1. Only love can cultivate children.

2. Children’s rationality is constantly growing. Don’t feed them, but guide them.

3. Give full play to children’s ability to actively recognize their own talents.

4. Spend time alone with your children every day.

5. There is no difference between a strict father and a loving mother. If you say strict, your parents will be strict; if you say loving, your parents will be kind. The whole family gets along like friends. ——Fukuzawa Yukichi

6. Courage allows us to resist the dangers we fear and the unexpected disasters we feel. It is very useful in this kind of life surrounded by enemies; so we'd better make children have it as early as possible This kind of arming, the earlier the arming, the better. ——Locke

7. Try to compare the ideal father and the ideal mother. It is best for a father to pamper his children, while a mother should tightly control her children when necessary, and sometimes reprimand them severely. If the father is always noisy and too strict, the children will stay away from him. No matter how strict the mother is, as long as it is out of love, the child will still follow her every step of the way. ——Daisaku Ikeda

8. Take your children’s personal requirements seriously.

9. Let children develop the habit of reading from an early age.

10. Give the child a room or part of the room, mainly for the child to play.

11. Help the child formulate his personal plan and how to complete the plan.

12. Don’t praise your children hollowly and insincerely.

13. Encourage children to make up stories and fantasize.

14. Parents are the enlightenment teachers of their children, and children are the mirror of their mother. ——Li Xiuyun

15. Don’t scold your child because there is a mess in his room or on the desktop, as long as it is related to his creative activities.

16. Never tell a child that he is worse than other children.

17. Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.

18. Isolating children from their peers will cause indelible trauma to their hearts.

19. The best education is to lead by example. Children are very sensitive to lies or hypocrisy and can easily detect it. If they respect you and rely on you, they will cooperate with you even from a young age. ——Mrs. Gandhi

20. A child likes people who love him most... and only love can cultivate him. When a child sees and feels his parents' love for him, he will try to be obedient and not make his parents angry. ——Dzerzhinsky