The more introverted a woman is, the more masculine she is.
These three kinds of women seem simple, but in fact, they are all "men's shows" in their hearts, and men are inseparable. First, a woman who buries her feelings in her heart If a woman is full of coquettish spirits, then no matter what man she is, she will hook up with him, even very obviously, and the woman in "Men Show" is afraid to express it in her heart. Such a woman cares about her image very much. Only when she gets along with her for a long time will she discover her inner thoughts, and then he will show sincerity to you. Second, women who are eager to be loved like women who hook up with men and always want men around, but the women in Men Show are different. They are eager for the company of men, so don't enjoy the company of men. If you stay away from him, he will be very upset. Third, I pretend to be a woman with a pure heart and a very warm heart. Some women pretend to be pure in order to hide their inner thoughts, and even avoid the topic of some vulgar men. This kind of woman gives men a very pure image, but in fact, they really need enthusiasm in their bones. Whether it's a man show or a slut, every woman expresses her love in a different way. Only when she really contacted, did she know whether this person was suitable for her. Therefore, when a man chooses a partner, he must have in-depth contact with the other party before deciding whether to continue to associate. The more introverted a woman is, the more masculine she is. 2 What is introverted personality? In psychology, introversion refers to a type dominated by temperament. It was carl jung who formally put forward the concepts of extroversion and introversion in 192 1 Psychotypology. The difference between these two traits lies in the direction in which psychological energy points. For introverts, their energy points to the inside, so they are more interested in the inner world, quieter, like to be alone, introspect and think. In his personality questionnaire, Essenck described the typical introverted personality as quiet, withdrawn, conservative, introspective, fond of being alone and not in contact with people, and used to keeping a certain distance from people. Tend to do things in a planned way, look ahead and look back, not impulsive. Regular and rigorous daily life, etc. It can be seen that introversion and extroversion are only one kind of human temperament, and there is no comparability between good and bad. Moreover, introverted personality has more social and survival advantages than people in inertial thinking think. What are the advantages of introverted women that are easily overlooked? 1. Delicate mind, more concerned about others. We are used to thinking that women often have more sensitive and delicate personality characteristics than men, and a psychological study further shows that introverted women are not only more sensitive than men, but also have more sensitive sensory mechanisms and emotional response mechanisms than extroverted women of the same age. This means that introverted women can often analyze and deal with the same thing more quickly and carefully. Ajan used to be a depressed patient, and he was always afraid of love and marriage-until he met his current girlfriend. That is a shy and introverted girl. At first, friends around Ajan didn't think highly of them. They think that Ajan should find a lively, cheerful, sunny and confident girl to help heal his previous trauma. However, it is such an unremarkable introverted woman who completely saved Ajan. In the process of getting along, emotionally, she can always be keenly aware of Ajan's subtle emotional changes and give him the most gentle and delicate guidance and comfort in time; Life is more comprehensive, and I take care of Ajan in every possible way. "In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex. What is rare is to meet understanding. " There is no doubt that for Ajan, this sensitive and introverted girl is the one who truly understands, respects and tolerates him. Second, strong empathy, better at managing a relationship. In a psychological test for introverts and extroverts, it is found that introverts tend to have stronger empathy than extroverts, while among introverts, women have stronger empathy than men. The so-called "empathy ability" is the ability to transcend one's narcissism and understand others' narcissism. In layman's terms, it is the ability to experience the situation of others, so as to feel and understand their emotions. We often say that no one can really put themselves in another person's shoes. As Mr. Lu Xun said: "The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, but I just think they are noisy." However, for a considerable number of introverted women, perhaps they can communicate with others about their emotions. Although they seem to be taciturn and inarticulate, they are more delicate and sensitive and have stronger empathy than ordinary people. This unique and powerful empathy ability means that introverted women can take care of each other more thoughtfully and meticulously in intimate relationships, even with the slightest feelings. Thirdly, the painter and director Stallone, who is good at solitude and gives people a unique sense of independence, said: "When people pursue their ideals, they fall into loneliness." Yes, people are born lonely; A person who wants to follow his heart firmly and listen to the call of his soul, and a person who wants to realize himself, the first thing he needs to learn is to enjoy loneliness. And introverted women are undoubtedly more valuable to realize themselves and succeed, because they are all introverted, accustomed to and inclined to accumulate energy from internal psychological activities, and they are better at being alone and enjoying long-term self-loneliness. Furthermore, each of us is an independent individual, and we can move forward together, but we should not be confined to Nuo Nuo. Only those who can withdraw from the circle of intimate passion from time to time can have the opportunity to "recharge" themselves and give each other a chance to breathe. This is not only spiritual practice and integrity of personality, but also the key to keep a relationship fresh and go further. Therefore, the "super power" that introverted women get along with themselves is obviously more conducive to the durability and stability of an intimate relationship. In fact, many people who achieve great success in the end are mostly introverts. Madeleine Eng once said that if no one spent all her time reading and thinking when she was a child, she would not have become such a bold thinker. Another example is Audrey Hepburn, the first generation goddess. She said that she prefers to be alone, saying that if there is an opportunity, she would like to be alone from Saturday night to Monday morning ... And when you are loved by an introverted woman, you will feel more deeply that there is a deep taste in that sensitive and delicate love: "I want thousands of pairs of eyes on the eternal night, so that I can watch you alone. One day you will find that the more introverted a woman is, the more attractive and powerful she is. The more introverted a woman is, the more masculine she is. 3 1. She looks very quiet. In fact, the main meaning of her dream is that she looks quiet, not only wearing quiet clothes, but also talking quietly at ordinary times. Anyway, no matter which angle you look at him from, she looks very quiet, but after a long time of contact, you may find that she is not like that. 2, like to pretend to be deep, sometimes people in man show look more introverted. For example, they usually dress more steadily and look like a traditional feudalism, but they will wear more exposed at home and take off all the reserved things outside. Just as the chameleon will be discovered, such a woman will make mistakes and make a fool of herself. For example, in some public places, a woman with a stuffy cover suddenly changed a dress, which shows that such a woman is actually very man show inside. 3. Dual Personality In fact, women in Men's Show generally have dual personalities. Such women always have a cold expression, which may give people the feeling of being gentle and polite, very serious and humble, but once they travel abroad or have a picnic in front of familiar friends, when they have no psychological burden, they will put down all their usual reserve, become crazy and become a completely different person. Maybe such a woman looks at everyone's personality differently.