Reading Wonderful and Terrible made me think about 1.
Suddenly I feel suddenly enlightened: the love of parents is the same, but the expression is different.
This text tells the different opinions of the parents of the famous American writer budd schulberg about a poem he wrote when he was a child. His mother's evaluation is "great" because she knows that Buddy is still a child and he needs encouragement. Father said, "It's terrible", because he thought that only strictness can educate children to write good works. In his later years, the author continued to write many poems, novels, plays and screenplays. Every time mom says "wonderful", dad says "terrible".
When I first read this article, I really felt sorry for the author. His father is too harsh. However, after I deeply understand this article, I envy the author for having such a father.
Mother's "wonderful" comes from the power of mother's love, the source of inspiration and creation, the comfort of the author, the unremitting writing of the author, and the constant praise and encouragement of the mother. So as to gain sustained confidence and motivation.
However, these are not enough. When a person feels very satisfied, he needs to have such a person around him, with the power of warning to balance and spur.
Father's "terrible", the power of warning, often reminds the author to be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve, which promotes the author's rapid progress and makes the author gain strength from another aspect and be more determined to succeed.
In the past, whenever I did something wrong, my father would immediately pull his face down and lose his temper, but my mother always protected me. Now I finally know: beating is kissing, scolding is love. Now, I am also proud of having these two kinds of love.
As the article says: "A writer should say that everyone in life needs the strength from his mother. This kind of love is the source of inspiration and creation. But this alone is not comprehensive and may lead people astray. Therefore, it needs the power of warning to balance, and someone needs to remind you from time to time: be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve. " So, buddy is lucky, and so are we. In life, we not only need "wonderful" maternal love and praise, but also can summon up the courage to advance, raise the sail of hope and March forward bravely. What's more, I need the "terrible" love of strict father to spur myself and point out the shortcomings for you. We should always draw strength from these two kinds of love and keep ourselves moving forward.
I read an article some time ago-wonderful and terrible. After reading it, I suddenly felt the same way as the author.
The article tells the story that the little hero Buddy wrote a poem when he was a child, but his parents gave two completely different evaluations. As the hero grows up, he finally understands that although his parents have different comments, they all love him the same.
After reading this article, I feel that Buddy's parents want their son to grow up healthily, and so do my parents? They are also like Buddy's parents, one is kind and friendly, the other is strict.
I remember once, my family went on an outing together and saw a unit engaged in an "impromptu composition" competition. My mother, who usually lets me practice my composition well, immediately took me to sign up. After receiving two pieces of paper from the organizer, I buried myself in writing. Half an hour later, I finished it. I quickly handed the article to the organizer. They nodded while watching, and soon, the results of the competition came out, and I actually won the first place. Dad looked at it, smiling, patted me on the forehead and said, "Good boy, very good. It's really wonderful. " Come on! Show it to your mother, and she will be happy. "After listening to my father's praise, I showed it to my mother with confidence. I saw that the more my mother read this article, the more her frown became. It's 300 words long, but I feel like my mother has been studying for a century. Finally, mom finished reading it. I was just about to ask how it was, when my mother said with an unhappy face, "It's not so good, it's too bad. Such a bad article also won the first prize. What game? Go back and rewrite! "At that time, my tears flowed out instantly, so my parents quarreled. ...
That's great. That's terrible. I finally understood my parents' good intentions. My father did this for fear that I would feel too inferior, while my mother poured cold water on me to "calm down" and make me not too proud. The same is true in life. Those who listen to praise all day will not suffer a little setback and eventually fail, while those who listen to criticism all day will lose the chance of success because they are too inferior.
Encouragement is the accelerator of the car, which will carry people all the way forward, but it is likely to go down the cliff, so you need to brake. This is a warning. Only by warning and encouraging each other can we succeed. Let's use the "accelerator" and "brake" correctly and drive in the direction of success!
After reading Wonderful and Terrible, I feel that love is the most beautiful and precious emotion of human beings. Especially the love of parents is a rich spiritual property for children. It will always spur the next generation, inspire the next generation, accompany the next generation and move towards the road to success. Please don't think that I am on a whim now. This is my profound understanding of love after reading the article "Wonderful and Terrible".
"Wonderful" and "terrible" are articles with profound philosophy. He wrote two completely different opinions about my mother and father writing my first poem in the first person. Two attitudes are "wonderful" or "terrible" that I know from the bottom of my heart. These two extreme assertions have a common starting point, that is, they love reading this article, especially the meaningful ending. It seems that I have grown up a lot at once. Before, I could only accept the love from the author's mother. Whenever I try to do something, I hope to get the affirmation and encouragement from my elders. If I work hard to complete a task, write an article that makes me proud or succeed in a real experiment, I certainly hope to be affirmed or even rewarded. If what I hear at this moment is heartless negation and useless criticism, so emotionally, I hope my elders can give me more appreciation and encouragement like the author's mother.
After reading the article, I feel that the previous view is only about whether there is a connection between feelings. Considering this, it seems a bit superficial. There are many images mentioned in the article. Everyone in life needs strength from his mother. This power of love is the source of inspiration and creation. In our life, there should be two kinds of voices that always accompany us, that is, the "wonderful" given by the encourager and the "terrible" from the stern advice. Although it looks high-key and low-key, it is all heartfelt love, "wonderful" and "terrible". This article left a deep impression on me and will always inspire me to make progress.
Thoughts on reading Wonderful and Terrible 4. Parents' two diametrically opposed opinions on this poem written by budd schulberg are like two streams that put budd schulberg in the middle, keeping him on the right path and not going astray.
I didn't learn this lesson, and I was indignant at my father's criticism, thinking that my father didn't love me. Now I understand my father's heart. My father's criticism is a kind of strict love for me, and it is a kind of strict love. My father's severe criticism of me is like hitting a wall that leads me astray and setting me in the right direction!
After learning the texts Wonderful and Terrible, I can't help thinking of something I did before. It was a hot summer. I ran into the room happily and said excitedly to my mother, "Mom, I got 98 points in the Chinese exam, ranking first in my class!" " "My mother is also very happy. She hugged me three times in the same place. I am in high spirits. When my father came back, my mother rushed up and said, "Your daughter is the first in the class! 98!” I was waiting for my father to praise me, but my father said with a straight face, "how did you deduct these two points?" "Be careful, isn't it 100?" I pointed out the wrong questions on the test paper. At that time, I really hated my father in my heart and felt that my father was too strict with me.
Now I have learned the texts "Wonderful" and "Terrible" before I understand my parents' different love for me!
Thoughts on reading Wonderful and Terrible 5 This is an interesting article, which I read in a Chinese book. After reading it, I have a lot of feelings.
The main point of this article is that the author wrote an article when he was under twelve years old, and his parents had different opinions on it. Mother thinks that children need encouragement, so she says "great"; From the writer's point of view, dad saw many problems and said "terrible". In the article, I was deeply touched by a passage: now I have many works, and I have published novels, scripts and movie scripts. I realize more and more how lucky I am. I have a kind mother who often says to me, "Dude, did you write this?" Wonderful! "I also have a strict father who always frowned and said," This is terrible. "A writer, it should be said that everyone in life needs the power from his mother. This kind of love and strength is the source of inspiration and creation. But this alone is not comprehensive and may lead people astray. So it needs the power of warning to balance, and someone needs to remind you from time to time: "Be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve. "
After reading it, I feel that in a person's life, it is not all praise, but also criticism. If you just listen to praise, you will never make progress. Praise is the sunshine in life, which can make you confident; Criticism is the thunder in life, which can sober you up.
After reading Wonderful and Terrible, I feel that "love" is more than just caring. Sometimes it can be expressed by severity, sometimes it can be expressed by protection, and sometimes ..... In "wonderful" and "terrible" articles, maternal love is the source of writing, giving the author inspiration for writing, while paternal love is severe, reminding the author not to go astray. However, whether it is the protection of maternal love or the strictness of paternal love, the author knows from the bottom of his heart that this is the love of his parents.
The same is true in life, except that my mother is very strict with me in study, but she often cries for me in life, while my father is very gentle in life, but she is very strict with my hygiene and eating etiquette.
20xx passed the final exam 100. The father happily said to his mother, "Wife, let's take our son to Happy Valley!"! This is my son's first test 100, which is ok, but the price is that he is not allowed to play computer tomorrow. Mom said, I'll refute it right away; " It's not fair. I took the exam for the first time 100. Why can't I go to Happy Valley? I got 100 this time. Can I get 100 next time? I looked down and my face began to turn red. The next day, my mother came to my room, and I was still angry about yesterday. "I'm sorry, something was wrong with me yesterday. I really should relax when I get 100 for the first time. Otherwise, how about going? " My face was faster than turning a book, and I immediately hugged my mother.
There are many ways to express "love", which can be severe or gentle. ......
Thoughts on reading Wonderful and Terrible 7 I recently learned the text Wonderful and Terrible, and I was deeply touched.
The main content of this text is a poem written by the author bud when he was a child. He took it to his mother and got a good evaluation from her. He wanted his father to praise himself, so he waited until 8 o'clock in the living room. However, when the father saw the poem written by his son, he threw it back and criticized Bud. When the author grew up, he found that what he wrote when he was a child was really bad. His father's criticism was right, and his mother's praise was only encouraging himself.
In life, we need not only mother's encouragement, but also father's criticism to balance our psychology. We should catch this boat in our life so that it won't be blown down by any wind. This text reminds me that I got good grades in Unit 4 when I was 4 years old. I am happy to go home and want to show my parents my grades. However, to my surprise, my father not only didn't praise me, but also said that this score couldn't even get into the worst university. My mother praised me and said, "Don't listen to your father. You're great. Try to do better next time. " . Come on! "
Mother's encouragement and father's criticism come from love for us.
After reading Wonderful and Terrible, I feel that "the greatest happiness lies in our shortcomings being corrected and our mistakes being saved." This sentence was said by Goethe, a great German writer. After reading "wonderful" and "terrible" articles, I really understand the profound meaning of this famous saying.
A person can't be perfect, with both good and bad sides. Good ones need encouragement, bad ones need criticism, and others need help to correct them in order to continuously improve themselves.
I have been a clever boy since I was a child, and I am a good girl in the hearts of my family and teachers. I was praised at home and in kindergarten, so I grew up with praise. But since I went to primary school, I have been criticized more. At first, I was a little unhappy and even hated criticism. I'm getting bored, but I don't know how to get rid of it. I found that praise was leaving me, but criticism kept coming at me ... I kept asking myself, "Does my Li Bing really have so many problems?" Or is fate playing tricks on me? "I'm at a loss and lost in chaos. ...
Today, after watching Wonderful and Horrible, I began to understand. It gave me a clear answer: criticism, like praise, is also an indispensable thing in life. When you get criticism from others, you should be as happy as getting praise from others, because it makes you find another shortcoming of yourself and let you correct it in time. Although I didn't encourage his mother as often as the author did, and I didn't criticize his father as often as the author did, after reading this article, I also have a new understanding: criticism is not a kind of criticism or embarrassment to you. It is like a traffic light, telling you how to pass on the road of life.
Thoughts on Reading Wonderful and Terrible 9 Today we learned a text called Wonderful and Terrible.
The author of this text recalled that when he was seven or eight years old, he wrote a poem, which was praised by his mother, who said it was wonderful. The author is so proud that he wants to show this poem to his father. His father is an important figure in a film company, and the author thinks that his father will definitely praise this poem more. In the evening, my father came home, finished reading this poem and said, "I think this poem is terrible." When he grew up, the author published novels, plays and screenplays. The author realizes that everyone should come from his mother's strength, which is the source of creation, but it is not enough to have these, but also from his father's strength, which needs his father's warning to balance and someone to remind you at all times.
After reading this text, my feeling is that parents give us love in many ways, such as encouragement, criticism, etc ... Parents give you different love, such as maternal love like water and father's love like a mountain. Strict father's love is different from that of a loving mother, but neither father's love nor mother's love works. If they disappear, they either blame themselves or are too complacent.
This is the main content of "wonderful" and "terrible", and it is also my feeling after reading this text.
Wonderful and terrible reading, feeling 10. I have doubts and deep feelings about reading Wonderful and Terrible.
This article describes that when the author Buddy was seven or eight years old, he wrote a poem, which was wonderful and made his mother read it. Buddy's face showed a smile. But his father doesn't think so. He thinks this poem is terrible. He made Buddy's hopeful heart suddenly fall to the ground. It was his mother's insistence and his father's insistence that made Buddy embark on the road to success as a writer.
In fact, the way of love is different. Sometimes, love is a strict requirement; Sometimes, love is a kind encouragement; Sometimes love just smiles. ...
My parents, I think they are fickle in this respect. They are not as persistent as Buddy's parents. They always encourage me when I should be encouraged and criticize me when I should be criticized, but I think I will have such parents, who are very happy and happy. Because they let me know what love is.
Although there are different ways of love, it is very important for parents to love us. Is there anything greater in this world than the love of parents?
Wonderful and Terrible Feeling of Reading 1 1 Wonderful and Terrible Feeling of Reading Jison, Class 5, Grade 5, Tashan Primary School, Huancui District, Shandong Province, was deeply touched after reading Wonderful and Terrible.
This article describes that Buddy wrote a poem when he was a child. His mother's evaluation is "wonderful". And his father gave him a "terrible" evaluation. These two kinds of love, one is encouragement and the other is warning. Otherwise, he will be on cloud nine. Therefore, neither can be less.
Like buddy, I have encouragement and warnings. Take my exam as an example. If I don't do well in the exam, my mother will say to me, "Don't lose heart, I think you must have done badly in the exam." Dad will say, "if you don't do well in the exam this time, I won't hit you first." If you don't do well in the next exam, I'll skin your little rabbit! " "In this way, my grades are also rising, much like Buddy's parents. Sometimes my things are lost, and my father says, "I'll buy them for you." Mom said, "Don't lose it in the future! "
This article tells us a truth: everything must have two forces to balance, without one of them, a thing is like a boat, and two forces are like two winds. There is no wind at all, and the boat is going to fall.
After reading the wonderful and terrible, I feel 12 As the saying goes, a mother's love is like the sea, and a father's love is like a mountain. Parents' love always makes us confident. The love of parents will always be our strongest backing and will always give us strength. But there are many ways to express parents' love, which may be warm as the sun's praise or strict requirements. After reading the "wonderful" and "terrible" texts in 19, I have more experience and sentiment.
This text tells a story: Buddy wrote a poem when he was a child, and his mother commented, "Wonderful!" " The authoritative father severely criticized and urged "me" and said with a straight face: "This is terrible." Buddy didn't understand his father's reprimand until he grew up. It is precisely because of his mother's spring breeze encouragement and his father's severe criticism that Buddy embarked on the road to success, became a famous writer and was admired by people.
After reading it, I really envy Buddy. His mother is very kind and can always give him encouragement and restore his confidence. His father is very strict and always reminds him of his shortcomings and makes him strive for perfection.
Aren't my parents the same? My mother is very gentle. When I am frustrated, she can always comfort me and tell me that "failure is the mother of success" and let me get up from where I fell. My father is very strict. Everything requires me to be the best and perfect, and there can be no negligence, so I can play well in work and study, labor and sports. It was Saturday, and my parents were going to get the newspaper. They came back late, so I was at home alone. By this time, I had finished my homework early, so I cleaned the whole house thoroughly and sweated. When my parents came home to see the house clean, my mother gave me a hug for the first time and said, "Yiyi, you are great!" " "My heart is as sweet as honey, but my father said with a straight face," Do one thing to be the best. Do you think you are impetuous in Mao Mao? Do you want the dust on the coffee table? The quilt in the bedroom is not folded well ... "I am like a pot of cold water, so I have to clean it again." I still remember it vividly today. I know my father loves me, too. His love is strict, because he doesn't want to be better and more perfect, and my mother loves me very much, so she always encourages me.
After reading this article, I have a deep feeling: in fact, there are many ways to express love. Although the starting point is the same, the ways are different. Parents' love is sometimes like this, but remember, they all love you.
Reflections on Reading Wonderful and Terrible 13 Today, under the guidance of our teacher, we studied Wonderful and Terrible seriously. The text expresses parents' love, but they all love their children.
The article tells a poem written by Buddy when he was eight years old. His mother praised his poem as great to encourage him, but his father thought it was a terrible poem. A few years later, when Buddy took out that poem again, he had to admit that it was a terrible poem. Buddy became a famous writer with his mother's praise and his father's dissatisfaction.
This passage also made me understand that my parents' strictness and tolerance are all love for me.
That day, because of my naughty, I went to bed very late. I fell asleep snoring as soon as I lay down. Sleeping soundly, suddenly I don't know who pulled me up. I thought there was an earthquake! I opened my eyes and saw that my mother was angry. She flew into a rage and said, "Did you sleep so soundly? Don't remember anything! Get up and write a diary. " I really hate getting up. Muttered: "Isn't it just a broken diary? See if I can't get it in three or two minutes tomorrow morning! " Mom insisted that I write that night. Helpless, I had to get up reluctantly. I had a quarrel with my mother. I didn't even wear clothes, so I started to keep a diary. /kloc-one day in October/February, let alone how cold it is. My mother, who has always loved me, ignored me, and I was wronged. I hate mom!
I went to bed at one o'clock that night, and found that the alarm clock that usually rang twice only rang once. Later, I learned that my mother woke up early in order to let me have a good sleep and waited until the first alarm clock should ring before making breakfast for me. I don't know how early she woke up!
Like Buddy, I understand now that parents' kindness and strictness are deep love for their children. Parents' love is like the bright sunshine in spring, and we are like a young sapling, growing up healthily under the care of our parents.
Reading Wonderful and Terrible on 14 tells us that Buddy has a kind mother and a strict father, and they both love Buddy deeply. Mom always encourages and praises Buddy and often says, "This is great!" " My father always ignores Buddy's feelings and often criticizes and warns Little Buddy: "This is terrible!" Buddy burst into tears. After reading it for the first time, I also felt that Buddy's father was a little unreasonable and too strict.
After careful consideration, I think Buddy is really as lucky as described in the article, because Buddy not only has a kind mother, but also often encourages, praises and praises him. This kind of love is encouraging love, which will double Buddy's confidence and give him creative passion and perseverance when he grows up. Moreover, he also has a strict father, who always criticizes and warns Buddy severely while his mother praises him, so that he will not be complacent, but constantly make up for the lack of writing. These two different forms of love have laid a solid foundation for Buddy's healthy growth. Buddy was finally able to hold the boat of life carefully and sail forward in a balanced way, becoming a famous American writer.
In daily life, we often appreciate the "mother's encouraging" love, but we can't understand the "father's strict" love, which is very unfavorable for our growth. Only when father's strict love and mother's tolerant love are integrated can we grow up healthily.
I have parents who love me as much as Buddy. The difference is that my mother is relatively strict and my father is much more harmonious and tolerant.
I remember one exam, and my grades improved greatly. I came home in high spirits and hurried to tell my father my grades. My father was very excited and kept praising me. I'm so happy. After my mother came back from work, I proudly took the paper to my mother and said proudly, "Mom, look, my grades have improved. It's time to reward me!" " "My mother looked at the paper carefully, looked up at me and said," I thought you did well in the exam. You see, even such questions are wrong. It was careless of you to be happy there. "Mom's words poured a pot of cold water on my head, and it was so good that I said I didn't pay attention. ...
After reading buddy's story, I realized my mother's good intentions. I am proud to have such parents! She didn't mean to blame me, but she didn't want me to be proud of it. On the contrary, she should continue to work hard, study hard and grow into a useful person to society.
Reading wonderful and terrible feelings 15 previewed the text "wonderful and terrible" at home today, and I was deeply touched. Below, I will tell you this touching story!
Buddy (the author of Wonderful and Terrible) wrote a poem when he was seven or eight years old. After reading this poem, his mother hugged Buddy and was full of praise. Buddy was in high spirits. He asked his mother when his father would come back so that he could read the poem to him. He thinks his father will praise him as well as his mother. Buddy waited and waited. It was almost eight o'clock when his father finally pushed the door in, picked up the poem on the table and began to read. "I think this poem is terrible!" Father threw the poem back. My buddy didn't expect this result and burst into tears. Year after year passed, Buddy wrote another short story, and he got up the courage to show it to his father. Father said it was not good. Buddy tried to revise it again, when he was less than twelve years old. Later, Buddy continued to write. Whenever I see Buddy's works, his kind mother always praises and encourages him. His strict father always points out his shortcomings. In this way, "wonderful" and "terrible" two voices have been intertwined in his ear. He deeply realized the "love" contained in the two evaluations, which inspired him to keep moving forward.
After reading this touching story, I feel that not only these two voices of love are often mixed in Buddy's ears, but also these two voices of love often echo in my ears.
When I finish everything, I especially hope to get recognition and praise from my parents and teachers. When I heard the voice praising me, my face smiled and my heart was filled with joy, as if I were sitting on a white cloud. But when I hear the voice that criticizes me, my unhappiness will solidify on my face, and my heart will be heavy, as if I were crushed under the Five Elements Mountain in the wind and rain. I remember that in the first half of the fourth grade, my mother came home from the parent-teacher conference and told me that the teacher praised me at the parent-teacher conference and said that I had studied very well this semester. Hearing the praise, I "changed" a little and felt good. So sometimes I do tricks in class, and sometimes I talk to my deskmate. My mother quarreled with me several times after she found out, and I suddenly felt like it was raining cats and dogs and began to cry. But after I calmed down, I felt that it was wrong to make small moves in class. First, I don't respect teachers, and second, I can't learn knowledge by myself. So, I made up my mind to correct this shortcoming.
Of course, everyone is willing to listen to praise, but when you make a mistake, you need someone to remind you from time to time: "Be careful, pay attention, summarize and improve." I want to tell my parents and all those who care about me that I need your praise and encouragement as well as your criticism and reminder when I grow up! May these two voices of love accompany me to make continuous progress!