Friendly proverb
As a person, we should respect our parents, be kind to our children, be generous to our poor relatives and be polite to everyone. Bertrand Russell
We love our nation, which is the source of our confidence. Zhou Enlai
People not only have the right to be patriotic, but patriotism is also an obligation and honor. -Xu Teli
I love my motherland and people. I can't live without it and them, let alone write. -Ba Jin
When I say * * * and virtue in the country, I mean loving the motherland, that is, loving equality. This is not a moral virtue, nor a Christian virtue, but a political virtue. -Montesquieu
Loving the motherland is the purest, keenest, noblest, strongest, gentlest, most affectionate, gentlest and severest feeling. A person who truly loves the motherland is a real person in all aspects. -Suhomlinski
I am yours, my motherland! This is all yours, my heart and soul; If I don't love you, my motherland, who else can I love? -petofi
Only by loving the motherland, grieving the serious suffering of the motherland and hating the enemy can we participate in the struggle and win. -Tolstoy
The motherland is more important than life. This is our mother and our land. Neruda
When our country is enslaved, we Poles have no right to leave our motherland. Madame Curie
Patriotism and hatred for the enemy are multiplied-only such patriotism can lead to victory. Ostrovsky
I praise the motherland now, and I will praise it three times in the future. -Mayakovski
About friendly composition
If you lose today, you are not a loser, because you will come back tomorrow.
If you lose money, you are not a loser, because the value of life is not in the purse.
If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a man.
Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are: first, to pursue the perfection of personal morality; Second, safeguard public interests and public order.
Speaking of politeness, I think of a story. On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and let the woman go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Isn't this also a sign of politeness?
I don't want to give too many examples of great men here, because it's easy to give people an illusion: if we think that politeness is only for great men and celebrities, then we don't have to feel guilty for our more or less uncivilized words and deeds; Or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you can't become a great man or a celebrity. We need not only moral figures, but also a group of moral people.
The civilization degree of a society can reflect the civilization degree of a society and a country. A person's failure to observe social civilization will have a small impact on his own image and a big impact on the national reputation. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang went to Russia. In public, he had a bad habit of spitting everywhere, which was greatly exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign journalists and humiliated China people. This is a historical lesson of not obeying social civilization.
Public civilization is the embodiment of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Imagine, if a person does not pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good civilization? Don't! Personal civilization etiquette is the root and foundation. If people want to have a good civilization, they must start from themselves and start from the side. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to survive and compete in the world, its first thing is to establish people, and then people will do everything." "Educating people" means improving people's thinking and civilization. Man's civilization is not innate, but constantly improved the day after tomorrow. To improve one's self-cultivation, one must first concentrate on studying and improve one's cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, there is the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, we must correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be improved. This is what the ancients said: being realistic, knowledgeable, sincere, upright and self-cultivation. Only by perfecting personal moral cultivation can there be a basis for promoting social civilization.
The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great influence on its people. Why do you say that? I believe that some students have been to Europe or Japan and have personal experience. Not to mention the big ones, I have seen such a small thing as the road. As long as the red light is on, foreigners will never cross the road even if there are no cars on the road. They think this is a public civilization that must be observed. Excuse me, in such an atmosphere, who will run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think again, if we don't start from ourselves, where does this social atmosphere come from?
A reporter interviewed a scientist who won the Nobel Prize. "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" , "in kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me for life, such as having good things to share with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating ... "The same is true for us to improve our civilization. We don't necessarily have any big measures, but start with these small things: washing our hands when eating around us. Cultivate the habit of civilization, let the concept of civilization enter the unconscious level from the conscious level, and let civilization run through our every move.
We have been educated in civilized manners since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized manners at length. However, seeing lunch boxes and beverage bottles discarded everywhere on campus and hearing some students' swearing words, how can we not teach people grief! Are we all "giants of language and dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said: "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is noumenon and kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We receive the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.
Preserve friendly ingredients
I once read a story about a young farmer who planted high-yield improved rice. He always gives his high-quality rice seeds to other people in the village for free. The villagers asked him strangely, "Aren't you afraid that we will overtake you?" The young farmer replied, "I am actually helping myself by giving you good seeds." He knows that villagers can improve their own rice varieties and avoid the variation of their own high-quality rice varieties leading to reduced production.
I also read a story: in ancient times, two brothers each took a suitcase out of the city, and when their left hand was tired, they changed to their right hand, and when their right hand was tired, they changed to their left hand, and they were exhausted all the way. Later, eldest brother bought a pole and carried two boxes on the road, but he felt much more relaxed. Being friendly to my brother also lightened my burden and helped myself.
Students, life is like this. More understanding, tolerance and help to others often means support and help to yourself, and being good to others means being good to yourself. Stumbling for others often blocks their own way; Pave someone else's road, and your own road will get wider and wider. We should not simply understand being kind to others and helping others as giving, dedication and sacrifice. In fact, it is also like sowing and saving to some extent. You have been harvesting, or at some point, you will save everything: harmonious interpersonal relationships, bringing benefits to people's happiness and happiness, giving timely assistance or giving back the icing on the cake. ...
Being kind to others is a modest and warm attitude. Although this attitude may not bring you great wealth, it will certainly bring you good popularity. As you treat others, others will treat you. "People who love others will always love you". If you save in a friendly way, you can establish a harmonious personal relationship.
Being kind to others is a positive action, which also determines the thickness and height of life. Kind-hearted, kind-hearted people, good thoughts come from the heart, do good things without asking for anything in return, but they can enjoy the happiness and happiness of giving benefits to others, but they will always win a good reputation-it can be said that "a bright future will bring another village", even if it is not what we deliberately want to harvest.
Being kind to others is a wise choice, which often brings us a win-win situation. Austrian writer Zweig said: "It is difficult for a person to cope with the endless suffering in life. Therefore, I need the help of others. I have to help others myself. " American economist Harbord said: "Smart people understand that the only way to help themselves is to help others." A small act of kindness can melt the ice in your heart, eliminate the gap between you and win more friends. Sometimes, friendliness can even make you turn your enemy into your friend and help you win in the competition with your opponent. After Lincoln became president, the civil war broke out. At first, the north was at a disadvantage, which made him fidget all day. What followed was others' contempt for his ability. People thought it was a big mistake to elect him president, and Lincoln responded kindly to all those who despised him. In the eyes of others, it is almost a kind of self-destructive friendship without dignity. Later, it finally aroused the dissatisfaction of a member of parliament. The member said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" In short, more friendly and tolerant, open opponents may be our potential friends. Finally, these people who have received your kindness and help will often come forward and lend a helping hand when you need help; When you are "proud of the spring breeze and horseshoe disease", it will add a wisp of flowers to you.
"How can I thank you? When I came to you, I wanted to harvest a spring breeze, but you gave me the whole spring. How can I thank you? When I came to you, I wanted to hold a handful of waves, but you gave me the whole ocean. " Save in a friendly way, and we will become beautiful and rich. Students, please be kind to us, don't be stingy with our smiles and don't hide our warmth. Be kind to economy, and you will reap the whole world!
You Shan's composition
When I mention the word friendly, I always think of that scene. She touched me. I will never forget that girl. It happened five years ago. It snowed heavily that day. My mother asked me to go out and buy a bottle of sesame oil. After I went out, the snow in the sky became heavier. I can't help shivering when I walk in the street. When I walked to the door of the supermarket, I found a white-bearded old man wearing it. He is an old man who can't see clearly, begging for some food, but the adults around him are indifferent, and some even laugh at the old man. My heart was filled with grief and indignation, and I thought: Do these people have no conscience? Just when people abandoned the old man, I took out the money left over from buying sesame oil and gave it to the old man. The old man was very grateful and said thank you many times. My heart is both happy and sad. Just as I was leaving, I saw a little girl wearing a cotton-padded jacket. She asked her mother, what is the old man doing? Her mother told her that she was a beggar. Let's leave now. So the girl was dragged out by her mother. The girl seemed to understand and ran to her mother at once, but she was much faster than her mother and didn't even wait for her. After a while, the little girl came back with an extra piggy bank. She immediately ran to the old man and said, Grandpa, this is for you. There is a lot of money in it. I saved it myself. These are for you.
The little girl's mother ran over and saw her child giving money to the old man. She thought the old man was cheating her children out of their money, so she immediately snatched the money from the old man. Because the woman didn't hold it steady, the pig tank broke immediately, and everyone heard the sound of snapping. When I saw more than 100 coins scattered on the ground in the storage tank, the old man couldn't see them, but I could hear them. The little girl cried and asked her mother to give the old man money, but her mother did. After listening to this sentence, some women in their forties donated money. Grandpa's grateful bean tears fell on his old hand. Seeing that it was useless, the little girl told her mother why she had saved money in recent months. This is the homework that the teacher taught us. She said that she would save the money for snacks every day and give it to those in need. Isn't her mother grandpa? Finally, she sang the most touching song in the world with her childish mouth: as long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world. This song touched the hearts of people in the place (including her unreasonable mother, who was moved to tears), and wanted to wash away a vicious heart in exchange for a kind heart buried in her heart at that moment. Later, everyone present gave their money to the old man. Finally, the most intimate thing was the little girl's mother, who gave the old man a hundred-dollar bill directly. The old man cried and said countless thanks. When everyone enthusiastically donated money, the little girl and her mother had left silently.
I will never forget this matter, and I will never forget that kind little girl and all kind people. Kindness is all around us. As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world.