1. Dont Ask For Help knows how to be kind to others. The worst thing is fear of being known.
The stupidest thing in life is to hear about yourself. The worst thing in life is talking about others.
The best thing in the world is to be attractive. The reason why sages are sages is just to attract people from all over the world to do good.
Don't be patient when you come, but be prepared when you want to stay. Is to think about hiding, is to think about prevention, such as fire overflow, obstacles are difficult.
5. A high-caliber article, good at life, is famous enough, but not good at life, is enough to cause great disaster.
It is adults who can protect others, and villains who are protected by others.
How proud a talented person is, Yu Yue's pride means that he is incompetent.
And "Yan's Family Instructions". The following is the catalogue.
Catalogue of Yan Jiaxun (Yan Zhitui, a litterateur of Southern and Northern Dynasties)
● Order first
● Godson II
● Brothers are the third.
● Marry the fourth.
● Managing the family is the fifth.
● Pneumatic drill six
● Muxian No.7 Middle School
● Learn eight.
● Article 9
● Tenth in name only.
● Eleventh involves.
● Save trouble. twelfth
● Stop at the thirteenth place.
Low Commandment SoldierNo. 14
● Yangxin XV
● Return to 16th place.
● Written evidence 17
● Eighteenth phonetic symbol
Acrobatics 19
● Last twenty times
Zhu Zi's Family Instructions (Zhu)
Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, and be neat inside and outside.
When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will behave well.
It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.
It is better to prepare for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.
Self-help must be frugal, and banquets must not be delayed.
The utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold; The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.
Don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land.
Three aunts and six wives are the media of prostitution and theft; Beautiful girls and concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir.
Don't be handsome for a servant, and don't make up for wives.
Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice must be sincere; Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics.
The life cycle is simple, and the godson should have an upright side.
Don't covet unexpected wealth and don't drink too much.
Trade with your shoulders, don't take advantage; When you see poor relatives and neighbors, you must warm your shirt.
Mean marriage will not last long; Lun Chang is a good boy and will die soon.
Brothers and uncles must decorate widows more; Young and old, both inside and outside, should be strict with themselves.
Listen to the woman say, dear flesh and blood, is it a husband? If you value wealth and ignore your parents, you can't be the son of human beings.
Marry a woman, choose a good husband, and do not seek re-employment; It's not too thick to marry a daughter-in-law and beg a lady.
It is most shameful to see wealth and flattery; Being arrogant when you are poor is nothing more than meanness.
If you quit fighting at home, the lawsuit will be fierce; Don't talk too much in life, you will suffer.
Don't bully widows by force; Don't be greedy and kill birds.
If you are eccentric, you will regret many mistakes; Laziness and self-indulgence are hard.
If you are naughty, you will be bored for a long time; Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other.
Listen to the speech lightly, be aware of unreasonable complaints, and think twice patiently;
If you argue about something, you must think calmly.
Don't forget to help without thinking.
Leave room for everything and be proud of it.
People are happy, not jealous; People should not be happy when they are in trouble.
The good that you want to be seen by others is not true, and the evil that you are afraid of being known is the great evil.
Seeing the color, I reported my wife and daughter; Hide resentment with arrows in the back, delaying future generations.
Family harmony, although embarrassing, is also full of joy;
The Chinese class ended in the morning, but there was nothing left. I was complacent.
Reading is aimed at sages, not disciples; If you are an official, you will keep your country.
Keep quiet and listen to the weather forecast. If you do this, you will be very close.
Huang Huaining's Family Instructions
1, a loving family.
2, timely response, timely completion.
3, more labor, more exercise, more activities.
4. Do not hurt, hinder, complain or rely on.
5. Each person intensively reads five books every year.
6. Be considerate of six relatives and help others.
7, colorful world, without losing personality, adhere to the dream life.
Harvard Family Guidance Catalogue (Baynard)
Happiness-the chord of life.
Fraternity-the compassion to soothe all beings.
Responsibility-the great consciousness of selfless dedication
Survival-Eileen Brockovich's Conquest
Humor-with a shallow sarcastic smile
Respect-equality and pious awe
Concentration-the concentration of dripping water wears away the stone
Toughness-tenacity and fearless courage
Faith-Raise the wings of the soul
Cherish-the love given by heaven and earth
Lu you Jia Xun
Original: People who are sharp after life are the easiest to go bad. If there is, my father and brother should be worried, not happy. Always add a simple bundle to familiarize yourself with Confucian classics, cultivate their generosity and respect, and don't let them travel with those superficial people. After so many years, my interest is self-contained. Otherwise, it is not the only thing to worry about. When I say this, we must be careful and don't regret it in the future.
Young people with quick thinking are the easiest to learn bad things. If this happens, the elders should regard it as a worrying thing, not a comforting thing. We should always restrain and discipline them, stipulate that they should be familiar with Confucian classics, teach them to be tolerant, kind, respectful and cautious, and don't let them associate with frivolous and shallow people. In this way, after more than ten years, ambition and interest naturally developed. Otherwise, there is more than one thing to worry about. My words are young people's medicine and needles for treating diseases.