? Zi sees Nanzi, but Zi Lu doesn't say anything. The master pointed at it, saying: Give it to those who refuse, and God will hate it! I hate it!
? Confucius went to see Nanzi, and Zilu was very unhappy when he learned about it. Confucius swore: If I have done anything indecent, let heaven reject me! Let heaven reject me!
? Enlightenment: People's words are awesome. What makes people's words awesome is that they are indistinguishable from right and wrong, which makes people unable to distinguish between right and wrong. Although some things are just hearsay, they can hurt people spiritually and invisibly through word of mouth. Even a calm person like Confucius has to swear by heaven in the face of disciples' doubts, in order to clear his innocence. This shows how destructive and powerful human words are.
? It is often said that poisonous snakes or other animals are the most poisonous things in the world, which are the summary of people after being hurt. In fact, the most poisonous things in the world are not poisons, but people's rumors, which can destroy a person's spirit, discredit him first, then become decadent and desperate, and finally embark on the road of no return.
For example, Leslie Cheung, who is active on the screen, and so on, after being attacked by public opinion, he became desperate and committed suicide by jumping off a building! It has become a regret so far! A generation of talented people, favored by heaven, will never die again!
? In real life, people's words are awesome, and they all exist in any corner around us. How should we face and deal with them is very important. We should have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. If you are attacked by others one day, you should take it lightly. Why do others attack you? Because you moved his cheese for justice, you will attack each other, because people's hearts and humanity are selfish, although fame and fortune. But people can't lose the pure land that lives in their hearts and bones. If they lose it, they will never be happy! Then you will always look for some support from the outside world to meet your own needs!
? Confucius is wise. He knows that people's words are to be feared, but he knows that rumors should stop at the wise. No matter how black and white are reversed, black is always black and white is always white. Therefore, when people are attacked by people's words, as long as they are fearless and treat them correctly, even the extremely vicious rumors will disappear into the invisible, and they will also have a peaceful and uncontested world.
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