A famous motto about no growth without stumbling and hitting a wall.
In the face of children, no matter how old or young they are, almost all parents will seriously teach their children; Always taking pictures of children taking detours, always warning them not to take detours, always trying to give them a shortcut, but always backfiring. . . This reminds me of Zhang Ailing's article "The detour that must be taken". At the intersection of youth, there used to be such a path, looming, calling me. Mom stopped me and said, "You can't go that way." I don't believe it. "I walked from that road. What else do you believe? " "If you can go that way, why can't I?" "I can't let you take a detour." Mother looked at me affectionately for a long time, then sighed, "well, you stubborn child, that road is difficult to walk." Be careful all the way. " On the road, I found that my mother didn't lie to me. It's really a detour I fell against the wall and sometimes my head was broken, but I kept walking and finally came. When I sat down to catch my breath, I saw a friend, naturally very young, standing at the intersection of my age. I couldn't help shouting, "You can't go that way." She doesn't believe it. "My mother came from that road. Why can't I? " "I don't want you to take the same detour." "But I like it." I looked at her, looked at myself, and then smiled. "Be careful all the way." I am very grateful to her. She made me realize that I am no longer young, and I have begun to play the role of an "experienced person". At the same time, I suffered from the "roadblock addiction" that "experienced people" often suffer from. On the road of life, there is one road that everyone must take, and that is the detour when he is young. How can you grow up without tripping, hitting the wall or breaking your head? Give you a pair of wings to fly around detours. The Yellow River is surging, and it takes nine turns to enter the sea. The winding path leads to a secluded place, and it takes thousands of turns to see the beautiful scenery. The long journey of life cannot be a smooth straight line, and detours will be an unavoidable episode in life. Our parents also came from ignorant children step by step. In their youth, they must have gone through many detours. Years later, when their children, us, stood at the crossroads of youth, their earnest warning only told us not to make the same mistake again. However, everyone should know that the detours of youth must be taken. It seems that only by taking a detour can we wake up. There is a boat king with rich fishing experience. When he was old, he tried his best to teach his three sons, but it was useless. Others asked, "What did you teach them?" The boat king said, "I told them how to avoid mistakes and take fewer detours." Others laughed: "This is why you failed." "Failure is the mother of success" is a wealth, and the detour itself provides us with an opportunity to face failure. Failure may be fragmented and scarred, but isn't it a precious wealth of life to find sweetness in bitterness and enjoy the scenery along the way? In the face of the long and short detours in life, no one should retreat or escape. Dare to face and try. Exercise spirit in setbacks and temper will in failures. Before you know it, you will become strong and brave. Youth will not stop because of advice, so that youth will take fewer detours. Maybe there are no flowers and applause on this road, but baby, you still have to keep going. As Zhang Ailing said, "How can you be steel bars and bones? How can you grow up without stumbling and hitting the wall?"