There is a famous saying that any relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, but I found that many people think that you should find someone you like when you fall in love, and you should find someone you like when you get married.

What you say makes sense, because many words in China are contradictory.

It depends on how you recognize these. You can choose 1 or 2. These words just teach you to recognize one thing.

How you treat it depends on what you think.

Any love that is not for the purpose of marriage is just a hooligan. Personally, I think this sentence is a piece of advice for some people who like to go back and forth and have half-hearted intentions. Don't play with anyone's feelings; on the other hand, it also allows some unmarried men and women to respect each other and cherish each other, and finally get married.

When you fall in love, find someone you like, and when you get married, find someone who loves you.

If everyone just blindly asks others to love themselves more, waits for others to give to themselves, and they just sit back and enjoy the results. , then the world is full of bachelors.

I personally feel that loving someone is like looking at yourself in the mirror. One's own character, determination, and depth of cultivation are all reflected exactly, and loving the other person is more like loving oneself. So if the relationship between a couple doesn't make them better, or doesn't evoke the same level of love in each other, then I do feel sorry that the other person isn't good enough to echo their pure and gentle love.

I hope my answer will be helpful to you, thank you.