So, what do these people stand up at the bottom? In fact, you just need to remember two old sayings of your ancestors. Remember these two words, and you can stand up by yourself and make people who have laughed at you look at you with new eyes.
What the ancestors said is: people are poor and don't make three friends, but they don't seek three in adversity. What does this sentence mean? Let's take a look together! First of all, let's talk about why people are poor and can't make three friends. This three friends is actually the abbreviation of "three kinds of friends"
Some people say that if I am poor, I will make friends with the poor so as not to make people impatient, but in fact, the person who is in the same boat with you is poor and needs help from others.
When we are poor, don't waste time on people in the same boat. Everyone has his own way of life. If you spend all day with people who are in the same boat, you are likely to send negative messages to each other. In this way, it is difficult for people to summon up the courage to change the status quo.
When we are poor, we can't make friends in the same boat, and people who don't make progress can't keep in touch for a long time. I believe everyone has experienced such a thing, that is, when you suddenly want to finish something, you find that your other half is always lacking in interest.
One of the biggest characteristics of people who don't make progress is that they don't live a tight life, they don't dare to take risks all their lives, and they don't have the courage to make some changes. And if you stay with such people for a long time, it is easy to become satisfied and decadent.
Except those who are not in the same boat, those who are not enterprising, and those who complain can hide as far as possible. A complainer can complain about everything for a long time, but it is hard to complain about himself. It's no use complaining when people are poor, and it's no use complaining to people who love complaining every day.
The second half of the old adage of our ancestors said that there are three kinds of people, and it is difficult to ask for help. These three kinds of people are those who hate and love the rich, those who fall when they're down, and those who don't keep their word.
First of all, people who love the poor and the rich will go to their house when you have money, and they will eat and drink you. I hope you can be his favorable resource, but once you are in trouble, you will be a plucked phoenix in their eyes. If you ask them at this time, they must be disgusted in every way. Just don't mock you. How do they help you? Therefore, when encountering difficulties, people who are too poor and love wealth will always be welcome.
He also said that people who hit people when they are down don't want others to live well. Once you are in trouble, the happiest thing for him is to step on it after he knows the news. He will definitely not help you. Therefore, if you want to ask them for help, it's like bring disgrace to oneself!
Finally, people who say they are not trustworthy. Why can't such a person turn to him when he is in trouble? There are two reasons: first, people who don't keep their promises are probably unreliable, that is to say, most people who don't keep their promises are capricious, and they are likely to dig a trap for you to jump when you are exhausted, and then refuse to admit it afterwards, so that you will suffer from Huanglian Yabakui.
Second, people who break their promises can't help you at all. Because they don't keep their promises, they have exhausted their resources. Even if they have resources, they are resources suitable for their own personality. Once he accepted his help, he entered his dishonest circle, and it was difficult to get out later.
At the bottom of life, keep this sentence of your ancestors in mind completely, and you will find that you have lost a lot and taken many detours.