The way husband and wife get along has always been very particular. It's really hard for couples to get along with that unpleasant thing. This is a part of life in itself. Of course, the love between husband and wife can solve this trouble. There is an old saying in China, which I quite agree with, that is, idiots are afraid of women, and virtuous women respect their husbands.
It's not easy to live with two people. He must be fastidious, tolerant and helpful. In particular, mutual tolerance is difficult to achieve. So what does it mean that idiots are afraid of women and virtuous women respect their husbands? Where did it come from? This sentence comes from China's first book "Augmented Sage". This book contains many famous sayings and aphorisms from ancient China, including etiquette and morality, treating people with things, customs and rules, etc. What does this old saying mean when translated? In other words, stupid people are afraid of their wives, and good wives respect their husbands.
This meaning is well studied, because if you combine the first sentence with the second sentence, you won't know whether "eat" is a derogatory term or a commendatory term. I think this sentence tells everyone that the most important thing is mutual respect and tolerance. A good wife respects her husband, which is the key meaning of this old saying.
However, when we understand this old saying, we must break away from the ancient system. The so-called "modern people understand the old saying" is also a kind of advancing with the times. Because of some old sayings, it can be understood freely. As long as the good meaning is expressed, it is different and has a complete ideological system. Can't misunderstand, it must be the kind of thought that Confucius wants to express.
Regrettably, for thousands of years, many people have misunderstood Confucius' thoughts and Confucianism, which has become a tool and weapon for businessmen to make money. It's pathetic. What do you think of officials? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
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