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A survey on the friendship standards of middle school students

Zhu Qichuan, Li Yijun, Wang Shan and Pan Xiaojing in the second year of high school (4) class

1. Introduction:

The purpose of our team's investigation is as follows: First, we believe that the requirements for talents in contemporary society are very high, and talents are the embodiment of comprehensive quality. Therefore, communicative ability plays an important role in talent selection in future society. This is also what we need to learn at this age. We will take advantage of this course to conduct a survey to understand the guidelines and some good methods for making friends among contemporary students. We also know some shortcomings to summarize better ways to make friends. Not only do we gain some experience ourselves, but we also share it with our students and friends. This can better enable students to play their social role as students.

2. Survey method, survey objects and survey process

Survey method: in the form of questionnaire (see appendix)

Survey objects: sophomores in junior high school and senior high school School students

Investigation process: After the guidance of the teacher and repeated discussions among the team members, the investigation paper was drawn up. Confirm the questionnaire after modification and print it. Then, each of the four members of our group was responsible for distributing 40 test papers and taking them back. Among them, we discussed and decided to conduct a survey in two junior high schools and high schools. In order to make the survey results more scientific and accurate, we also decided on 80 male and female survey subjects each. (Result: 75 copies each were recovered)

3. Analysis:

Analysis: More people in junior high schools and high schools chose answer C. It shows that students and friends have strong autonomy, but they are not blindly independent, but make decisions based on their parents' opinions and their own judgment. We think this choice may reflect that today's students have a strong sense of self, and it also means that today's students are relatively sensible when it comes to making friends.

For the second question, from the feedback data of this question, we can see that there are obvious differences between middle and high school students in option B. High school students pay more attention to personal opinions when interacting with others. Junior high school students are more likely to accept other people's opinions. It shows that high school students are more mature mentally than junior high school students.

For the third question, middle school students and high school students have the same idea in this question. Most of them think "normal, relatively normal". We think this phenomenon is more common in this age group.

For the fourth question, we believe that contemporary students need a more direct feeling for communication between people, and they all hope to give themselves a real feeling of communication. Perhaps truth is the most important thing in interactions between people.

For the fifth question, to our surprise, a certain proportion of people chose “no true friends”. This is a question worth pondering. In this increasingly competitive society, it would be so sad if you don’t even have true friends. In choosing friends, criteria are an issue. I hope that in the future society, true friends will be available to you everywhere.

For the sixth question, our analysis of this question shows that high school students are choosing items B and C for junior high school students. This involves a more touching topic. Although high school students are more open-minded than junior high school students, we believe this also has a certain impact on education. After all, junior high school students are in the stage of being guided, while high school students are in the stage of becoming independent.

Question 7.

High school students go first: D F A, last: E B

Junior high school students go first: F A D, last: E

Among the first few choices, Junior high school students and high school students are the same, but high school students talk most about their own troubles and happiness, which shows that high school students have greater psychological pressure than junior high school students.

The eighth question can reflect the respondent’s mentality of making friends. Fortunately, there are still many people who don't care about this. They believe that everyone has their own way of making friends, and as long as everyone is happy, that's all.

Questions 9 and 10 reflect the criteria students use to make friends. The results show that contemporary students have very high qualities and are relatively objective and rational when looking at people. Although grades are very important to students, students pay more attention to whether they have the same hobbies, interests, and sincerity.

Final analysis:

In some questions, we found that there are many similarities between junior high school students and high school students. As in question 3, both junior high school students and high school students think it is normal to call them younger siblings. Through our discussions and the teacher’s prompts, we summarized three reasons why middle school students and high school students are somewhat homosexual:

First, today’s children are all only children, and they are relatively lonely. I hope to have a brother or sister with whom I can share my happiness and troubles. Therefore, school has become an important place for students to make friends. In order to make each other more harmonious, using the titles of younger siblings to enhance friendship also makes oneself feel that one has more "relatives".

Secondly, we believe that there are some problems with parents and teachers’ educational methods for heterosexual interactions. After all, there is a certain generation gap between the two generations in some aspects. Some forced education makes students have a rebellious mentality. The more adults try to stop something, the more they try to do it. But I'm afraid of being said to be a one-on-one relationship. So I used the title of younger brother and sister.

Third, watching TV has become an essential thing for students every day. In some idol dramas, students always recognize others as brothers and sisters when they see the characters in the plot. It feels quite fresh and they want to try it. Since one person has this idea, other people will also have it. Therefore, "sibling title" has become a "popular fashion". In fact, there is no difference between normal and abnormal names for younger siblings. No one can give it a correct price. As long as it's based on friendship, then why not? But for those who recognize their younger siblings at every turn, that's not acceptable. In fact, just a few "brothers and sisters" are enough, there is no need to have many. I hope that the majority of student friends will notice this.

As for what they usually talk about with their friends and classmates, most junior high school students and high school students talk about more casual or happy topics, almost all of which are away from study or compulsory issues. It reflects the pressure and some rebellious mentality of students in school. With this mentality, among the final options, more high school students chose to talk about study. There are also not a few junior high school students who choose it. This is a matter of concern. Students don’t talk about study among themselves. Does this mean that students don’t like to talk? But the good news is that few middle school students or high school students like to talk about others. This is the most basic condition for being a friend. This shows that students still respect others. From the other options, we can also see that contemporary students want to talk about topics that are of interest to most people.

There are some differences between junior high school students and high school students when it comes to facing their possessiveness towards their friends. Among high school students, about half of them feel uncomfortable and don't care if such things happen to them. There are 28 people in each. Although there are only a few people who can accept others, those two 28 people also expressed a problem. Too possessive of friends. And that's not good. And this can be a bit of a hindrance to making friends. This problem is more prominent among girls. Maybe it's a personality issue. It is true that if your good friend suddenly alienates you and becomes close to other classmates, you will not feel very good psychologically, but everyone is free to make friends. Friends are not yours alone. He has the right to make more friends. Besides, being able to make more friends should be a good thing. There is no need for you to be jealous. So in this regard, everyone must have a good attitude.

Everyone makes several friends. Of course, there are many differences in choosing friends. Most high school students think that same-sex friends only need to have the same interests and hobbies. The same is true for friends of the opposite sex. They think that the other person must be generous and considerate. Although junior high school students also think that having similar interests is enough, they value the other person's character, temperament, etc. less than high school students. This shows that high school students are more rational and objective than junior high school students. Because the most important thing about a person is his character. Of course, having similar interests is also important. But if a person's character is not good, it will be of no use no matter how many similar hobbies you have with him. Therefore, I hope that students can pay attention to this aspect when making friends in the future.

Friends play an important role in our lives, and choosing friends is even more important. Compared with our parents, we have little experience in this aspect, but we do not necessarily have to follow our parents' opinions completely. We can use our parents' opinions as a reference for choosing friends, so that we neither blindly follow nor resist. And we need to pay more attention to the character of our friends.

At the same time, you must adjust your mentality and avoid having a bad mentality of jealousy.

Friends will lend you a helping hand when you are in trouble; share with you when you are happy; help you resolve your sorrow and comfort you when you are sad. Sometimes, just a look, a gesture, and a simple word can convey infinite warmth to each other. And these can only be realized if you pay your sincerity and actions. You will get back as much as you pay.

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