Speaking is an important method and channel for communication between people. In a group, people who speak appropriately and make witty remarks are bound to leave a deep impression on people. Especially in interpersonal communication, speaking properly can enhance interpersonal harmony. Therefore, there are four opinions on how to speak: first, we should say Zen words of joy; In daily life, we should always say something that makes people happy in order to reconcile interpersonal relationships; Zen is a language that makes people feel humorous and witty. In a group, it is often said that Zen words of joy can dissolve the tense atmosphere and increase the happiness of life; It is often said that Zen words of joy can make a serious and rigid life look free and easy. Therefore, we should often say Zen words of joy, so that others like to talk to us.

second, tell the honest truth; Confucius said: knowing is knowing, and not knowing is not knowing. To be honest in speaking can be calm; If you are dishonest, you will be in fear of being seen through, and your mind will not be peaceful. In particular, people who often speak untrue words will be like children herding sheep. Over time, even if they tell the truth, others will no longer believe him. Therefore, to get along with others, we must tell the honest truth in order to gain the trust of others.

third, say respectful words; Speak with beautiful words, beautiful words and pleasing words. How can I say beautiful and beautiful words? Confucius said that people are good at music; Mencius also refrained from speaking ill of others. Praise others for their good deeds, respect their achievements, thank them for their services, and encourage them for their progress; Speaking can make others feel happy and valued, and others will give you good words in return. On the other hand, as the Book of Rites says, words are contrary to each other, so we should say respectful words.

Fourth, speak well of others; Sun Ziyan: Giving people good words is more important than pearls and jade; It hurts more than a sword and halberd. Before speaking, we should ask ourselves: do I want to help others when I say it? If this sentence doesn't help others or even hurt them, it's best not to say it. Because it is not good for others, it will hurt others' future and reputation, and sometimes it may make people fall into the abyss of pain. Therefore, speak well of others.

Everyone has to talk every day. What kind of words should we say? In addition to not swearing, not swearing, not swearing, not being bilingual, especially speaking words that are beneficial to people. A sentence about how to succeed is universal

A sentence about how to succeed

1. A strong person is not without tears, but turns them into sweat of action; Brave people, not without retreat, but leave their retreat to irrational people. Successful people are not without falling down; But after falling, I chose to take responsibility.

2. There are no people who pursue success enthusiastically and bravely, but can succeed. -Napoleon I

3. It's easy to live, but it's not easy to live. Don't worry, there are almost as many people in this society as you, but they all live happily. Not everyone can succeed. As long as you work hard at everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is like, I believe it will be wonderful. Come on!

4. If you want to be smart, you should be with smart people, so that you will be wiser; If you want to be excellent, you should be with excellent people, so that you can stand out. Learn from the best others and be the best yourself; Borrowing people's wisdom and achieving yourself is the only way to succeed.

5. Life is like a marathon. The key to winning is not the sudden outbreak, but the persistence on the way. Even if there are thousands of reasons to give up, find yourself a reason to stick to it. In many cases, success means holding on for one more minute. If you don't give up one minute, there will be hope the next. We just don't know when this minute will appear. No matter how hard and tired you are, as long as you keep going, what belongs to you will eventually appear.

6. simplify your goals. Instead of setting many goals at the same time, it is better to set only one goal. This will not only reduce your stress, but also make you more successful. You will concentrate all your energy on this only goal and increase the weight of your success.

7. Do three things a day, the first is to laugh, the second is to smile, and the third is to laugh.

8. Think about every successful scientist. Which one of them has no lofty ideals? Which one has no persistent pursuit? It is precisely because of their lofty ideals and persistent pursuit spirit that their dreams finally come true.

9. Life is doomed to suffer many grievances. And the more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. To make your life extreme and colorful, you can't care too much about grievances, and you can't let them tighten your heart and disturb your life. Learn to laugh it off, learn to be detached, and learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to forbear, forgive those around him and grow up in tolerance!

1. The road of life is similar, with bumps, regardless of size. Timid will sink, brave will succeed.

11. if you don't do it, you will never meet failure, and you will never meet success. -Zou Taofen

12. Is there a secret of success in the world? Naturally, there is no mysterious secret of writing a heavenly book, it is just a myth or fantasy. But in real life, there is a secret as a condition for success. In this regard, different people have different opinions. Some people think that success lies in ambition and honesty; some people think that success lies in diligence; others think that the key to success lies in one's opportunity.

13. Success is a poor tutor, and he gives you ignorance and courage; What he can't give you is the experience and wisdom necessary for your next success.

14. As long as we can persist in moving towards our goals and dreams, what you will get in the end will be the joy of success.

15. The secret of "success" in cooking is to put "ambition" into the pot of "hard work", stew it with "tough" small fire, and add "judgment" as seasoning. -Carnegie

16. Some people say that the students should give them the most sincere praise when the teacher walks off the platform for the last time. However, what teachers may want to see is not the flowers that meet them, and what they want to hear is not the flood of applause. Instead, they want to see us use our most diligent efforts to repay the teachers' unrepentant efforts throughout their lives, and they want to hear our joyful laughter when we succeed.

17. Successful people are full of lofty spirit, they are bold and brave, and the word "fear" is not in their dictionary. -Carnegie's sentence on how to succeed

18. Failure gives you time to get back on your feet, learn from it and move on!

19. There is no doubt that it is the old experience that binds the monkeys and makes the delicious food that was originally available at your fingertips out of reach. In fact, many people have the same thinking as these monkeys. After encountering some kind of setbacks, they become "once bitten by a snake, twice shy", but only Nuo Nuo is afraid to move forward. As everyone knows, times have changed, and what was originally dangerous may now be the shortcut to success. Why not try it? Why dare not break through? If a person wants to achieve something, he must break the old experience and change. Only when he changes can he have hope.

2. A philosopher once said: Your mind is your master. In real life, we can't control our own experiences, but we can control our mentality; We cannot change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people, the real difference lies in the mentality. Therefore, a person's success depends mainly on his mentality.

21. People who grow up successfully in hardship often lead to abnormal deviation due to psychological shadow. This deviation means that there is always a kind of hostility towards society and people, and they don't trust anyone, let alone sympathize with anyone. The miserly love of money is a secondary phenomenon in psychopathy. On the contrary, a knowledgeable person, although he grew up from hardships, is more compassionate and generous. Because he knows life and the joys and sorrows of the world. Nan huaijin.

22. determination determines success. to succeed, you must have a strong desire to learn, just like a strong desire to survive! And learning can change your life!

23. The state has created unique conditions for young people to succeed, but the road must be taken by themselves. If a person always feels ashamed of himself and has inferiority complex, he will always be a loser. Of course, the foundation of self-confidence to success is profound knowledge and down-to-earth efforts.

24. A great man is great because when he is in adversity with others, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goal.

25. Success is a signpost, calling me to move forward; Success is the horn that inspires me to never stop; Success is a rainbow, and it will only appear after the storm.

26. In the process of struggle, you will often suffer setbacks. Only by sticking to the end will you achieve final success. -su le

27. I hold both ends of the rope in my hands, and then I put the skipping rope on the lower leg at the back. I pull it up and jump my legs. I like smart children to obey, and I succeeded in jumping over it. I'm flattered. It's sweeter than honey.

28. Success requires cost, and time is also a kind of cost. Cherishing time means saving cost.

29. As long as you stand up one more time than you fall down, that is success. -hong ling

3. life is actually such a transformation from birth to career success, but the transformed life is more attractive and full of vitality. Because they know that such an experience, what to pursue, what not to pursue, what to cherish and what to give up, is already very clear.

31. Learn to give yourself a smile when you live through the storm. People's success should be from the inside out. Only by cultivating the mind can we enjoy real success and lasting happiness.

32. The unchangeable self-improvement rule in a changing world is the way to success in a turbulent world! -plateau

33. Without failure, there will be no success. Failure is not terrible. What is terrible is that you give up your dream because of failure.

34. Success is a new starting line for those who are never satisfied, a fleeting rainbow for those who are complacent, and a dream for those who are lazy. Try your best to succeed, but don't expect to succeed. -Faraday

36. At noon after a rain, the crystal blue sky was tearing a few clouds, and the faint sunshine penetrated the clouds and shone softly on the body. A rainbow appeared in the clear and transparent sky. This is the first time I have seen a rainbow. I seem to have it. Looking up at the rainbow, maybe you can get more luck and success.

37. A person can succeed in almost anything he has unlimited enthusiasm for.

38. If you can successfully choose labor and pour all your spirit into it, then happiness will find you.

39. Don't wait for tomorrow. Seize today is the beginning of success. He who always waits until tomorrow will accomplish nothing.

4. If you want to succeed in this world, you must stick to it. You can't leave your sword until you die. -Voltaire

41. Life is a long river. Only the blood drops of will and the sweat of hard work can make the flowers in the river fragrant. Only the eternal hope and unremitting struggle can make the rainbow on the river brilliant. Only the eternal persistence and tenacious tenacity can make the bridge in the river impregnable. Flowers, rainbows and bridges are success and hope of life.

42. Any lack of you will be characterized at the moment of your success. So, stick to being yourself, instead of being changed by others on the way.

43. Walking on the track of life, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we should stick to it, never back down. Only in this way can we succeed.

44. Only by turning the mood of complaining about the environment into the power of making progress is the guarantee of success.

45. Nothing is difficult in the world, but perseverance is the key to success. -Huang xing

46. success is a sweet spring in the desert, which makes me find the right direction in confusion.

47. Perseverance is a prerequisite for success. If you keep knocking at the door, someone will always answer the door.

48. Hard work is the mother of success. -Cervantes

49. Anyone who lacks preparation must be a person who keeps making mistakes. Even if he has super ability and a golden opportunity, he can't guarantee success.

5. Success lies not in talent, but in ideal. -Tokuda Torao

51. Without storms, there would be no brave frolicters; There are no thorns and no unyielding pioneers.

52. A woman's taste lies in the taste of a man standing beside her. One of the most successful things in a woman's life is to choose the right man. Talk about hurtful words

Sometimes my words are really hurtful. I don't even know when I say them, and I really don't think about them. I'm sorry, I really love you.

talk about words that hurt people

1. Actually, my words don't hurt people, but I'm just saying back what you said to me before. I don't want to see myself sad, and I don't want to see you. When I say something, I have millions of regrets and sadness in my heart, but you just hate me more.

2. family of origin's influence on people is really too great. I often think that my mother's words are hurtful, but sometimes I really look exactly like her. By the time I realized it, it was too late. I was very depressed. Clearly vowed not to become like that.

Third, no matter how fierce we quarreled before! How hurtful it is to speak, how many difficulties and poverty you encounter! But in the end, we still regard each other as the most important and indispensable part of our lives.

fourth, some people say hurtful things, not without thinking, but without thinking. Men with brains reason with you, and men with hearts only make you happy. As for right and wrong, who cares?

5. I'm in a bad mood for no reason. I don't want to talk to people around me. I'm afraid that opening my mouth will hurt people. Fortunately, you are willing to tolerate my little temper. There are really little princesses who are warm and have a good night's sleep to let all negative energy fly away and continue to have sex and laugh tomorrow.

6. Then when my head is not bright and angry, my speech is particularly straightforward and hurtful. Is there any euphemistic way to say that she is eating?

7. Look down on others' words and hurt yourself, because people who are close to you will leave you and willingly do a great job in the lonely world. In the world, it is my parents who are the most sorry to recall.

8. I know that in your eyes, I am a person who talks nonsense and hurts people everywhere. I'm sorry.