I know a couple, the man is 27 years old and the woman is 29 years old. They are newly married and have no children.
The woman works in direct sales, attending lectures and giving lectures everywhere. Her performance is unstable and she can’t make much money in a year.
Men don’t have serious jobs. Just do odd jobs here and there to earn some pocket money.
The house they lived in was bought by the man’s parents when they got married. It was in the suburbs and was a bit remote. Later, the woman tricked the man into selling the house and then bought another house in the city.
The man had no idea and without consulting his parents, he just put the house up for sale.
The two of them didn’t even look at the new house. When they were not sure where they planned to buy, they sold the house directly. Who would have thought that a second-hand house could be sold so easily?
After selling the house, they went around looking at houses every day and found that no one liked them. Either the location was not good or the house was not good. The location and the house are good, but the price is so expensive that I can't even afford them.
They were tired of squeezing buses every day, so they decided to buy a car. A year later, the money was almost spent. The two of them were still renting a house in the suburbs, and their only possession was the car. car.
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Let me also tell a true story from our community
20 years ago, a 50-year-old man had a son and three daughters and lost his wife. Under the introduction, he married a woman in her 30s who also had no husband and two children to form a new family.
The man’s son and daughter are already married, and he originally did not agree with his father marrying his stepmother, but he was helpless against the father who wanted to marry him all the time. The woman is also very family-oriented and hard-working when she comes to live in the man's house. Your own land must be guarded, no one else can touch it, and you must grow your own fruit trees.
When she first got married, the woman’s family was poor and her children had no way to go to school. Although the man was not rich either, he was still better off than the woman. I can send my two children to school. The relationship can also be considered mutually supportive.
Seven years ago, we encountered land occupation. The man divided the house and took the money. If the woman wanted to divide the house, she had to get divorced. So the two parties divorced and the woman got a 40-square-meter house. The man divided a house of 80 square meters and paid more than 100,000 square meters. He chose a house of 60 square meters and let the man's son sell it. The remaining 20 square meters were used together with the woman's 40 square meters to choose a house of 60 square meters. The man also paid for the decoration and decoration of the house together.
This year, because the woman’s grandson always stays at their house without any living expenses, the man is 70 and the woman is over 50 and cannot work, so she has to rely on insurance to survive. Therefore, the man does not want to ask the woman’s daughter to pick up his grandson. As a result, the woman and her children drove the man away and stopped supporting him.
The reason is that the man and woman have divorced.
Who would have thought that a 20-year-old couple would have financial disputes over a marriage certificate. After being together for a long time, I feel that not having a marriage certificate is the same as having a marriage certificate.
In the same community, you can hear the cry of a 70-year-old man from several floors away.
More than ten years ago, I met a couple. The woman was delicious and the man was lazy. The men usually work part-time jobs, stealing chickens and petting dogs in their free time; the women take care of the children at home, like to go to shopping malls, walk on the streets, and eat and drink as long as they have some money, so they also make some friends in society. Friendly friends.
During the Chinese New Year, on the 29th day of the twelfth lunar month, most people had already purchased all their New Year's goods. However, his family did not have the money to buy New Year's goods, and the couple was very worried about this. On the evening of the 29th, a friend invited the couple to have dinner at home. When they saw the New Year's goods at the friend's house, their "eyes turned red" and they had "evil thoughts."
After the meal, the wife invited her friend's family to go shopping. The man took advantage of the opportunity, climbed over the wall and entered the house, and looted all the New Year's goods from the friend's house. He took away more than 2,000 yuan in cash, beef, mutton, tobacco and alcohol from the house. Go, and finally spread the cooked food all over the house and garden...
After shopping, my friend discovered that the house was stolen, and immediately called the police. The police station conducted an open and covert investigation, and through various clues, the suspect was targeted. Liu ××. After strict interrogation, they told the story of the crime. It turned out that the suspect was also involved in a major theft gang. In the end, the woman was detained for 15 days and fined 3,000 yuan, and the man was sentenced to 4 years and 8 months in prison.
This is Taizuo’s fate!
This incident tells us: Don’t stretch out your hands, otherwise you will be caught! It also confirms the saying “If you don’t do something, you won’t die.”
This I have a say in the problem! There is a typical example around me.
My friend is a girl with a height of 168 cm and a height of 7. There is a man with a height of 6.0 cm and a height of about 172 cm. Friends. We have been in a relationship for several years. During the relationship, we often quarreled when they disagreed, and the quarrels were really serious. When it got serious, they would directly attack each other regardless of the occasion, and they would spit out all kinds of sweet things. But It didn’t take long for them to reconcile again. At that time, I felt that their situation was not suitable for marriage, because I thought it was like this before they were married. How about getting married?
But the person in my family thought this was normal. This is how people get along. It's called hitting, scolding, or loving. It's also a way of life. It depends on how things develop.
Not long after, the two parties got married and entered the marriage hall. Then more than a year later, suddenly one day while checking Moments, I saw a post from her. Between the lines, I felt that she was divorced. Later, they met once and had a chat, and it turned out that they broke up. The reason was actually the situation that had always occurred when the two parties had disagreements in their previous relationship, and they immediately drew swords on each other. My friend said that she couldn't stand it anymore and was tired of arguing, so we finally broke up. I asked her if it was her problem or her ex-husband's problem. She said that both parties had problems, lack of communication, lack of understanding, and herself. Just do it, it’s the kind of thing that lasts for seconds, and her ex-husband is also very immature. He only yells when something happens, and has no tolerance at all. In the end, it ends in divorce!
Now my friend is dating a boyfriend again. I don’t know how the relationship is going. I hope she can manage her love well this time!
I know a couple who are very capable of doing things. In order to divide more money for relocation, the wife divorced her husband and then married her father-in-law.
In fact, everyone knows that they are fake divorce, the purpose is to divide more demolition money. In order to facilitate the purchase of a house, the husband's household registration moved to the city very early. When he got married, his wife's household registration was also moved together. But then things turned around, and they got the news that their hometown was going to be demolished, and the relocation money and houses were divided according to household registration. This made the couple anxious. Seeing that such a large amount of money was not theirs, they really couldn't sleep. Silai I thought about it and came up with a surprising idea.
The couple first divorced themselves, and then tricked their parents into getting divorced. After their parents divorced, their father and mother had separate household registrations in the village. At this time, the wife married her father-in-law, and they After getting married, you can move your household registration to the village, so that you can get an extra share of the demolition money. In order to be afraid that others will find out that it is a fake, the play is really real. The wife actually lives in her hometown with her father-in-law blatantly. In the yard, they live like a normal couple on the surface.
After about a year of waiting, the village officially started the relocation task. Because they acted earlier, they did get an extra share of the money. However, the wife and father-in-law were unwilling to divorce, and they actually went on vacation this year. The play was really done and they became a real couple. Now it was very lively. The man’s family and the woman’s family got into a fight, and finally it went to the court. The court couldn’t do anything about this kind of thing. At that time, the divorce and marriage procedures were all gone. It's true, and it's all voluntary. Now let's say it's to defraud the demolition money, and there is no proof, so the man can only suffer a loss.
I was living a good life, but because of too much work, two families were broken up. It is true that if I don’t work hard, I will not die.
I know a couple. The man is 23 years old and the woman is 22. They are newly married and have a daughter.
The man and the woman have been together for a while. They were in college. My classmate, I got married and had children right after I graduated from college. Why did it happen so quickly? It wasn’t because of pressure from my family or because I was careless, but because the couple had discussed it.
Why did it happen so quickly? Mainly because I watch Douyin too much. You know, Douyin has been very popular in the past two years
Regarding those people showing off babies, such as twins, it seems that they really give people the feeling that they really want to have children. The baby was born
The couple really liked children, but they just liked them
So they got married right after graduation, regardless of their family members, and had children after they got married< /p>
Now, the two of them regret it very much. After graduation, the man did not have an internship for a year because of his marriage. He has no work experience and his own abilities are average
What about the family, parents He is also busy. He has to help his brother take care of the children and make money, so he can only take care of the children by himself
As for the girl, she is the youngest in the family and her parents cannot take care of the children, so it’s like this, the two of them Relying on the support of my parents, I have been staying at home for about a year. I won’t go into details about the breakdown of raising children, but what you can know is that it is not like what you see in Douyin videos, which is very uncomfortable and overwhelming. Collapse, actually, the most important thing is that I have no money.
I finally tried to find a job this year. However, I encountered the epidemic again and went home again. I have been much better during this time. Man. He asked me to introduce him to a job. Hey, he was a nice guy. He used to be younger than me, but now his hair is white and his face looks like he has gone through many changes.
Our child’s classmates, the couple are famous for their tricks. . People say that if you don't seek death, you won't die.
Before they got married, they bought a three-bedroom house in a very good location. I don’t know why they bought a two-bedroom house when they got married but sold the three-bedroom house. , the house I bought later was not as good as the original one, and it was more expensive. No one understood it.
Now that I have just given birth to a child, I want to buy another house. I am discussing how to divorce first and then buy a house. I say it is to pay lower taxes on the second house. Most of my friends think that they Once divorced, it may be really difficult to remarry, because both people are doing all kinds of things.
There are many wonders in the world.
If you don’t seek death, you won’t die. I have actually seen a couple who are good at making love. And I am very familiar with them. My husband is my junior high school classmate Zhang Yishan.
Zhang Yishan and I were classmates in junior high school. His family conditions were not bad, and his father was a meat seller in Guanxi, Ohu Town. Therefore, classmate Zhang Yishan was very generous when he was studying, and he often invited his classmates to watch movies and so on.
Zhang Yishan's family was rich, but he did not want to study. After graduating from junior high school, he learned the craft of decorating houses and married the school beauty Li Lihua.
His father directly bought a storefront for them in the county town to sell decoration materials. Usually Zhang Shan goes out to decorate, Lihua keeps selling things at the store, and takes in decoration business by the way.
Twenty years ago, decoration was just starting in our place. Because Zhang Yishan opened his shop early, the decoration business was booming, and he even organized a decoration team by himself.
Just as classmate Zhang Yishan was running wildly on the road to becoming rich, the couple started to make love!
His wife Lihua is obsessed with playing mahjong. No matter day or night, as long as someone calls, she will close the store and go play cards!
Zhang Yishan had no choice but to invite a beautiful girl named Messi. Help look after the store.
Actually, this was not a big problem at first. The problem was that less than half a year later, the beautiful woman hired to look after the store became pregnant, and she often regarded herself as the boss’s wife!
This is not bad. How could Pear Blossom just let it go!
Besides, they already had two girls, how could they allow others to sleep peacefully on the couch!
The two women fought fiercely, and it was raining with Pear Blossom. Over there, Xishi was in tears.
Zhang Yishan had no choice but to temporarily dismiss Mei Mei.
The problem is that a few months later Mei Mei gave birth to a fat boy, and she secretly dated Chen Cang with Zhang Yishan, and they became a perfect match.
After gaining the trust, Lihua had to risk her life.
After careful consideration, Zhang Yishan took his mistress and illegitimate child and ran away with the money!
Since Zhang Yishan’s construction site was not completed and the money owed to the supplier was not paid, the store was moved directly. Empty, Pear Blossom had no choice but to resell the store at a cheap price...
I heard that Zhang Yishan and Lihua got on well again last year and are now working together outside. Because he ran away because of debts, Zhang Yishan hardly dared to go home and show his face for more than ten years.
One of the two daughters is in college and the other is in high school. In the past, she was cared for by her grandparents, Zhang Tuhu, and her husband. Now Zhang Tutu has retired and is taking care of the old woman who suffered a stroke at home. He is no longer able to support his two children in school.
Zhang Yishan and his wife are really a model of never committing suicide!
We are a nouveau riche family, but we are now working outside the home and unable to return home.
"Taojiang Laosi" thanks everyone for reading, and wishes everyone a happy online game and happiness every day!
I know a young couple, less than 30 years old. The young couple both fell in love with gambling, and they each gambled for their own money. As a result, they lost 5 houses and more than 2 million in cash, and ran away.
In the past, the young couple used to live in a village in the city, and their homes usually had several buildings. Later, after the demolition, their families were divided into several houses and a lot of cash.
Later, when the couple got married, the man gave three houses and more than 1 million in cash as betrothal gifts, and the woman gave him two houses and more than 1 million in cash.
Since getting married, although the couple both graduated from college, they no longer work and rely on rent collection as their main source of income.
If they play their part, they can live a good life even if they don't work. After all, the rental income from their vacant house is considerable, and they still have millions in savings.
Later, because he was bored, the man was first tempted by others and fell in love with gambling, which was offline gambling.
If the woman could advise the man, the result might not be so tragic. But at first, the woman only watched and participated. Later, she began to participate in online gambling.
In this way, the young couple gambled on their own, one online and the other offline, and they all fell into the abyss of gambling and could not extricate themselves.
In the end, the more they gambled, the more they lost, and the more they lost, the more they gambled, and they became obsessed. In the most exaggerated moment, the man directly gambled with his house capital and lost a house in one night. The woman was also very scary. She bet tens of thousands and lost everything in one minute.
In the end, the young couple not only lost all their assets, 5 houses and more than 2 million in cash, but also borrowed a lot of loan sharks, estimated to be in the millions.
People came to collect debts every day, so the young couple had to run away.
Their poor child is only five or six years old. He is taken care of by his parents and cries for his parents every day.
Later, the man’s parents had no choice but to sell their only house and pay off the high-interest loan for their children. With no place to live, the poor old couple rented a small and old house.
Later, the woman divorced the man, and the children followed the man. A good family is over.
This is the most desperate couple I have ever seen, bar none!
Alas, we all must stay away from gambling!
For one thing, gambling is illegal.
Tianwang Huihui, as long as you participate, you will be punished by law sooner or later!
Gambling, on the other hand, is really scary. Nine times out of ten you lose when you gamble, and once you get involved, it is normal for your family to be ruined.
If you don’t seek death, you won’t die. This is really a wise saying.
I met a couple. The man was a native of Beijing and the woman was from Henan. They were both born in 1993. After getting married, neither of them went to work. They ate snacks and drank drinks every day. The man played games on the computer, and the woman watched TV series on her mobile phone. She stayed up until 11 o'clock every night and went to have a late-night snack. The two have been married for 4 years now and have been unable to have children.
The man weighs 210 pounds and the woman weighs 180 pounds. It is difficult to walk. I went to the weight loss department of the hospital and the doctor told me to avoid food and exercise more. Neither of them could do it, so they just kept getting fat together without talking about the other.
It turned out that the two of them did not work and lived in the house of their in-laws, so they asked for pocket money from them. My father-in-law is about to retire at the age of 60, and my mother-in-law has not worked since she was young. The two of them worked together to open a supermarket, but after paying a rent deposit and buying quality goods, it was demolished as an illegal construction just one month after opening. The landlord was a foreigner and ran back to his hometown, losing another 20,000 to 30,000 yuan.
Now the two of them have returned to their original days of playing games and eating. After catching up with the epidemic, they can stay at home with peace of mind.
There is also a couple who are distant relatives of my family.
Originally, both of them had regular jobs, a house and a car in a small city, and a 6-year-old child, so they lived a very comfortable life. The man saw that other people were making money by opening lottery shops, so he resigned and took over a friend's lottery shop. He thought the profits were pretty good, so he asked his wife to resign and take care of the children at home. I lost all my savings and mortgaged my house and car. Then I forged an investment contract and went to relatives and friends to invest together. I bragging about how much profit I had made and encouraged everyone. Hurry up and invest. Until debt collectors came to the door and owed more than 1 million, he ran away on his own.
The wife returned to her parents' house with the child and was kicked out. The mother-in-law said that it was okay to feed the child, but gave the daughter two options: divorce or go out to work. She was absolutely not allowed to bring her son-in-law back home. If It’s hard to get by when debt collectors come to your door. Later, the mother-in-law gave all her savings to her son to pay off the debt, but it was still not enough. So the 65-year-old went to cook for the workers on the construction site, earning 1,500 yuan a month, plus 2,300 yuan in pension to pay off the son's debt.
As the old saying goes: If you can’t afford food, you can’t afford clothes, and if you don’t calculate, you will suffer poverty. These people who love doing things all have the common problems of greed, selfishness, and restlessness. They feel that they are the best among people, and if they are restless at home, they are missing a chance of success. Spend a good life in pieces.
Article 1: Persevering famous sayings and aphorisms
1, whoever has the will to endure hardship can achieve any goal. -Minand
2. The will not