1. Only when a person sees his own scars can he know what pain is and what is right and wrong.

2. In order to prevent regrets and regrets in life, we should seize every opportunity to change our lives as much as possible.

3. There are brick walls blocking your dreams in life for a reason. These brick walls allow us to demonstrate just how much we want what we need.

4. People who have no ideals in life are pitiful people. --Turgenev

5. Ideals are like the sun, attracting all the mud and water on the ground.

6. There is no limit to human wishes and inexhaustible human strength.

7. A person without lofty ideals is like a machine tool without a motor.

8. "If you take it from above, you will get it from within; if you take it from below, you will get it from below; if you take it from below, you will get nothing." This means that if the initial expectations are first-class , the final effect achieved may only be mid-stream; if you expect only mid-stream at the beginning, the final effect achieved can only be low-stream; if you expect only low-stream, you may get nothing in the end.

9. A small grass can herald spring, a drop of water can moisturize, a ray of wind can bring refreshment, and a spark of fire can start a prairie fire. Although I am insignificant, I am valuable. Believe in yourself. My talents will be useful!

10. Those who kill their ideals are the worst murderers.

11. The rainbow after the rain is more beautiful, and the suffering life is more brilliant.

12. No matter where you work or what job you do, remember: work does not support idle people, and teams do not support lazy people. ***Mian with you! There is no ideal person, the ideal person is the person you love at this moment

1. Love is a matter of two people. If he is not worthy of your love, then please let go and give the two of you a chance to pursue happiness; if he is worthy of your love, then please affirm him, love him, care for him, and wait for him with your heart. I believe that the person you love will definitely Make you happy.

2. A man’s love is born from looking down, while a woman’s love is born from looking up. If love is like a mountain, then the higher a man goes, the more women he can look down on, and the higher a woman goes, the fewer men she can look up to.

3. Play your favorite song in your headphones and take a quiet walk. Suddenly, you feel that the world is passing you by in parallel. You feel that you are standing outside the world and looking at the past. A kind of ease and relaxation arises from the bottom of your heart, and you smile unconsciously, and this is happiness.

4. When walking on the road, setbacks are unavoidable, low points are inevitable, and isolation and loneliness go hand in hand; there are always times when you are misunderstood, there are always times when you rely on others, and there are always times when you are slandered and slandered by others. When plotting. At these times, you must know the truth of the ebb and flow, the troughs and crests. As long as you can wait patiently, endure the torture, and hold on to the bottom line, everything will prove that life will not abandon you, and fate will not abandon you.

5. We must remember that others are kind to us. Even a little bit of kindness should be kept in our hearts as a kind of gratitude and a kind of remembrance. And this kind of kindness is not taken for granted, but out of a kind of goodwill and love. Although sometimes your efforts are not directly proportional to your gains, you must firmly believe in your fundamental purpose of being a human being: truth, goodness, and beauty.

6. Listen to the music of your heart quietly without talking about customs, tolerate sorrow and joy without overstepping the boundaries.

7. It is your obligation to let other people’s bad behavior stay where it is without affecting you.

8. There is no ideal person. The ideal person is the person you love at this moment.

9. You must wait, don’t be disappointed, don’t hesitate. In such a big world and such a long life, there is always someone you want to treat gently.

10. Your life is like your home. Because of your lack of persistence, you let others come in and decorate it. But don’t forget that it is you who will live in it for a lifetime.

11. True love is not love at first sight, but love over time; true fate is not God’s arrangement, but your initiative; true inferiority is not that you are not good, but You think she is too good; real concern does not mean asking her to change if you think she is good, but that you are the first to notice her changes; the real contradiction is not that she does not understand you, but that you do not understand her. Be tolerant of her.

12. Many things are in our hands: for example, if you are happy, who will sympathize with your sadness if you are unhappy; for example, if you are strong, who will pity your cowardice if you are not strong; for example, if you work hard, you If you don’t work hard, who will stay with you; if you cherish it, if you don’t cherish it, who will waste their youth with you; if you are persistent, if you don’t persist, who will fight with you? Only by holding our destiny in our own hands, can we Find the sparkle of life.

13. Nietzsche: All good things approach their goals in twists and turns, all straightness is deceptive, all truth is curved, and time itself is a circle.

14. "When You Pass by My Bloom" by Zashi Ram Duoduo: Unless the lilies of the valley don't want to bloom by the road you pass by, I won't say anything; unless the moonlight won't bloom anymore. Wandering in the wine you have warmed, otherwise, I will not say; unless my fingers cannot rotate on the books you have read, otherwise, I will not say; unless you can see through me at a glance, otherwise, I will not say.

15. I am a tree that stands in time and misses you. The branches are silent because of too many worries. Whether you are happy or silent, I have lost the light and found peace.

16. The direction against the wind is more suitable for flying. I am not afraid of thousands of people blocking me, I am only afraid of surrendering myself!

17. Do you know what it feels like to miss someone, like drinking a glass of very cold water and then turning it into tears little by little over a long period of time.

18. When you are young, if you fall in love with someone, please treat him gently. No matter how long you have been in love, if you can always treat each other tenderly, then all the moments will be flawless and beautiful. If you have to separate, say goodbye properly and be grateful, thanking him for giving you a memory. When you grow up, you will know that when you look back, youth without resentment will have no regrets.

19. Take off your disguise, take off your baggage, throw away your worries, and embrace all the beauty of this world.

20. I am still just a blind spot in your mind, where irrelevant feelings are stored. One day I will finally be tired of walking and return to my mother's arms. She will touch my hair and say, silly boy, all that love and pain are fake.

21. The farthest distance in the world is not love or hate, but the familiar people gradually becoming strangers. Although the best time is always very short, we will all remember the touching moments we had.

22. Marcuse: People face many false needs. People are busy every day for false happiness. Their bodies are too busy and their minds are too idle.

23. The older you get, the more important you feel the importance of many basic principles of communication between people. Such as honesty, integrity, trust and kindness. Only by adhering to these basic principles can we truly be tolerant and peaceful in our hearts.

24. If your only tool is a hammer, you tend to see all problems as nails.

25. We don’t need to make life complicated, because it is already complicated. Sentences about passionate people being pitiful. Are you a passionate person?

If you rank love, life, property, reputation, and status, according to common sense, most people will rank life. in the first place, and love in the last place. Indeed, love is the most dispensable and insignificant thing in life. Many people do not know what love is throughout their lives, let alone taste it.

However, for people who are in love, perhaps love is something more important than life.

What is love? My understanding is a kind of emotion, an extreme love for someone. This kind of emotion is often beyond the control of one's own reason. It is crazy and passionate, but it is also short-lived and painful.

Love is not equal to love, it is not equal to the kind of affectionate love that helps each other, knows each other, and stays with each other. It is just a strong attraction, a kind of love that is caused by being strongly attracted by something in the other person. Uncontrollable emotions. So Shakespeare said: Love is just a kind of madness.

People who are struck by this kind of love are often passionate people, and every passionate person is often unfortunate.

In 1922, Xu Zhimo, who was passionate but failed in love, returned to Beijing after studying abroad and met Lu Xiaoman, the wife of his friend Wang Geng, who did not understand style or romance. As Zhang Ailing said: When you meet the person you want to meet among millions of people, in the endless wilderness of time for millions of years, there is neither a step too early nor a step too late. They met when everyone was in an emotional gap, and love fell on them, making their hearts boil. One is a romantic, suave, and always merciful recently divorced man, and the other is a married lady and a noble lady. In China in the 1920s, such love was undoubtedly deviant and despised. Their love encountered many criticisms and obstacles. These obstacles and the torment of lovesickness made the frail Lu Xiaoman fall ill several times. However, this huge wave of love is turbulent, and it sweeps through everyone related to it like a tsunami. No matter how their parents obstruct it, no matter how hard and soft their husbands are, the two people who are burned by the flame of love still overcome all kinds of difficulties. Difficulties and dangers come together.

Unfortunately, the two people who entered the marriage hall did not live a happy and sweet life from then on. Love always has a shelf life. No matter how strong and passionate the love was, it will always cool down one day.

Some people say that the only way to make a man love you forever is to make him look at you forever like a star and not be able to pick you up, just like Lin Huiyin to Xu Zhimo.

After getting Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo's feelings for Lu Xiaoman, who has become his wife, began to cool down, but his feelings for Lin Huiyin, the bright star he had been looking up to, gradually heated up.

He could not forget Lin Huiyin, so he never stopped chasing her. Being naturally passionate, he not only harbored Lin Huiyin in his heart, but also maintained extremely ambiguous relationships with other women. This was unacceptable to Lu Xiaoman, who loved Xu Zhimo deeply. She felt pain in her heart. The cause of the pain was not only Xu Zhimo's feelings, but also the disgust and contempt from Xu's father and mother. They could not accept this unruly daughter-in-law from beginning to end. The depressed Lu Xiaoman began to give up on herself, perhaps to escape something or to pursue something. She re-entered the social scene of the past and took drugs. Although Xu Zhimo persuaded and begged her several times to leave the corrupt life in Shanghai and go to Beijing with him, she never agreed.

Lu Xiaoman’s huge expenses put Xu Zhimo into deep embarrassment. Money made him anxious, but he had no choice but to write manuscripts desperately to earn royalties. In order to make money and meet his wife who was separated in two places, He flew around for free, and the love that was once in full swing cooled down, or was covered up by something. Deep in Xu Zhimo's heart, he actually still loves Lu Xiaoman deeply. It's just that she disappointed him so much, and he didn't know it, so why didn't he disappoint her?

In November 1931, Xu Zhimo once again begged Lu Xiaoman to go north, but Lu Xiaoman still did not agree. The frustrated Xu Zhimo angrily took the box and left. He wanted to take the China Airlines Jinan postal plane. She traveled north from Nanjing to attend Lin Huiyin's lecture on Chinese architectural art for foreign envoys at the Peking Union Small Auditorium that night. Unexpectedly, she was killed in a plane crash midway. Lu Xiaoman never expected that this farewell would become her and Xu Zhimo's eternal farewell.

Lu Xiaoman, who had always loved Xu Zhimo deeply in her heart, was in pain. After Xu Zhimo died, her biggest regret was that she did not agree to go to Beijing to live with him. Lu Xiaoman, who was extremely regretful, changed her mind. She had all the bad habits in the past and stuck to her love for Xu. She never married. At the age of 65, she died alone. The only last words she left behind was to bury her and Xu Zhimo together after her death. So she never married because she wanted to be buried with him after her death. Unfortunately, this wish never came true due to the strong opposition of the Xu family. The moment I read this paragraph, I burst into tears.

Every passionate person is unfortunate, just like Zhang Ailing. The moment she left Hu Lancheng, her blooming flower withered and withered forever, leaving her alone for half her life. And die; just like Yeats, he spent his whole life pursuing the hopeless love that he could never pursue.

On the contrary, people who are rational and able to control their emotions are happy. For example, Lin Huiyin is a smart and rational woman who will never be dazzled by love, let alone sacrifice for love. She also loved Xu Zhimo at first, but when she saw Xu Zhimo divorced his wife without mercy, she hesitated. Between Xu Zhimo and Liang Sicheng, although she knew in her heart that she liked Xu Zhimo more, she finally defeated her emotions with reason. She resolutely chose Liang Sicheng. No matter how Xu Zhimo pursued him later, she remained unmoved because she knew in her heart that she could not control such an emotional man like Xu. So I have a happy and happy life. True love is never crazy passion. Love should be mutual support, like still water running deep, but love is like a thunderstorm, a tsunami, and a hurricane, which can easily destroy people and cause them to be hurt.

If Lu Xiaoman had been like Lin Huiyin, able to control her emotions and not be emotional, she would be different from her, a Princeton University graduate with a bachelor's degree in West Point, who was not romantic but practical, and only knew how to study and work. What kind of perfect and enviable life would it be if the husband in a military academy lived quietly?

However, love has always been a crazy thing that is not easy to control. It only hits those passionate people. People who live in hope can still dance without music

1. Every life is beautiful, and no flower, no matter how small, will reject it.

2. Successful people do not win at the starting point, but at the turning point.

3. When arguing, the most difficult point to refute is silence.

4. My destiny is always different from their calculations. I don’t know if they calculated it wrong or if I lived it wrong.

5. The beauty of life comes from your love for life, and the innocence of friendship comes from your sincere treatment of your friends.

6. If we give our heart to others, we cannot take it back; if others give it to others, love will flow in the world.

7. Don’t live in other people’s mouths, don’t live in other people’s eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands.

8. If you don’t always think about whether you are happy, you will be happy.

9. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results.

10. There are only eight words in life. Joy, anger, sorrow, sorrow, and trouble. Joy and joy only account for two of the eight words. Just see through it.

11. People often lament the lack of beauty in life, because they lack a pair of eyes to discover beauty.

12. The direction against the wind is more suitable for flying. You are not afraid of thousands of people blocking you, but you are afraid of surrendering yourself.

13. No one is so rich that he does not need help from others, and no one is so poor that he cannot help others in some way.

14. Sunshine is under the blue sky; sweetness comes after hardship; failure is experience; success is brilliance.

15. The bitterness and sweetness of coffee does not depend on how to stir it, but whether to add sugar; the pain of a period of time does not depend on how to forget it, but on whether you have the courage to start over.

16. Don’t turn over the past page again. The dust will fall off your eyes.

17. Without great difficulties, there will be no great cause.

18. Not being able to tell the truth is a personal shame, and being unable to tell the truth is a shame to the times.

19. Those who dare not get angry are cowards, and those who do not get angry are wise.

20. The most beautiful scenery is what hurts the most, and the truest feelings are what hurt the most.

21. Wise men regard letting go as progress, fools regard letting go as despair. How much you can let go will bring you happiness.

22. Don’t lose faith when you are the saddest, and don’t forget setbacks when you are the happiest.

23. In some families, a few noodles can sustain the hot days; in some families, a pile of gold coins makes the days miserable.

24. If you want to succeed, there can be no excuses. If you have excuses, you will not succeed.

25. When I was a child, happiness was a very simple thing; when I grow up, simplicity is a very happy thing!

26. Hope and disappointment both torture people, but hope tortures people longer.

27. The road to success is always under construction.

28. The so-called eternal love is from the blooming to the falling of the flowers, from the beauty to the gray hair.

29. People who live in hope can still dance without music.

30. The time of a boy is like wandering. He spends a lot of time wandering and only uses a few moments to grow.