There is a famous saying: "A father is kind and his son is filial, and brothers and sisters are respectful." This sentence fully demonstrates that the father is an indispensable role in the growth of a child, and this role has a greater impact on the child. is huge. Fathers should educate their children in the family and set a good example for them.

Wang Kuankuan was born in a relatively wealthy family in Shanghai. Although he had no worries about food and drink in this family, his life was not particularly happy. The reason is simple, because his father often travels away on business in order to support the family, and only he and his mother live at home all year round. He has not experienced his father's company since he was a child.

Even the mother's careful care cannot satisfy the child's desire for his father's company. When Wang Kuankuan was bullied at school, it was his mother who came to school. When he saw other people's fathers coming to pick him up after school, he felt very uncomfortable.

Therefore, the presence of a father is really important to the child.

1. Often self-centered

Some fathers are often self-centered, and they completely fail to assume the responsibilities of a father. And he is always dictatorial in educating children, without considering the children's feelings at all.

For example, when a child really wants to buy something, but the father thinks it is unnecessary, he resolutely gives up buying it for the child, not knowing how to respect the child's wishes. Such a father lacks the responsibilities a father should have.

2. Taking money too seriously and often scolding children for money matters

People say that money is something external to the body. But when a father attaches great importance to money, his children may be hurt by it. As usual, if you don’t buy some luxury goods for your children because they are expensive, this is human nature.

However, when it comes to purchasing some necessities, if you pay too much attention to money and ignore the needs of the child, under the influence of the father, the child will also become to regard money as life, which is not conducive to the child's future. develop.

3. Put the responsibility of educating children on the mother

In our opinion, mothers are always nagging, but they are always particularly caring and loving towards their children. However, the mother's companionship is only part of the child's growth, and taking care of the child is not just the mother's responsibility. The father also has to bear his part of the responsibility in this situation.

In real life, we always see this phenomenon. When a child is taken care of by his father, the father is always unwilling to take care of him. As a result, the entire responsibility for taking care of the children is placed on the mother alone.

1. Enable children to make up for their character deficiencies

Some people compare father's love to a tall mountain, and a father's love is as strong and strong as a mountain. My father has different personality traits from my mother. Therefore, while the child is in contact with his father, he can supplement the shortcomings of his own personality and thereby further improve himself.

2. Children can think more rationally when facing problems

Most women are emotional animals, while men’s thinking is more rational. When faced with difficult problems, boys with rational thinking are more likely to succeed. Therefore, this kind of rational thinking is of great help to children's growth. This requires the father to accompany him for a long time, so that the child can grow up in the company.

3. Let the children have sufficient sense of security as they grow up

A father is like a mountain, serving as the backbone of a family. When a child is being bullied, the father can stand up for him, which gives the child a sense of security. Only after the satisfaction of a sense of security can the child's subsequent needs be developed.

1. No matter how busy you are, you should spend more time with your children

In the process of children's growth, what they need most is the company of their parents, and both are indispensable.

In addition, fathers should spend more time with their children and take them to participate in more parent-child activities to enhance the relationship between father and son.

2. When the child is hurt, the father should protect the child

Children will encounter some problems when they grow up, and when the child faces these problems and is hurt, the child is particularly I long for my father to stand behind me and support me. Therefore, fathers should stay with their children and let them feel their father's love.

?3. Teach children various standards

Fathers are serious in the hearts of most of us. When children make some morally unacceptable mistakes, fathers Children should be criticized and given timely guidance to correct their children's wrong behaviors in a timely manner. And the father should set an example and refrain from doing illegal things, so that under the training of the father, the children will develop in the direction expected by the father.

These three kinds of "negative energy" fathers seriously affect the growth of their children. Therefore, for the healthy growth of our children, all of our fathers should abandon these behaviors, and companionship is the last word.

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