Famous sayings about family tradition: The prosperity of humanity must come from couples:
1. Daughters-in-law should respect their parents-in-law as their own parents. The ancients said: Everyone in life has double parents. So both parents should be treated equally.
2. If you can’t do it, don’t say it. There is no dignity if your words don’t count.
3. Don’t interfere in your children’s affairs, let your children take charge of the family, and don’t pretend to be senior.
4. If your children are disobedient and unfilial, you must first ask yourself whether you are also unfilial to the elderly and whether you have done something wrong. The superiors do not recognize the merits of the parents (the elderly), and the inferiors (the children) do not educate them well.
5. Zhijie couples are grateful to each other and never blame others. The couple in the mind realm are happy. The husband leads his wife to enlightenment, and the wife helps her husband to become virtuous. They will never be angry. A couple in the mental world is a ceremonial couple, so they will rule over each other! A couple in the physical world is a couple who beats and scolds, causing trouble throughout their lives.
6. Be content and happy, and take care of your destiny at home. Promote family traditions, praise ancestors' virtues, and educate children and grandchildren to know how to appreciate, be grateful, and repay kindness.
7. To rectify others first, rectify oneself. Parents should first transform their nature into nature and cultivate their nature. Know how to discipline yourself first before you can educate your children. Regardless of whether your children are filial or not, ask yourself whether you are kind or not.
8. The entire family is built on love. A family cannot be established without love. Love is the first condition for starting a family.
9. The husband has the courage to take on the responsibilities of the family and persuade others with reason. If the family makes mistakes, he will feel guilty.
10. The husband should take care of his father-in-law and his mother-in-law, and the wife should be filial to her parents-in-law. For example, when buying things for the elderly, the son-in-law should give it to his father-in-law and mother-in-law in person, and the daughter-in-law should give it to her parents-in-law in person.
11. If you use calculations, you will have plenty of food and clothing; if you use calculations, the seas will be dry and the mountains will be empty.
12. If things want to go well, ask the elders; if the family wants to prosper, ask the younger generation.
13. If a scholar has a shrewd wife, good friends will not come; if the state has jealous ministers, no wise men will remain.
14. After giving birth to a child, you still need to think about how to educate so that the child will become a complete person in the future.
15. Living in a family that has lost harmony is equivalent to living in hell.
16. If a family is at odds with itself, that family cannot stand.
17. People leave their children and grandchildren with wealth, but I leave my children and grandchildren with innocence.
18. There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside. However, there are very few people who can succeed.
19. The prosperity of humanity must come from couples.
20. When people quarrel, pigs hawk.