Cai Kangyong said: You are what you say.

You are elegant and connotative, and your speech is naturally polite;

You are rude and outspoken;

You are kind and gentle, and you must be considerate when you speak;

If you are narrow-minded, you will definitely talk with a gun and a stick.

Words are hearts and words are mirrors.

Language is like a mirror, expressing a person's heart. The cultivation of the mouth is actually the cultivation of the heart.

Mouth is the feng shui of the family.

Family is a warm harbor, provided there are not too many blows.

For children: scolding can not bring growth, but only scars.

To your loved ones: if you are not careful, it will cause irreparable harm.

Children who are often beaten are not confident, sensitive and inferior, and children who are often praised will grow up little by little with the encouragement of their parents.

"One prize is not as good as more than ten", and encouraging children more is the most correct way of education.

In psychology, there is a word called "pygmalion effect": praise, trust and expectation have an energy that can change people's behavior.

"Caigen Tan" said:

"Family, should not be furious, should not be abandoned. It's hard to say, there are other things to suggest; If you don't realize it today, you will be warned tomorrow. If the spring breeze thaws, such as harmony and deicing, it is a family model. "

When a family member makes a mistake, don't get angry and just blame. Just as the warm spring breeze melts the frozen soil of the earth and the warm climate melts the ice, this is the mode of dealing with household chores.

Praising your children and being kind to your family are the secrets of family prosperity.

Mouth is the feng shui of career.

Carnegie said: Only 15% of a person's success depends on professional skills, while 85% depends on interpersonal skills.

The development of a person's career depends not only on his actions, but also on his mouth.

Bo Huang is a famous high EQ in the entertainment circle.

He replied: "This shows that the audience's aesthetics have improved. I used to only look at the skin, but now I will look at the stuffing. "

This sentence admits that you are not good-looking, so that the other party has a step down; Praise the improvement of the audience's aesthetic power. By the way, I have stuffing (strength). It is really amazing to win three parties in one sentence and skillfully resolve the provocation.

When a person can talk, he can always embarrass the other person, and he can also have a step down, so now people are willing to cooperate with Bo Huang wherever he goes.

Mouth is a person's highest emotional intelligence.

Before Run, the star of ipartment was invited.

The director group arranged for Michael Chen to compete with them in two teams.

Michael Chen said that his palms were full of meat, and he felt very embarrassed.

So, Li Chente spoke this sentence frankly and frankly: "Are these your two most important resources?"

This sentence turned the harmonious atmosphere of everyone into a naked interest relationship.

The scene immediately became awkward.

Deng Jiajia immediately added: "It is the most important two!"

I just changed two words, which immediately gave people a different feeling.

I have to admire Deng Jiajia's EQ.

At the Shanghai Film Festival in June 20 17, Xiaogang Feng said, "Why are there so many junk movies in China? It's not just because there are so many garbage viewers. If you don't join, there won't be such a thing ... "

Mouth is a person's highest emotional intelligence.

Speaking too directly without considering each other's feelings will destroy interpersonal relationships, and when all the friends around you are angry, it is too late to regret it.

There is a famous saying in "War and Peace": "Misfortune comes from the mouth, and duplicity comes from the mouth."

Don't say what you shouldn't say, but be careful what you should say. This is a person's virtue, a person's feng shui.