When others comfort you or persuade you, they ask you to be more generous and open-minded. In fact, they do not understand your situation, because some things are really not easy to get over. For example, Xiao Yueyue is in After becoming famous, he talked about how when he was working in a restaurant, he was insulted by a customer for three hours just because of two bottles of beer. If it were you, could you be more generous? Obviously, no, then we should not casually persuade others to be more generous, because you don’t understand things, so why do you let others completely forget that after experiencing suffering.
When we heard this, our attitude was just to listen. You don’t even know what happened to me, and your persuasion has no basis. It doesn’t sound good, but who knows what you are saying? We still have to identify and distinguish whether things are good or bad. We understand and support those who are sincere and have good intentions, while those who have ulterior motives and do not understand us should just let it pass and pretend we have never heard of it.
I want to say, don’t persuade others to be generous before you understand the situation. We can’t afford some chicken soup!
In difficult times, what I need is comfort, not generosity
Everyone encounters one or other unsatisfactory things in the journey of life. When we are in a low mood, I hope to get encouragement and support from others instead of blindly tolerating those who make mistakes. If this is the case, what laws and punishments will there be in the world? How to ensure that you will not make mistakes next time? I think it will be difficult to do. .
In fact, this kind of thing is very common around us. A friend finds out that her boyfriend is cheating on her and breaks up with him. Do you want to persuade her to make peace or break up, or to persuade her to endure it? In fact, you still have to see the matter clearly before persuading; an abandoned girl will not forgive her biological parents. Some people stand on the moral high ground and should forgive their parents. There is something unspeakable. What I want to say is that there are some faults in this world. There is really no way to forgive.
Summary: People should "make good use" of their generosity when persuading others. Your generosity may be a "disaster" in the eyes of others, so I think Guo Degang's words are really interesting. Makes sense.
In addition to these, teacher Guo Degang once said some very philosophical words, such as:
Let me have two hectares of fertile land in Luoyang, and I can wear the seals of the six countries
This sentence comes from a famous saying by Su Qin during the Warring States Period. I think Guo Degang had some other meaning when he said this sentence!
The story is roughly about Su Qin, who came from a relatively poor family, and later went to Guiguzi to study. After completing his studies, he did not show his ambitions, but became even more miserable than before. Not only was there no one to comfort him, but he also Being ridiculed by friends, relatives and peers.
However, Su Qin did not give up and continued to redouble his efforts. Later, Su Qin lobbied the princes and became the prime minister of the six countries, which was unprecedented and unprecedented.
After Su Qin finally returned home, he saw his family and neighbors who were bowing and kneeling, and said this emotion, "I have two hectares of fertile land in Luoyang, and I can wear the seal of the Six Kingdoms," which means that if there is anything in Luoyang, I have two acres of farmland, so I won’t force myself to work hard and end up wearing the seal of the six countries.
In addition to this sentence, Guo Degang also said a lot of meaningful words. Without bragging or praising, Guo Degang is already much higher than the average cross talk actor. I still hope that Guo Degang will stick to his original intention and continue to work hard!