Therefore, the epiphany method of Zen is not only a way of thinking, but also must be "divorced from words and thoughts" to see sex. The so-called "words must be kept, and actions must be fruitful." 」
What is self? That is, everyone has an inherent Buddha nature, that is, truth, sincerity, dharma body, dharma environment, dharma nature, purity of mind, self-knowledge and Tathagata hidden in Buddhism. That is, Master Huineng, the sixth ancestor, said when he was enlightened: when the self is pure, when the self is immortal, when the self is self-sufficient, when the self is unshakable, the self gives birth to various dharmas.
How to treat sex? "Let go of all famous sayings and distractions", return to the light and look at the present, that is, "empty self-nature".
Amitabha!