One of the ways for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along: Don’t speak ill of your husband in front of her! Every mother thinks that her child is the best, so she should try not to criticize her husband in front of her mother-in-law. Even if there is any problem, don't complain to her mother-in-law blindly, because the son is his biological son, but we follow him She has no blood relationship at all. When you tell your mother-in-law about your husband's faults, it's fine if she is sensible, but if you are unreasonable, it will cause trouble! The second way to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: listen carefully to her nagging! As we get older, there are few old people who don’t like to nag, and sometimes they will repeat a sentence several times. My mother-in-law is like this. Whenever her mother-in-law talks about something, my husband will find it annoying, but I am different. I will listen carefully and talk a few words after commenting. Therefore, listening carefully to your mother-in-law's nagging is also a very good way of communication. After all, every old man hopes that there will be someone around him who is willing to listen to him! The third way to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: Be willing to buy gifts for her! Don’t forget to buy a gift for your mother-in-law on her birthday, Chinese New Year or other festivals. Showing your love for your mother-in-law will not only make your husband feel more grateful to you, but also win your mother-in-law’s love! Elderly people are generally more frugal and practical, so the gifts they buy do not have to be expensive, but just ones that suit their heart. Some time ago, my mother-in-law casually said that she was going to buy a vest to wear. Every time I go to the mall, I always go shopping for elderly clothes. Finally, I bought a very fitting and fashionable vest for my mother-in-law. After I bought it home, even though my mother-in-law said I don’t have to buy such good clothes, but I feel very happy! The fourth way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along: Keep your mother-in-law’s words in mind! As the saying goes: Ginger is spicy when old. This is not unreasonable. After all, the old man has more experience than us. We should keep in mind some of the principles of how to deal with people that he usually teaches us. Of course, sometimes don’t refute different opinions immediately. Nod in agreement first and think about it later. Find opportunities to communicate and put respect for the elderly first! The fifth way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along: seriously learn from her! My mother-in-law's cooking skills are very good. Every time when I praise the delicious food, I never forget to say a few words about how to learn cooking from my mother-in-law. While praising my mother-in-law, it also improves my mother-in-law's status in the family. The old man must feel very happy. happy. Sometimes I help my mother-in-law when I get off work early, and she gives me guidance. I study seriously, and naturally there are many more topics to talk about between my mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law! Sixth way to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: Don’t forget to say good things about your mother-in-law behind her back! A smart woman will not speak ill of her mother-in-law. On the contrary, if she wants to please her mother-in-law, she must say good things. If you talk too much behind your back, it will naturally reach your mother-in-law’s ears. For example, raising children is very hard. Anyone can feel comfortable hearing good words. How can a mother-in-law be unhappy? Moreover, on weekdays, before talking to your mother-in-law, you should affectionately say "Mom". I believe this will be pleasant to the ears of the elderly! Classical Sentences on how to get along in a family 2 How to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law 1. When it comes to getting along, the first and most important thing is mutual respect. In interpersonal communication, no matter what kind of relationship it is, the word "respect" is inseparable. Today's society is a civilized society, and people can only have further interactions with each other on the premise of mutual respect. Therefore, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law must first respect each other. If the daughter-in-law is born in a relatively wealthy family, she has been pampered and lived a princess-like life since childhood. And my husband's family is a relatively ordinary family. The daughter-in-law cannot dislike her husband or treat her mother-in-law coldly because of this. As the saying goes, "Marry a chicken and follow the chicken." Since you choose to marry into their family, you must adapt to their family's life. Not only must you put down your high profile, but you must also fulfill your daughter-in-law's responsibilities to take care of the elderly; if the daughter-in-law is born in a poor family and her husband The family is a wealthy family, and the mother-in-law cannot look down on her daughter-in-law because of this, thinking that her daughter-in-law came here because of the family's wealth. Everyone cannot decide their own birth. She has suffered so much in the past. As a mother-in-law, you must have a loving heart to care for your juniors. 2. Quarrel is the most likely to hurt feelings. Living under the same roof for a long time will always produce some misunderstandings and frictions. When friction occurs, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must remember to stay calm and not quarrel when both parties are very irritable. As a younger generation, a daughter-in-law must not disobey her elders, but must be tolerant and generous to forgive her elders' faults. After all, the elderly are older, and sometimes they are more extreme and casual in their thoughts or actions. If the younger generation has something that they can't stand, they should tolerate it if they can. If they can't help it, they should express it in another way instead of letting it go. She loses her temper; if her daughter-in-law makes any mistakes, her mother-in-law should also tell her tactfully and teach her how to do better.

You shouldn't keep blaming her. After all, she is a junior and has not received enough experience. You need to polish her slowly. You have to think about how you, like your daughter-in-law, grew from ignorance to the experienced mother-in-law you are today when you were young. Therefore, if you treat each other with a generous heart, I believe that the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be greatly reduced.