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Arrogance and restraint

Blair once said: “If a person is a Conservative Party when he is young, he is too heartless, but if a person is a Liberal Party when he is old, he is too immature. "Perhaps, publicity belongs to young people, while restraint belongs to old people.

Su Shi sang: "As the river goes eastward, the waves are gone, and the romantic figures of the ages are gone." Li Qingzhao murmured: "This time, how can there be such a thing as sorrow?" Perhaps, publicity belongs to men, and restraint belongs to women. .

Be public, let the sun shine brightly on the earth, and revive all things; be restrained, let the clear brilliance of the moonlight accompany the insomniacs to sleep; be public, let the rolling water of the Yangtze River endless; be restrained, let the endless The camel bells in the Sahara desert are sweet to the ear.

What is right and wrong between publicity and restraint?

If you are too public, the scorching sun will make the vegetation wither; if you are too restrained, the darkness will make pedestrians panic; if you are too public, the river will flow. Di; too restrained, the camel bell cannot point the way to those who are lost. It turns out that publicity and restraint are inseparable from each other.

Young people and old people both need to be public and restrained; men and women need to know how to be public and restrained. Only when you promote your youth will your life be bright and colorful. However, being too arrogant becomes arrogance. Arrogance is a sign of childishness, and it may make you fall into an abyss.

"Han Xin ordered troops, the more the better." Facing Liu Bang's question with ulterior motives, Han Xin looked down at the chess game and answered casually. At critical moments, he didn't know how to be restrained and still spoke wildly. Little did he know that his words strengthened Liu Bang's determination to destroy him. Arrogantly, he pushed himself to death. We must learn to be restrained while being public.

Life will be safer if you restrain your personality. However, being too reserved can lead to indifference and cowardice. Throughout the ages, how many literati with lofty ideals have lamented that great ambitions are hard to achieve and heroes have no place to play. They longed for Bole, who knew a thousand-mile horse, but how many people could be as lucky as King Wen, who met Lu Shang while fishing in the Bixi River? Waiting amidst expectations and disappointments, the result can only be that the water will flow even more when you cut off the knife, and the sorrow will increase even more when you raise a cup to relieve your sorrow.

We must learn to express ourselves while being restrained. We need to be novel and changeable, express our individuality, and let the water of life boil; we need to be standardized, stable, restrain our impetuousness, and feel calm in the face of ups and downs.

Introversion is a piece of warmth from mother when it is cold, a burst of coolness from father when it is hot, a pot of coolness when thirsty, and an umbrella as a warning when it rains.

Publicity means singing loudly when you are happy, shouting wildly when you are sad, singing and dancing when you get together, and running behind the train when you say goodbye.

In life, we use restraint and publicity to express our love. A drop of water is enough to make the sea roll, and a withered grass can make the green mountains dim. Don’t forget to be flamboyant, and don’t forget to be restrained.

Exaggeration and restraint

When you are young and full of energy, you are called openness; after middle age, you are reserved but not exposed, and you are hidden but not expressed, which is called restrained. Some people are born introverted and are good at being reserved; some people are born wild and open-minded, which is dictated by their temperament; some people are born open-minded first, and then settle down after being frustrated by the world; some people are born introverted and make a moderate breakthrough, so they can reach great heights. There is no other, it will be matured and perfected the day after tomorrow, and we will reach the same destination through different paths.

When talking and reciting, the tone of voice is ups and downs, thunderous, powerful, and the momentum is like a rainbow, which is publicity; calmness, contraction and release, gentle wind and drizzle, moistening things silently, is restrained.

The sun is public, the moon is restrained; men are masculine, women are feminine; mountains and rivers are steep, lakes and seas are gentle; science and technology are public, philosophy is restrained; Western learning is public, middle school is restrained; Bao Dai is public, Baochai is restrained; external Kung Fu, It is the force of publicity; Tai Chi is feminine, it is the power of restraint. A pebble falls into the abyss, making no sound, the abyss is sobering; a steel needle pierces brocade cotton, it feels neither pain nor itching, just like the magnanimity of cotton.

When the world first opened, the cracked stones stood out. Wind, frost, and rain eroded and washed away the edges and corners, making them round and restrained.

Those in power are flamboyant, while those who have lost power are restrained; reformers are flamboyant, while those who remain in power are restrained; those going down the mountain straighten their backs and stretch, while those going up the mountain are hunched and tense; most new cities are flamboyant, while ancient cities and small towns are restrained; celebrities and big names are flamboyant and perfect. Be restrained; foreign companies are publicized, while state-owned enterprises are restrained; know that the world is huge, people are like ants, afraid of some things, and unable to do something, so be restrained; know people's abilities, "there are specializations in skills, and there are priorities in studies," do not belittle oneself, and act when opportunities arise. It is publicity. When young people show restraint after being public, they will show their maturity; when middle-aged people restrain themselves and then speak out, they will show their courage; when people in power are restrained, they will show their magnanimity; when people who lose power will show their spirit, they will show their spirit. Young people may wish to be more restrained in their publicity; middle-aged people may wish to be more restrained and more public.

If you behave in a low-key manner, often restrained and moderately public, then your interpersonal relationships will be smooth, disasters will be avoided, your career will be successful step by step, and you will have the skills to climb the dragon. On the contrary, if you are criticized by others, or even shot, the leader will die first.

Openness and restraint

Without publicity, we would not be able to see the brilliant sun, the surging Yellow River, or appreciate the majestic Mount Tai. Without publicity, we can't hear Mr. Wen Yiduo's heroic words of walking out of the door with his front foot and not preparing to come in with his back foot. We can't feel the heroic spirit of a strong man who never returns, and we can't appreciate Guan Yu's superhuman courage to attend a meeting alone!

In this publicity era, the publicity of human nature allows us to see the good and evil in the world, and the publicity of style allows us to appreciate the beauty of alternative styles. Publicity means showing one's taste and inner self to everyone. A person's taste is like perfume, whether it has a pleasant fragrance, or is strong and overpowering, or even smells bad. Excessive publicity will make people arrogant and annoying, so Yang Xiu's fearlessness will make him become Cao Cao's target.

As restrained as a water lily, quiet yet charming. A person's introversion is like what Xu Zhimo said in his poem, coming quietly, just like going quietly, waving his sleeves without taking away a cloud, every move is full of mystery. It is also like perfume, with a faint fragrance floating around, a beauty as light as a chrysanthemum. When the mountains are high, there are no birds flying, and when the water is clear, there are no fish. If you are too restrained, the fragrance disappears after the wind and rain, and no one comes to smell it. People will not be able to recognize you, the fragrance of wine will be afraid of the deep alley, and the state of great wisdom and foolishness is not something that everyone can appreciate.

Whether you are flamboyant or restrained, you must have a wealth of knowledge to arm your brain. Otherwise, flamboyant people will become domineering, ambitious, do whatever they want, and become a rat on the street. Being dull, lacking in vitality, and lacking in interest is not synonymous with introversion.

It is easy to balance between publicity and restraint. It is relaxed and powerful, and can be used to the extreme. For example, in the West Lake of Hangzhou, it is always appropriate to wear heavy makeup and light makeup.

Also speaking of publicity

I don’t like publicity, so I don’t like those people and things that are public. The publicity mentioned here simply refers to the behavior of deliberately creating something in order to attract people's attention to achieve the goal.

Perhaps, the lack of publicity is due to lack of publicity; or perhaps, the dislike of publicity is due to jealousy. Being unassuming does not mean that the person is not noticed by others; being unassuming does not mean that the person does not have this ability. Everything has a cause, whoever says it is right, and it doesn’t matter who is right or wrong, as long as it is the opinion in the heart.

In fact, publicity is also an expression of character, which cannot be forced and can be revealed naturally. Perhaps while publicizing, Zhang Yang himself has no awareness of the events he is publicizing, and just expresses himself as he wishes. All your behavior. Publicity is not limited by law, nor is it guided by personality; publicity will change with time, environment, and experience; publicity can be implemented by anyone, but not everyone who implements it can succeed.

Although I don’t like publicity, I also know that publicity may bring good results to people, and it will make people who are publicity get what they want and get something they want in their hearts. Of course, it is also possible that it will have extremely bad consequences, causing everyone to be reviled and despised, and ultimately unable to gain a foothold in front of everyone.

Some people will gain happiness and good luck in their lives because of their publicity, while some people will suffer indelible memories and regrets in their lives because of their publicity. Zhang Yang, if you do well, you will be good; if you do poorly, you will regret it.

I don’t like publicity, so I don’t understand publicity. Stand on the sidelines and watch other people's publicity with a cold eye. If others use Zhang Yang to win or lose, the consequences will be borne by Zhang Yang. Any publicity is derived and deduced by the person who advocated it; the ending is also arranged by the person who advocated it.