I feel the dawn is wrong at night, now I regret what I lost yesterday. ("Yan's Family Instructions: Preface")

I see that there is no education but love in the world. This is not always the case, eating, drinking, transporting, and doing whatever one wants. It is advisable to give rewards when warned, and laugh instead of laughing. When one has knowledge and knowledge, he says that the Dharma is right. He has become accustomed to it and then copies it. He beats and beats him to death without any power. His anger grows and resentment increases. He catches his growth and eventually becomes immoral. ("Yan's Family Instructions: Teaching Children")

The godwife comes to teach the baby for the first time. ("Yan's Family Instructions: Teaching Children")

When you are young in life, your spirit is unique. When you grow up, your thoughts are scattered, so you must educate yourself early, don't miss the opportunity. ("Yan's Family Instructions: Teaching Children")

If parents are majestic and kind, then their children will be cautious and filial. ("Yan's Family Instructions: Teaching Children")

The husband's moral behavior is from the top to the bottom, and it is from the first to the latter. Therefore, if the father is not kind, the son will be unfilial, and if the brother is not If you are a friend, your brother will be disrespectful; if your husband is unjust, your wife will be disobedient. ("Yan Family Instructions: Managing the Family")

However, it is okay to be frugal but not stingy. Those who are frugal should avoid extravagance and be frugal but not stingy. ("Yan's Family Instructions: Managing the Family")

Cunning hypocrisy is not as good as being sincere. ("Yan's Family Instructions·Name and Reality")

When a person is young, his expression is uncertain, the money he gives is impure, his words and actions are influenced by it, he is not interested in learning, and it becomes dark and natural. , not to mention those who are more knowledgeable and easier to practice! ("Yan Family Instructions: Muxian Chapter")