I listened quietly and didn't know how to comfort myself.
The next day, I accidentally opened the variety show "We are Real Friends". In the program, Aya said a very simple sentence to the sobbing little S: "I didn't succeed at once, did I spend 1 years?" ！”
I meditated for a long time. That night, I sent a WeChat to my girlfriend: Fighting for yourself is king.
actually, aren't these words for myself?
Looking back on my 32-year life journey, I have always been ordinary, always love to fight, and I have never stopped ...?
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? Dreaming about the world when you were young
? I was born at the foot of Xuefeng Mountain in western Hunan. There love bandits, love to do "Xiangxi corpse" such thriller witchcraft.
adults are superstitious about driving corpses, but children are obsessed with being bandits.
The older children followed suit and hid in the brambles by the roadside, waiting for an opportunity to jump out and stop the children's way, threatening to leave money for passing. Every time I was repaired, I cried bitterly and secretly encouraged myself: this place, when I grow up, I will never come back!
at the age of seven, my father was caught in an accident at an outsourcing site, and he fell from a height and almost died. After the cure, my father rested at home for more than four years. From then on, home is like a boat in the waves, and mother is the only punter.
At that time, my mother often told us: Fight by yourself, and there is a way out.
I nodded hard: Yes, fight for yourself!
because of my poor family, I seldom have pocket money at school. After boarding in junior high school, pickles brought from home and rice at 2 cents in the canteen were enough for me to have a delicious meal.
Most children in the mountains don't know what's the use of reading. The classroom is noisy like a big market. I pulled the desk and chair under the blackboard, which was far from the back seat. I read like a mouse, eating one book after another.
in retrospect, it was not how sensible I was, but that I was so poor that I had to fight. If I don't fight, I'll be a basket case.
I force myself to get up early so that I can enter the classroom early to remember words; Spell a few more math problems after self-study in the evening until the teacher comes.
In summer, the sticky sweat all over my body just makes mosquitoes afraid to come near me; If in winter, the hands and feet covered with frostbite are swollen and itchy, rubbing the table and floor hard will be exercise.
when I study hard, I think the world is particularly quiet. Noisy belongs to others, and quiet belongs to me.
every boat must have a fairway, and everyone must have a dream.
At that time, my dream was to get out of this mountain and earn a lot of money, and my parents could spend it as they wanted.
Sometimes I feel like crying, especially when I failed in the exam. I find myself going crazy.
However, there is a voice crying from the bottom of my heart: Don't cry. As a rural child with no background, don't cry no matter what. You have to be firm and firm to live in this world.
after the college entrance examination, I got into an ideal university as I wished.
College really made me walk on thin ice.
Children from rural areas are really brave and not good at English, but I chose English instead. Every class is simply listening to gobbledygook.
I can't bear it anymore after a year of being in a daze; I kept my parents in the dark. I made up 8, yuan by tutoring and borrowing money, and reported for English training outside.
The classmate's eyes widened and asked, "Are you crazy? English majors also report to English training classes. Are you rich or out of your mind? "
yes, I don't have much money. I'm really out of my mind.
In my senior year, I passed TEM-8 with a high score, and I wrote tens of thousands of papers in English. Everything makes me feel like I won. I thought, if you keep fighting, you will definitely achieve a lot!
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? Go south after graduation
? I thought there were gold mines everywhere
before the graduation ceremony, I went all the way south. Guangshen is a gold mine for many people, and I look forward to my gold mine there ...
In the first year, I tried to survive in Guangzhou;
In the second and third years, I worked hard in Shenzhen.
after three years, I struggled, but I didn't dig any gold.
in the fourth year, I returned to Guangzhou to run a factory with my former colleagues.
in the early days of starting a business, it's bitter, like the flu, and you can't escape it.
if there is no factory, rent a small warehouse in a private house; If there is no sample, make samples from other people's factories at a high price; If there are no customers, just call them one by one and try to plug them in.
I am most afraid of customers coming to China and coming to the factory. We don't have a car or a factory, so we have to pay a high price of "CAR Inc." and ask others to borrow the factory, falsely claiming that we only do trade, not industry.
once an African businessman came to see the factory and thought that the African guy was just fooling. I didn't know that they were fooled by the manufacturers, and their colorful pages were deliberately placed in the exhibition hall; As soon as he entered the exhibition hall, the customer was attracted by his small and mature color pages.
when he left, the customer took away his colorful pages with their contact information printed on the back cover.
There was nothing I could do. I quickly tore off the bottom seal while the customer got off the bus to go to the toilet, and threw it far away ...
Later, it never came back ...
After this time, we borrowed money to rent a tin house because of the situation. Since then, the factory has finally been established.
The iron house is hot in Leng Xia in winter, which is against the world.
One cool summer, friends came to the factory to play; Seeing me sitting in a small office, sweating profusely, and the small locked window above my head penetrating the killing heat, he teased me that I was in a sauna.
I smiled bitterly, didn't I?
due to the time difference, it is common to work overtime all night. The "ding dong" sound from the mailbox in the early morning is the most beautiful sound in the world.
in order to win cooperation with a big German company, I stayed up all night and only wrote one email. Unfortunately, my "masterpiece" is still sinking into the sea ...
In those years, I was most afraid of thunder and rain. I ran wildly in the rain, like a madman in the world. I remember Shen Congwen once said: heavy rain washed everything away, and heavy rain could not wash everything away. All the tiredness is remembered by the body and the mind.
industry has become my sustenance. At that time, I ignored my family and my body; All I know is that I have to fight to live in this world.
after several years, the factory continues. However, the current market is worrying and the benefits are not good.
although I worked hard, I didn't make great achievements, only ordinary.
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? Fighting is a life attitude
Fighting is a mature self-brand
From studying to starting a business, I have been fighting, but I have won and lost, and I am ordinary after all. Fight hard and you may win; Spell it, it may still be in place.
some people may wonder, what's the point of spelling? Looking for guilt?
I tell you with my 32-year life experience: fighting is not looking for guilt; Fighting is to find yourself.
First, fight to make you live a full life
Someone once said: Being alive is an animal; People are people who can live fully. This is the charm of being human.
fighting makes people live a full life.
after several years of hard work, my work is free; Also became a home, with a happy little family. A friend said: just be the boss's wife with peace of mind. If you are bored and travel, then why bother!
I've thought about not being hard on myself, being calm and steady, taking care of my children, and slowly waiting to die.
but the more I think about it, the more I panic. One life, one life. As soon as the eyes are closed, the Spring and Autumn Period is over; When you are old-fashioned, your ears are full of legends of others, and your eyes are full of stories of others; And myself, as if I had never lived, disappeared without a trace.
then, what a sad mood!
I have experienced hardships, and now I am as happy as a bird full of worms. The enrichment ground in the spell is as sweet as every gap in life as cotton candy.
spelling, a simple and rude word, can enrich life.
Second, fighting is your attitude towards life and your self-brand.
Some people say that people are only young once in their lives; Now, youth is for struggle, and in the future, youth is for memory.
I want to rewrite it: in one's life, struggle is the normal state. Memories are small comforts that connect the whole life in series.
fighting is a life attitude, which will accompany you all your life.
Do you remember what Sun Li said when he was a friend? "Now that my children are older, I have more time to film. Please ask the directors to have a good script and smash me."
Spelling is Sun Li's attitude towards life.
I love watching NBA, and I love Jordan even more. Jordan's famous saying has been engraved in my heart: I can accept failure, but I can never accept myself who has never struggled.
Fighting is Jordan's attitude towards life.
I am not Sun Li, let alone Jordan; But also, I hate myself who doesn't struggle.
spelling is not the patent of celebrities or rich people. Fighting is a life attitude that everyone can have.
What you are reading is your attitude towards life and your self-brand!
Third, fight, so that you can meet more excellent people and warm yourself
Because I travel a lot, I go to many places and meet many people.
I love English, which makes me know many English experts, appreciate their light, and feel like I have been infiltrated.
I love yoga, went abroad to study, visited the Beatles' meditation land, and made many spiritual practitioners, thus loving myself more.
Now, I love writing, so I joined Zhou Zuoluo's writing training camp. Here, I have linked to many promising young people, such as Tao Tao and Lucky ..... Their excellence makes me feel very warm.
this is the meaning of spelling.
fight, not looking for guilt; Fighting is to find yourself.
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? For the rest of your life, go all the way
for the rest of your life, please fight
yourself better and bring us too much warmth. For the rest of my life, how can we fight better?
First, fight with love
I have a high school girlfriend who set up a furniture factory in Foshan 1 years ago. A weak woman, in the men's pile, is struggling, and it is as difficult as she has been unmarried.
However, her WeChat always makes people happy.
Sometimes the message is: Dear, we have done 6, this month. At this rate, we can pay off our debts this year;
Sometimes it's a message: My mother found a male ticket again, and I took him to the factory to help me do some work, which is dual-purpose, haha ...
Recently, she sent a video in which her 8-year-old sister hugged her daughter and teased her children to call me "aunt". She called me through the screen with a string of haha: so cute, I am too worthy of this "aunt".
I think her spelling is full of love; Love life, love others, and love what you do. With love, you can't stop fighting.
Second, bring your body to fight
Fighting is a spiritual journey, but also a physical journey.
Shen Junru, chairman of China Democratic League, once said, "Only those who are physically strong can undertake arduous undertakings."
it is undoubtedly arduous to fight.
with good health, fighting is undoubtedly happy.
If it weren't for decades of intense exercise, Jackie Chan wouldn't have been able to fight and catch fire all the way.
if it weren't for long-term early morning training, how could Kobe dominate the NBA for an era?
bring your body to fight, and your body and mind can achieve the ultimate balance.
Third, the silence is unknown, and the applause of flowers is floating clouds.
I love to watch Qu Yang and Liu Zhengfeng in Li Yapeng's version of the legendary swordsman, with one flute and one piano, and the mountains are singing and the valleys are responding; Coupled with the secluded forest background, it is too beautiful.
But as Gao Shi, they live in seclusion in the mountains and just play famous songs and improve their skills. There is no audience and no stage. And their musical attainments have never been erased.
And the road of our life is even more obscure; Learn to be alone with yourself, and only when a fool is upward can he spell freely, just like Qu Yang Liu Zhengfeng.
Fourth, be ready to empty yourself at any time and start from the beginning
If I say "Time will never stop", you must agree;
but if I say "stall for time and stop here", you must think I'm really stupid.
fight for yourself, isn't it?
spelling is a straight line with no end. What we can do is to empty ourselves and travel light. Every new encounter is like restarting another life, and the fun is self-evident.
Returning to writing and joining the Zhou Zuoluo team is the witness that I have cleared myself and started again. There is sincerity from the heart and plain Excellence here; There is love here, peace here, and fighting here.
this is exactly what I was hoping for.
for the rest of my life, I will be happy only if I work hard. It has nothing to do with success or failure, and it has nothing to do with you and me.
If friends lose themselves, remember to get them back, because we are fellow travelers!