Our country’s culture is extensive and profound, and as descendants of Yan and Huang, we have always been deeply influenced by it.

And many truths have evolved into catchy sayings. People of the older generation understand them very well, but many young people can no longer understand them.

For example, this saying goes: Don’t make three friends when you are poor; don’t turn to three friends when you are in trouble.

Generally speaking, when we are poor, we should not make friends with these three types of people. And when we are in trouble, we should not turn to these three types of people.

Jack Ma also said in his speech before that in the early days of his business, he encountered various difficulties and twists and turns of this type of problems.

Now, let me explain and interpret the wisdom of the ancients with you.

1. Don’t make three friends when you are poor

1. Don’t make friends with depressed people

If you make friends with such people, you will not be able to instill positive thoughts in yourself. Energy, on the contrary, is likely to be affected by his low mood and attitude towards life, making him even less motivated and unable to work hard.

Such a friend is equivalent to holding you back, so if both of you are in the entrepreneurial period, and if one of you is not thinking about making progress or seeking improvement all day long, then I hope you will You can draw a clear line with him as early as possible to avoid being affected by him.

2. Don’t make friends who share the same problem

Everyone’s friends have their own different situations. Maybe this friend’s life itself is already very difficult.

If two people just feel that you are in the same boat at this time, complain to each other, and then feel sorry for each other, and as time goes by, they can encourage each other and promote each other to work hard together. .

It’s okay to get it, but if neither of the two people has changed much and it’s still like this, it can only be counterproductive. Therefore, people who share the same illness may not necessarily become true friends.

3. Don’t make friends with people who are complimentary on the surface but slanderous behind the scenes

In our daily life, there are many people like this who do one thing in front of others but another behind the scenes. If you have friends in front of you, When you both slander your same friends, and then act very nice in front of your friends.

Please stay away from such people. You should not make close friends with such people. Maybe they have slandered you behind your back many times. So no matter what, you can't make friends with such people.

2. Don’t ask for help from three people when you are in trouble

1. Don’t ask for help from the people you have helped.

At this time, many friends will definitely be confused. I originally helped him because of Meiliang, and he is considered a benefactor. Why can't I ask him when I have difficulties?

The main thing is to make the person you helped think more about the purpose of the help you gave him at that time.

If someone knows that you are in trouble, they will definitely lend a helping hand to help you as soon as possible, and will not wait until you ask them. A person who knows how to be grateful will help me in exchange for three points for you. Instead of waiting for you to shamelessly ask him.

2. Don’t ask for people who look down on you.

There is no need to make friends with people who look down on you. As the saying goes, "A man has gold at his knees." Although it may not necessarily make you kneel down to seek his help, this sense of humiliation is the same as the one you have already had. Kneeling down makes no difference. When people live in this world, the only thing left is their dignity.

It doesn’t matter if you have no money or are in trouble, there is still a chance to make a comeback. But if your dignity is gone in front of someone who looks down on you, then it is really gone. And if this continues, he will look down on you even more and not even treat you as a human being. So, it’s up to you to think whether you want it or not.

3. Don’t seek people who will run away if they see you in trouble.

If there is someone around you who immediately cuts off ties with you and hides away from you when they see you in trouble, then even though this kind of person has not hurt you, it is still best not to interact with them. And these relationships are usually very weak.

For such a person, we should not even think about it, and do not beg him, because begging is in vain. Such a person has been avoiding you for a long time. Even if you take the initiative to come, he will reject you for various reasons.

After such careful analysis, the sayings and famous sayings passed down by the ancients are the crystallization of the wisdom and life experience of the ancients. It makes sense and will be of great help to us in the future.

In fact, there are many wisdoms of the ancients, such as "If you don't borrow four things, your family will be ruined if you borrow them", "If you are poor, don't do three businesses, if you don't have money, don't do three businesses", etc. It sounds like It’s strange but it makes perfect sense if you interpret it carefully.