The rich people in the deep house compound are spoiled with wine and meat, but they don't know how to cherish them because they are used to a good life. But outside their red wooden door, there are poor people who freeze to death on the roadside because of lack of clothes and food, which is enough to see how important money is.
But in fact, this polarization is still quite prominent. In ordinary life, there are more people who have some money and those who have just made a living. The gap between these two people is actually not that big, but the poorer one tends to feel inferior. The so-called "poverty leads to change" is such a truth.
But poverty is not terrible at all. Although there is no money, we must have admirable integrity, be poor, and have our own persistence. For example, the life motto left by our ancestors, "People who are poor can't save San Qian, and they are penniless", is very reasonable. So what is the truth? Let's analyze it slowly.
San Qian: Money for meals, books and gifts.
People are iron, rice is steel, and they are hungry without a meal. Almost everyone can say this sentence. Human beings are carbon-based creatures and need certain nutrition to live healthily. If you save money on food, you will eventually become weak. If the weather changes slightly, you will get sick, and then you will have more money to make phone calls.
Therefore, eating well and being healthy is the capital of the revolution. Only when you are healthy can you continue to work hard to make money and improve your life. If your body collapses, your life will only get worse.
"Books are the ladder of human progress", Gorky said this sentence has been lingering in our ears since childhood. Science and technology are indeed the primary productive forces that change the world. Only by assimilating brand-new knowledge can the younger generation produce new ideas in their minds and get ahead in the future.
Nowadays, many parents are adhering to the thinking mode of education, and the education of the next generation is very important to them. This idea is correct. No matter how hard life is, you must be spiritually satisfied to be an ideological giant.
The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, and sometimes this face project needs to be done at any time. There are weddings, funerals, weddings, etc. Among the friends around us, we often invite good friends to get together. At this time, in order to express their blessings or sorrows, they will send some gifts to express their feelings, so this kind of money cannot be saved, which is a social necessity.
If you don't have money, you won't string three things: enemies, distant places and snobbishness.
When you have money, there will always be many people around you. The so-called "no one in downtown asks you if you are poor, but there are distant relatives in the mountains" is such a truth. The poor are neglected. They have no rights and influence in this real society. They have little say. At this time, you should live your life in a down-to-earth way and don't disturb others too much. For example, it is best not to string these three kinds of doors.
Visiting is actually a common social activity in our life, which is used to enhance the feelings between people, but when you have no money, don't visit the enemy's door first.
It is an eternal truth that the enemy is particularly jealous when he sees you. He will definitely throw you down when he sees you down and out. After all, your enemy is not doing well. You may want to have a good meal to celebrate. So don't expect others to help you at this time. Just don't stab you in the back. Why waste your breath dating him?
Everyone always has some distant relatives around him. These people usually have nothing to do. Once they need you to do something, they will definitely come to you very decisively. So, don't take the initiative to find such a person's door. In case you are poor, people will still ask you and refuse. Isn't that just pushing yourself into a corner?
In addition to these two kinds of doors, there is another door that you can't go to, that is, all the doors in your house are snobbish.
A snob is a very strange person. They are like grass on the wall. Which way do they lean when there is wind? Although you can be respectful when you are rich, they won't frown when you are poor.
Therefore, when we are poor, there is no need to visit such people's homes. If we don't get benefits, we will be easily rejected. I might as well live my own life separately. At a certain time, good luck will naturally approach you.
References:
Quan Tang Shi