Proper jealousy can make people better and have a goal to move forward, but excessive jealousy will only produce a negative psychology and make it easy to do things that hurt others.
Villains often develop from jealousy, so we must beware of those who are jealous. People who are really jealous of you will always show some flaws, so be careful when you see them clearly.
One. It's unnatural in front of you
"Inferiority can easily lead to jealousy, and jealousy can easily turn people into villains." anonymous
People will be jealous, generally because they are not good enough or even feel inferior. I yearn for beauty more, but there is still a big gap in my heart, so in front of you, he will be very unnatural.
Chen Wei and Lu Ting met at a party, and later they became good friends. Chen Wei's career is not bad. He eats and wears famous brands, but Lu Ting is different. She is just a petty bourgeoisie girl. When she was with Chen Wei, she was under great pressure. Lu Ting is jealous because she yearns for Chen Wei's life.
However, Lu Ting knew that his ability was limited, so he often felt inferior, and the same was true in front of Chen Wei, which was particularly unnatural.
Step 2 belittle you behind your back
"Because of jealousy, I began to belittle, because I am not as good as others, so I want to slander." anonymous
Some people, although jealous of others, are not open-minded, but slander others behind their backs. It seems that their hearts can be satisfied. As long as the more people denigrate each other and the more negative news, the happier they will be.
When you find that someone will play tricks behind your back and sow discord, hoping to hit you with it, this is naked jealousy.
3. Don't admit your Excellence
"If you ask for advice with an open mind, you will constantly enrich yourself. Only when you are jealous will you be unwilling to admit the Excellence of others." anonymous
In front of excellent people, we should be more modest, so that we can be equal to each other, but jealous people will not think so. They will not only admit your Excellence, but even bring you negative news.
There was once a colleague who disagreed with the boss's reprimand. In the face of his colleagues' help, he was only superficially grateful. In fact, everyone knows his intentions. Later, the boss promoted another person with outstanding contributions, but this colleague kept saying that it was just luck.
I don't want to admit that others are excellent and I don't want to admit that I am really bad. It's really hard for such people to make friends.
4. Like to imitate you
"Jealousy can easily lead to comparison, so people who are jealous of you will imitate you." anonymous
There was an online buzzword before, "It's not terrible to bump shirts, whoever is ugly is embarrassed." Many people don't like to be imitated, but some people just like to imitate others because it is a kind of jealousy.
If you find that someone around you imitates you frequently and is not shy, you should understand that he is just jealous of you.
Summary:
Everyone is more or less jealous. When the scale is right, it will produce a positive psychology, but excessive jealousy will only produce evil thoughts.