Dai Haijun
"We, like seeds, are sunny all our life. In this soil, we grow with everything." This is the last sentence of the theme song of "In the World", a TV series with a fire in 222. The song is not so soft and exciting, but when I chew this lyric after watching the play, I have a special taste in my heart.
people live all their lives, and plants grow in autumn. Decades of life seems long, but if it is embedded in the long river of history, it is estimated that it is not even a spray. However, can you ignore your own value because of your humbleness and smallness? Obviously not.
For the interpretation of suffering, the dramatist Zhou Bingkun has a famous saying: "Bitter, chew and swallow!" Yes, who hasn't met suffering? When you can't turn to others, you have to swallow the bitter wine of this life yourself. Westerners emphasize that people come into this world to suffer, so even if there is a disaster, they can't complain about others. In addition to praying to God, it is due to oneself, while orientals have three solutions: Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. Confucianism advocates positive progress, "suffering is the teacher of life" and "you can be a master only if you eat hard". The most famous thing is Meng Ke's words: "Heaven is going to be a great responsibility to Sri Lanka, so we must first suffer from its mind, work hard on its bones and muscles, starve its body and skin, empty its body, and mess up its actions, so be patient and gain what it can't do." Of course, this passage is used by those successful people to inspire themselves and their children, but for ordinary people, suffering seems to be everywhere, and no one can avoid it. What can you do? It's nothing more than trying to swallow it, and it's not enough for others to be humanitarian. How does Sakyamuni interpret suffering? Suffering is a sin planted in the last life, and this life must be used to atone for it, so he said, "There will be a new life after suffering" and warned us: "Remember that in the morning, when we open our eyes, there is a new dawn before us." At least there is a glimmer of hope after suffering, and I can see the hope of the next life. Taoism advocates inaction, and in the face of suffering, Taoism belongs to Heaven, because Taoism is endless and always exists, and it can help you solve the difficulties and hardships in life. As for the solution of heaven, what is it? It is beyond the grasp of the individual. Having said that, ordinary life is just two shoulders next to the head, and suffering is coming. What should I do? Carry it!
if you talk about bitterness first, isn't there joy? Yes, there are five people in the Zhou family. They seldom get together. It's the happiest time when they finally get together. Bing Yi was an official all his life, but he didn't seek personal gain for himself and his family. He was honest and fair, remained uncorrupted, adhered to his conscience and justice, and won people's respect. Zhou Rong pursued love when she was young, and came to the depths of the mountains in Guizhou, bringing knowledge and culture to the children there. Later, she became a professor at Normal University. Although she offended many people, she won the love of students. Bingkun didn't study well, but he United a group of poor people with his sincerity and pursued a happy life. People may have a little inequality in economy, life and status, but when you go through decades and look back, those things that you seemed to cherish and care about at that time are actually just passing away, and what you can stay is only a positive spirit, a calm attitude and a power that grows with the gender.
Many years ago, when I was still using Kejian mobile phone, I wrote a screensaver for myself: "Welcome every day with a smile." As soon as I see this sentence every day, I convince myself in my heart that life need not be so heavy, and let myself be light with a smile.
the seed will shine in the sun all his life, and life will go forward all the way. We must learn to step on suffering and hold happiness in our arms, then we can gain infinite strength and be worthy of coming to this world for a walk.