Some people’s aesthetics are based on TV idols, so those who are different from the idols are not beautiful. Some people's aesthetics are based on reality, so if something is different from their family, friends, etc., or is beyond their cognition, it is not beautiful. Some people's aesthetics are based on the spiritual level, so anything without thoughts is not beautiful. So some people think he is ugly, but some people say he is kind of handsome.
Some people are subjective and some people are objective. Therefore, it is important to cultivate the correct aesthetics. That requires more study and more practice.
So, if you have the correct aesthetics, you can distinguish whether he is ugly or handsome. Some beauty can be discovered in an instant, while some beauty takes time to test. So, don't be anxious and slowly discover whether he is ugly or handsome.