1. A daughter-in-law should respect her parents-in-law as her own parents. The ancients said: Everyone in life has double parents. So both parents should be treated equally.

2. If you can’t do it, don’t say it. There is no dignity if your words don’t count.

3. Don’t interfere in your children’s affairs, let your children take charge of the family, and don’t pretend to be senior.

4. If your children are disobedient and unfilial, you must first ask yourself whether you are also unfilial to the elderly and whether you have done something wrong. The superiors do not recognize the merits of the parents (the elderly), and the inferiors (the children) do not educate them well.

5. Zhijie couples are grateful to each other and never blame others. The couple in the mind realm are happy. The husband leads his wife to enlightenment, and the wife helps her husband to become virtuous. They are never angry. The heart couple is a ceremonial couple and they will have jurisdiction over each other! A couple in the body realm is a couple who beats and scolds them, causing trouble throughout their lives.

6. Be content and happy, and take care of your destiny at home. Promote family traditions, praise ancestors' virtues, and educate children and grandchildren to know how to appreciate, be grateful, and repay kindness.

7. If you are destined to love someone, you must first understand the other person’s nature. Fulfill each other and complete your duties. Enlighten the other party to play their part. Regardless of restricting the other party's freedom, you should give the other party happiness and not cause trouble to the other party. Complement each other and understand each other's physiology and psychology.

8. The entire family is built on love. A family cannot be established without love. Love is the first condition for starting a family.

9. The husband has the courage to take on the responsibilities of the family and persuade others with reason. If the family makes mistakes, he will feel guilty.

10. The husband should take care of his father-in-law and his mother-in-law, and the wife should be filial to her father-in-law and mother-in-law. For example, when buying things for the elderly, the son-in-law should give it to his father-in-law and mother-in-law in person, and the daughter-in-law should give it to her father-in-law and mother-in-law in person.