation to generation
Kong Rong asked pears to respect their parents
Huang Xiangnuan was educated
Chinese etiquette should not be forgotten< /p>
Striving to be a small model of etiquette 7. What are the poems describing etiquette
1. Etiquette degree
Pre-Qin Dynasty
The Book of Songs
"Chu Ci"
2. Etiquette is ready
Pre-Qin
The Book of Songs
"Chu Ci"
3. The Sixteenth Etiquette
Han Dynasty
Anonymous Han Dynasty
"The Peacock Flies Southeast"
4. Migration In Etiquette
Tang Dynasty
Wang Changling
"Sending Liu Shenxu Home to Get Hongci Interpretation"
5. The Etiquette of Carrying a Scarf Good
Tang Dynasty
Liu Shang
"Qin Songs and Songs·Eighteen Beats of Hujia"
6. Three Hundred Etiquettes
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Tang
Li Qiao
"Jing"
7. It is good etiquette to carry a scarf
Tang
p>Liu Shang
"Eighteen Beats of Hujia·Eighteenth Beat"
8. Etiquette of the Qing Dynasty
Tang Dynasty
< p> Pi Rixiu"Taihu Poetry Sansu Shenjing Palace"
9. Xu Donghe Etiquette
Tang Dynasty
Hanshan
"Three Hundred and Three Poems"
10. Xu Donghe Etiquette
Tang Dynasty
Hanshan
"Three Hundred and Three Poems"
11. Etiquette has been abolished since then
Yuan Dynasty
Wang Mian
"From Cui Zhen to Jeju Human Feelings" Customs can be lamented in thirty rhymes"
12. Etiquette is ready
Song Dynasty
Cheng Gongxu
"Poems of Ming Dynasty Jin Jie" "
13. It is actually in line with etiquette
Song Dynasty
Lin Tong
"Two hundred and forty poems about the filial piety of the wise·Zhang Ba "
14. Three Hundred and Three Thousand Etiquette
Song Dynasty
Lu Xizhe
"Quequatrains"
15 , Fang Yue He Xia'an Etiquette
Song Dynasty
Mo Ji
"Ci Yun Liang Wei Qin Stele"
16. The Glory and Etiquette of Hairpins and Silks
p>Song Dynasty
Sixi
"Yuan Ri"
17. Talking loudly and laughing with strict etiquette
Song Dynasty< /p>
Wang Gongchen
"Poems of the Senior Elite Meeting"
18. Etiquette for Visitors
Song Dynasty
Wei Ye
"A Letter to Wang Qujian"
19. The etiquette is now ready
Song Dynasty
You Jiuyan
"Celebrating Yu Thoughts on Everlasting Crown"
20. Offering Ceremony
Song Dynasty
Zhou Duanchen
"Traveling to the Fields" 》
21. Li Taishu
Ming
Li Chongren
"Buan Jin Tai Chang"
22. It is etiquette to stand up and sit down
Ming
Zhang Tuan
"To the Plowmen of Xiaoxi" 8. What are the poems about etiquette
< p> 1. “If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t stand up. ”——— "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
2. A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love and respect them.
——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
3. It is disrespectful to go back and forth but not come back; It is not polite.
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li"
4. Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image.
——— Goethe: "Affinity"
5. One of the most important tasks of civilization is to enable man to be dominated by form in his purely material life, and to enable man to become an aesthetic within the reach of the kingdom of beauty.
--- Schiller: "Books on Aesthetic Education"
6. Politeness is the art of choosing from one's own true thoughts.
——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele"
7. Politeness makes polite people happy, and it also makes those who are treated with politeness happy. The people who wait are happy.
——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Law"
1. The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette. Since ancient times, it has advocated reciprocity and reciprocity.
2. Tolerance is a traditional etiquette known by the Chinese people, and we must defend it!
3. The world recognizes China as a country of etiquette.
4. Be polite when facing your elders. This is an etiquette we must learn.
5. The graceful etiquette lady walked up to the rostrum and presented the winners with red and flowers.
6. At the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, the gentle hostess left a good impression on the Chinese and foreign guests.
7. A strictly trained etiquette lady, every move is just right.
8. Although many red tapes can be omitted, paying attention to etiquette is still necessary.
9. He seemed overwhelmed by my thoughtful manners.
10. Our country has been a land of etiquette since ancient times.
11. Although many red tapes can be omitted, paying attention to etiquette is still necessary.
12. Etiquette has a long history in our country, and China is recognized by the world as a country of etiquette.